A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have this abusive ex boyfriend whom i been with him for 2 years and after i decided that i had enough of insults, pain and hurt i broke up with him then the drama started as i never excepted he turned into a very obssesed person that may beg and plead, cry to get back to him and if i dont accept he may call me names or punch me till the day i reported him to police. He's been warned not to contact me yet after a few weeks he contacted me again with crazier drama!I made my dad talk to him nicely coz i became very scared of him in case he would hurt me or something and he accepted this time not to contact me and now passed few weeks he didn't contact. is it over coz im still scared as i leave alone and he is away now for vacation but coming after few weeks back to the same city...The new happenings i found out that he contacted my father while ago and asked to meet up with him yet i asked dad not to meet him but he did meet him !!and after few days he told me that they talked for a while and didn't give me full details about the meeting but the conclusion that my father asked him to back off for a while till im done of my exams and he said he was crying as i got from what he said and that he shouldn't contact me till he ask my father .he didn't contact me but i want to understand what is happening and why he did that ?please i need to understand whats going on !!
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 I think your father was just trying to protect you more than anything, he didn't want to see his daughter hurting like you are, so he went and told your ex to back off.
Glad you are rid of him for the moment anyway. If you are still scared, talk to someone about it, the more people that know, the more people you have around to go places with you, i don't think your ex would dare challenge you if you were not alone.
Keep your chin up, and stay strong...
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