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writes:dear cupisto ladiesme and my girlfriend we have problems,and its all because of me, i have treated her badly for the past two years, so bad, and we both responsible for our problems,that it hurts me now, we spoke about it, and she told me that she needs some time to heal from the pains that i have caused, she had secrificed a lot in our relationship, i want to make it up for her, for all the pains that i have caused, i have apologized,i agreed to give her some space, because i could see everything that she is talking about, but now, she doesnt respond to my messages nor call me, i am starting to think that this has to do with morethan just what i did, i think she might be cheating on cheated on me, cause we live far from each other, i dont know, can any lady tell me how does it feel like being abused by the person you love, cause i want to know if this is really about all the pains or there is more to that, cause she is so distance to me, ilove her and need her in my life. i have made mistakes and i have accepted them, but she just keep being distance to me, we spoke about this two weeks ago. she told me that everything will be fine,but i dont know, the more i dont talk to her the more it hurts. i want her back in my life, i dont know what to do? please help,
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): she asked for SPACE!!! Dont keep calling and texting. Think about it. 1) she trusted you~you abused her. 2)she gave you TWO years to change~you blew it. 3) she left and asked for space~ you harrass her! After all that all you can think about is how bad you feel and that she might dare to move on? Get some help becuse you still don't get it! 3 strikes and you're OUT!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009):
Yes, abuse is bad, if this what you are asking. yes, women leave because of that.
What do you mean "we both responsible for that". She didn't abuse you, how is she responsible for that?
may be she did found someone who is not abusing her, treats w/respect. i don't think you have much saying in it anymore. She probably understood that 2 years of abuse is enough for her, and left the situation.
There is nothing you really can do here. She is acting aloof for a reason. You already talked, and then she left.
the worst you can do is to harass her w/phone calls
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): You abused her.
You no longer deserve her. Thats your punishment. Leave her alone.
Get help.
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