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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:HI!Ok, so there's this guy who I'll call X for the time being. And I first met him in my second year of university and we became friends around May. He is a really cool guy, quite flirty and all, and he teased me quite often. So I had one friend called Lucy who had a crush on him and got one of my close friends to talk to him on her behalf. So my friend mentioned Lucy to him, and he kind of shrugged it off and asked whether I wouldnt be a better girl instead.I just laughted and said nothing.So that same night, as I was going back home, he asked me out. But i was just coming out of one bad relationship and i thought he was just trying to get lucky , so I said no. And we were still good friends after that , and then in August he came over to my house a lot to see me and my housemate. and one day i was tidying up my room and he asked me if I would consider going out with him. And my housemate had just told me that he had asked one of her friends out , so I said no, I wouldnt . But we were still friends and he didnt stop talkking to me and saying hi. He was still teasing me about various things, like my ex-bf, and why my room is always untidy. Somewhere along the line I started liking him a lot.So one night, a guy friend of mine told me that X liked me. And suddenly it seemed to make sense, because there was a time X invited me over to his house to watch Gossip Girl and he was being so sweet that it struck me that we were acting like a couple.And he tried telling me that maybe I should let go of my ex and move on to someone else. But I still just wanted to be friends, and truthfully I just wasn't ready, because I don't want to to be the type of person blames her new bf for the mistakes of her ex. And now every time I call him to come to my house just to chill, he says he'll call me back and let me know , and he never does. I even saw him at a party recently and I said hi but he ignored me. Ok , maybe he didnt see me say hi because the club was dark and all, but he saw me at other times and just walked on. I really don't know why he's being this way though!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): hes being this way because you rejected him so many times plain and simple everyone hates rejection and girls usually dont seem to realize that guys hate it a lot to... if there is a time that you could talk to him where he cant get away i would do that
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