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writes:I have been married for 25 years. I always loved my high school boyfriend and kept him in my heart and thoughts. But lost touch with him after he left for college. We recently reconnected and I found out he never forgot me either we have had a couple of encounters in the past year. He lives in a different state than I do. He is also married. I have fallen in love all over again with him but he has two young children with his wife and is committed to being there for them until they are grown. How do I get him out of my system... A system he was never out of it in the first place. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): you are afraid to lose touch for the next 25 years, how about any fear ending your 25 yr marriage because of your affair?? have you thought of this?this man is wise - he knows NOTHING will come about as a result of this cheating. therefore he has CHOSEN HIS WIFE AND KIDS INSTEAD OF A DREAM. look how worng this is on so many levels:he is marriedhe has 2 kidshe wants to stay with his wife. you dont seem to get it!!!!!!he lives 2 states away.i admire him for sticking to his marriage vows now. at least he knows whats important and whats not. perhaps you need to have a critical look at your life and consider ending your marriage. then you can act like the carefree immature teenager you want to be.time for a reality check, hun. 25 years vs a pipe dream.LoveGirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI believe that but I can't make myself let go. I am afraid of losing touch for another 25 years.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): He is taking you back to a time when you were young and that type of early love stays with you forever. But will it translate into anything real in the here and now? That's the thing. It sounds pretty impossible, he has a young family and you live at a distance. You are married too. Realistically you can't be together. Keep your memories in tack and don't destroy them by chasing something that can not go anywhere. You are looking to recapture the past and its just not possible, as much as you would love it to be so.
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