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anonymous
writes:hey everyone! so i have this problem...kinda...so im 14...long story short...i had sex with this guy..."for fun" and that was the first and only time i did it...and it was great! and fun! and amazing! but heres the thing...i cant have sex with him again..it was just a one time thing...and i am so so so "sexually frustrated" because im not what one would call outgoing...infact im actually one of the most awkward , self-concious people in the entire world so i dont know how to "get guys"...and i want them soooo bad! and i dont know! can someone give me advice to either get a guy or teach me how to not be soo needy?P.s I'm not a slut. im just a teenage girl who got horny and now needs a boyfriend to make her feel pretty.
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reader, OliviaAna +, writes (18 December 2010):
 What? You should focus on your education instead of boys being in your pants. Pretty is an outside thing. Clear your heart about that and seek self-help or therapy asap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): You are horny and you are so sexually frustrated.
At your age you do not need to act on your desires by seeking out others, to slate your need, for it will give you a bad name amongst the boys.
Get it out of your system by masturbating until you orgasm, when it suits you, as often as you wish, and when it is convenient for you to do so.
In the end regular masterbation will ensure you know your body better, and what it is capable of, using varying techniques. Do not masterbate exactly the same way each time. Use your mind and be inventive to bring yourself to orgasm. The techniques you develop will help you later, to be a better lover. When you are of legal age you will be far more accomplished than if you just wait for fumbling boys to practise on you with their very imperfect techniques.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 rcn is totally spot on, I'll just take it a step further :
why do you need a guy to feel pretty, indeed,
and why do you need to feel pretty to begin with.
I mean, being pretty is an added bonus, sure, but I wonder if you are equally concerned about being perceived as intelligent. Or accomplished. Or fun, or a heart of gold.
There are so many reachable goals in life, why the first that comes to your mind is "feeling pretty ".
Reminder : at 14 you are not supposed to have sex at all, by law, and you may unwillingly create a lot of trouble for your partners - like jail, juvenile or inscription in the register of sex offenders.
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reader, rcn +, writes (18 December 2010):
 You need a guy to make you feel pretty? WHY? If that's what sex does for you, you have other things that you need to be looking at. Why are you self conscious? What are you self conscious about? Begin focusing on these issues, and about being whole within yourself and you won't have to attract guys, they'll be lining up just to have a chance to get to know you.
Remember this, if you have a guy for sex to make yourself feel pretty, you won't experience anything real in a relationship.
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