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51-59,
anonymous
writes:This goes out to married men:How can a married man tell his other woman he loves her so much when he sets boundaries and off limits discussion to protect his wife and family?When you say you love your other woman, what kind of love this is when it is with limitations? Am I right to feel that other women are just for sex? If so, isn't this misleading? A false hope telling I LOVE YOU but restricted in so many ways. Where is the love on this kind of relationship then? How can you tell someone I love you when there is nothing a married man can offer?Just feeling confused about this kind of behavior.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 If he is with the other woman, he has already proven himself to be deceitful in regards to his wife and children. In doing so, and knowing that, it would be in a way ignorant for the other woman to believe that what he tells her would be any less of a lie. You gamble when you're with a married man. Generally the married man that has the other woman is not looking at replacing what he already has, he looking for sex to fill something he feels he may need that he's not getting at home. Or he may simply want variety.
We hear so many times the promise to leave the wife and kids to begin a new with the other woman, but the end result never takes place. It's likes saying, "I'll tell you what you want to hear, as long as I can get in your pants." If the other woman is looking for something solid, that's hers, she must begin by dating a man that is not married, or pay the price of being in a friendship that's only sex based.
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