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26-29,
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writes:I have a friend who is a girl that I met this year. She is dating one of my friends and I get along with her and make her laugh a lot. I found out that she is moving (she is moving today actually) and I like her a lot. I didn't want to say anything to her since it could piss my friend off and because I wasn't sure how her reaction would be. After I left school, I figured that I would probably never see her again or it would be very unlikely. Do I find out her number and tell her that I liked her, say goodbye and end it like that or just say good bye? When I found out she was moving, it kinda ruined the excitement for winter break and now that the break has started, al I can think about is her. Any help? Reply to this Question
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reader, Abella +, writes (18 December 2010):
 She's leaving today. So has lots to think about and lots of stress. And she already has her own special friend. Thus her special friend is no doubt devastated.
So keep it simple, and don't complicate it by professing more by blurting out more than is required. And might even result in others laughing behind your back.
Instead be more subtle so she'll recall you as a classy cool guy. Wish her all the best, and the hope that move goes well. Then mention, in passing, and just casually, that 'maybe our paths will cross sometime in the future.'
That you way you leave the door open for the future. It's not threatening to her
to existing friend, and you are not
professing your own interest too
prematurely. There will be other opportunities
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