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female
age
51-59,
*ngelindisguise
writes:Hi I have been in a serious relationship with a lovely man for 2 years. We live in separate houses as I have two kids to my ex and he has 6 kids to his 3 ex's. He visits me 3 times a week, comes for dinner and breakfast, uses the computer, swims in the pool, takes a shower, sleeps over, uses my cell to call his kids, etc. He basically costs me money for food, power, cell etc. I also recently fed his dog and horse from my own pocket. He has moved closer to me, just a 2 minute walk away and has been coming for meals alot more. Also his son and friend came for dinner last week. Last night his son asked me if I will put on Xmas Dinner for him and his girlfriend. I lost the plot and told my partner and his son that I can hardly afford to feed myself and my kids let alone them! I also did not cook him dinner last night...surprise surprise, my man walked out the door and said I was negative! Am I wrong???
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reader, Fionnlagh +, writes (19 December 2010):
 He doesn't sound like a man at all.He likes what he can get from you because he thinks you’re easy. Where the hell has your pride gone lady? Put your foot down, it’s YOUR house, and let him know what YOU want from him and what YOU know is wrong and what's right. You deserve so much better than a half-way man who isn’t even committed to you. This can be seen in his own kids, and the way they too use you, and expect to be treated like they've deserved it for nothing. Pretty negligent parenting. How can this be right or a good thing? You have a voice that needs to be heard and not ignored, so use it. In this instance, I think you are being used and he is 100% wrong to treat you like he is. (no way is this a misunderstanding on his part) Have a good serious talk with him, or yell your heart and mind off and let him storm out like a bitch, again.Good luck, and talk to your friends more about this.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 Nope. Sounds like he's mooching off you. You need to tell him that this has got to stop, and you're not a doormat.
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