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writes:hey,i don't know if this really counts as question suitable for this site or not, but anyway.i've been in a really good mood lately, i mean really good. the 'i can barely contain my happiness' good mood. which i'm not complaining about, not in the slightest. but it's making me a lot more outlandish and more open than i'd like to be.i'm flirting with people alot more openly than i'd like, including my work colleagues and to a small extent, my boss. i'm only 16, so it's obviously not very good when the youngest work colleague is 18 next week, and my boss is 30.it's also not helping as i fancy someone i work with, and i don't want him to think i don't like him, or worse that i'm some sort of floozy.also i've been getting loads of energy lately. and my pain threshold has gotten better (i do a lot of martial art training, and i'm not that good, but i keep trying, which obviously leads to injuries, but i'm falling harder with less pain)could this just be like a second phase of puberty?and if it is could you please offer some advice on how to control myself.thanks in advance,anon x
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reader, Blod +, writes (18 December 2010):
 You're still very young and you're still going through puberty, so you're hormones are going to be slightly erratic. It's possible that your good mood and flirting is down to that. There's nothing wrong with being happy of course, but the flirting, you'll have to tone down.
It's difficult to stop yourself, but you're clearly aware that flirting with co-workers and your boss isn't good. It's good that you recognize that. It'll take time, but you have to control yourself and stop yourself from flirting. When you're at work, remember that you're in a professional environment; no matter what your job is, you're there to earn money. So talk and work with the others by all means, but concentrate on getting on with your job and stay focused on that. Not easy, I know, but there's not much else you can do. Good luck.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 You might be able to classify this in the category of puberty but not a second one. Puberty can be years long so your body could still be changing. As for controling yourself you just need to think about what you are doing first. Make a mental note to yourself about not being flirty so much.
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