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writes:Why do women/girls criticize guys when they are just as bad as us? For example: "Guys only care about looks" "all guys are dogs" etc. Reply to this Question
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (20 December 2010):
 Wowsers!!!!Pffffft!!!! I'm with Chigirl...
Not all women call men derogatory names. And not all men call women insulting things. I think that there are hypocrits in both genders, as well as good. :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 To the anon who started with this: "Its called the Double standard. Why? well look at this."
Oh heebeezeeses. Thats all I've got to say to that load.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): Are girls hypocrites? Yes.
They'll go off on guys for thinking a pornstar is 'hot,' but turn around and drool over an 'oh-so-hot' male celebrity.
Double standard, as a previous poster said.
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reader, mikeymike +, writes (19 December 2010):
mikeymike is verified as being by the original poster of the questionP.S:P.S: Happy birthday to me :) its dec 19 XD
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reader, mikeymike +, writes (19 December 2010):
mikeymike is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol guys please no arguing. That's why I said "women are just as bad as us(guys)"Besides the word "c*nt" is taken more seriously than "d*ck".I try my best not to be hypocritical and stereotypical.And I've never said "c*nt" I don't believe in insulting women/girls unless they curse me out.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (19 December 2010):
 P.S. Some of those teenage girls, correction a lot, know those boy bands songs word for word. Hence, those boy band's sky high record sales..surely it's not boys or men buying them.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (19 December 2010):
@ reader anon, when men call females c*nts they're definitely not referring to their female anatomy . You also forgot to add the second part of 3. about men. Sure, men don't date for about 6 months after that, but did you forget to calculate in those one night stands??Actually, Twilight is popular because it's based off of an excellent book series..that's why majority of women flock to it to see if it is just as good as the books. Ok it has some young eye candy, that's just a bonus. Teenage girls flock to boy band concerts and Twilight showing just for the scenery. We can sit here and point fingers back and forth, but it's "some"women are hypocrites. In fact" some" men are just as guilty as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): Its called the Double standard. Why? well look at this.
1.) Woman get extremly offended if you call them "C_nts"
but a c_nt is a simple word for the female sex organ.
BUT
Woman call guys Dicks all the time, when infact thats the equal to the word c_unt, since dick is the male sex organ.
2.) Woman constantly think men are Dogs when More woman cheat,lie and use people. Im not saying guys dont do it either.
3.) When a man really loves a woman he takes a break up Hard. Some men dont date for over 6 months after that. While woman Will run to another guy as soon as they can, even the SAME DAY.
4.) Woman are 1000 times more shallow then men. Think about it. Boy Bands generate millions, not because of music but their LOOKS. Woman will flock in lines to see movies because it has an actor who they think is attractive. I dont see too many men running to see Love movies because an attractive woman is in it. Take a look at Twillight, It wasnt famous until AFTER they attached images of attractive? men to the series.
All and all its just the double standard of life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010):
I think both genders probably have equal parts hypocrisy by nature. But in the last 40 years I think men have been forced to admit and give up more of their hypocrisies than women have.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (18 December 2010):
Some girls do, some don't, just like some guys do and some don't. The important thing here is to never generalize. There's no such thing as "all women" or "all men". We're all individuals, no two the same.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 Both guys and girls critisize the opposite sex with stereotypes. I think it just makes those people feel better about how they have been hurt in the past. The best thing you can do is be one of those people who doesn't fall into stereotyping the opposite sex and hope that they stop for you too.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 They don't see it like that. A lot of guys are the same, they see flaws in girls but none in them selves.
Not every person is the way they are stereotyped to be. Not all girls are bitchy, obsessed with their looks and love the colour pink. In the same way not all guys are shallow and competitive sports players.
Both sexes will always critisise eachother and it's something which won't ever really stop, but most people will realise that not everyone is like that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): Hey, I'm a girl and you should be glad to hear I don't think that!!I can admit that I used to, and I do feel really bad about that. It was ages ago, and I was in a bit of a stress over some guy that I liked, but when I kind of lost it with one of my close guy-mates, we talked for a while about why I didn't understand guys. He spoke to me about how he doesn't understand girls and basically we came to the conclusion that both genders are as bad as eachother.I definitely think SOME girls are too quick to judge guys. I think that LOTS of girls do have these certain expectations, lets say, about what they want a guy to be like or how they want him to react but I think you should remember that we aren't ALL like that!!Just learn not to expect much from anyone and then you'll be less annoyed when a girl does judge you and hopefully, it will make your day when she turns out to be a lot better than that :) x
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