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writes:I'm not sure what to do. I recently made contact with a guy that i have liked for a while, and he has said that he wants me to send a picture of myself to him. He hasn't said whether he means a rude one or a regular picture, so i'm assuming he means a regular one. Do you think i should send him one? I think it's kind of an unusual thing to ask. We have spoken on the phone so far, and we are going to meet up soon. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): oh, i also wanted to say that, yes, we have met in person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): I have known him for a while but we have only had each others phone numbers for a week, so he doesn't know me very well. He also wants to be my FWB, which is why i am wondering why he has asked me to send a photo. But, as i said, he didn't ask for a naughty picture. He knows a lot of people that i know too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): Have you met in the flesh or does be not know who you are? If he does not remember seeing you or does not know you directly, then send him a pleasant ordinary photo. If he does know you, it does sound strange - he already knows what you look like.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Do you know this guy personally and have met him before? I don't understand why he would request a picture, I suppose he wants to see if you still look the same as before. That's the only thing I could think of it. A rude picture, do you mean a naughty one? Now if he's requesting one of those, that sounds a bit perverted and tacky. I would send him a regular one on your desktop, and leave it at that.
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reader, pixiegirls +, writes (19 December 2010):
 It isn't unusual at all for someone to ask for picture of you when you have been communicating. It gives one a better idea of you being able to match a picture with a voice. I am speaking of a normal photo though.....for a guy to ask for a more x-rated picture of you without you really knowing him or being involved in a relationship is just being disrespectful to you and towards any kind of relationship you might ever have thought that you both were heading towards. Make sure you send a recent picture as well. No one wants to see a photograph of someone that is 5 or 10 years old and misrepresents how you look now. It would also be appropriate for you to ask for a "normal" picture of him in return.
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