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anonymous
writes:Hi all. i'm very confused about something. Last night i slept next to a guy i recently met and i let him finger me however i didnt bleed. I hav never had sex before. Am i still a virgin? are two fingers enough to break the hyman?
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reader, snofaul  +, writes (5 October 2009):
Whether you've had vag/penis penetration, oral, fingering, or whatever.. you're status of 'virgin or non-virgin' really depends on you. Most people will still call themselves virgins if they've never had vag/penis penetration [even if they've done everything else!]
So yea.. up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2009): Agreed... penis in vigina required. For gay men, penis in anus... for Lesbians... hummmm... good question... I suppose penetration is still required... that that's an interesting shade of gray...
Having oral sex is sex, but one can remain a virgin and still give and recieve oral. Giving and receiving anal IMO should cause one to loose their V-Card.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): One finger is enough.Q: Is a sexually active homosexual male, who has had oral and anal sex with several men, but never had vaginal sexual intercourse, a virgin? I think if you ask this man he would say no.Q: Is a sexually active lesbian, who has had oral sex with numerous women, but never had vaginal sexual intercourse, a virgin? I think if you ask this woman she would also say no.When President Bill Clinton received oral sex from Monica Lewinski the definition of what defines "sexual relations" came into question. I believe the general concensus of the public was that he had sex with Monica. As such, if it were the first sexual enounter for both of them, they would not be considered a virgin.You are no longer a virgin when you have experienced your first sexual experience with another person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): I can't believe how often people ask this on here, but yeah, you have to have sexual intercourse to lose your virigity. Losing your virginity isn't the term for the hymen breaking, it's used the describe the first time you have sexual intercourse i.e. a penis enters you x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): you dont lose your virginity when you break your hymen, you lose it when it's penetrated by a penis - sexual intercourse.If you dont know that then you shouldnt be doing anything sexual. Learn the facts first
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reader, Lola1  +, writes (18 September 2009):
 Horseback riding can break a hymen.
You are still a virgin until you have sexual intercourse. The bleeding is not like a period. It's pretty minor, so even when you break your virginity, don't expect a big flow.
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