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Should I leave her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - Ok, heres the things. I have been dating my current girlfriend for about 1.5 years. For like the past half year she never wants to do anything any more, all she wants to do is watch tv and sleep. Don't get me wrong, when i get off work, I like to just relax for a while and do ... (186 words

Does she want me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am a lesbian and I have a lesbian (school/neighbor/vacinity/ grew up) friend that we recently remet after over 20 years. She has a girlfriend of seven years and they live together. We email each other a lot and have been out twice and both times we talk till four or five ... (154 words

Although we've broken up I have this feeling in my gut that he still loves me and that this can still work.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and i have been going at it for quite sometime. We dated in 07, and broke up seven months later. We been trying to work things out ever since. Its been on and off over and over again. Sometimes i feel like its not worth the time to be fussing and fighting with ... (381 words

Hopelessly in love...with a player.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

26 June 2009 (? age 36-40 - Ok first of all, i'm a 22 year old virgin. i've never had a boyfriend and i had my first kiss just last year at 21. i've always been pretty shy especially when it comes to talking to guys. this is gonna be long, but please help me. here goes...about a year ago, i started w... (1001 words

All he ever did was break my heart...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - I recently split up with my bf, I had only been with him for 3 months, and the last of which doesnt really count as I was ignored completely. However, the previous month, I was seeing him whilst he was still with his girlfriend. I thought that we were perfect for each other, ... (205 words

I found an email written by my husband to his ex saying he wanted her bad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - Couple of months ago I went online to pay my phone bill and I saw that me husband used like 230 text messages, I was wondering whom he is texting to, as he is not a big texter and it was to a same number. He was texting every single day and actually called that number at 3 am ... (376 words

Is my ex over me? I'm not sure why he still wants to be in my life.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - My b/f and I broke up mainly due to an outside event. An ex fiance of 6 months ago who when he found out i was happy and with someone else keep staulking me. My b/f told me to get a restraining order but I did not and he thought I was being disrepectful. Well anyway months ... (359 words

My parents don't like him because he lacks motivation! How can I get them to change their mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have a true love story......we met online and i got lucky. well my parents loved him at first and then after 4 months they started to say he doesnt have a car, and he doesnt have a desent job.....but the working world is harsh and i tried to explain to them ... (102 words

Is it safe to delay your period with birth control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - Ok so totally random question but I heard it you're on birth control, you can delay your period if you take active pills during the week of nonactive pills..is this true? and if it is... is it safe? ... (38 words

Why is he making me jealous on purpose?

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26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - Me and my guy work together, its been 11 months and there is a girl at our work whom I do not trust. I trust my guy though. She prettier then me, slimer, has more in common with him and he is mega friendly with her. He has said time and time again she poses no threat to our... (223 words

Should I trust my husband after what he's told me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - My guestion is...about for years ago when my hubby and I first got together he was working with this girl that loved to get into the pants of guy that where takin. He has told me that they would flert alot and that he would help her out whenever she asked but he also told me ... (286 words

I'm confused as to whether I like him as a friend or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 26-29 - Im making this short as i can I met my friend *Paul through my friend *Sara and Paul and sara are now going out and really like each other.. I helped paul out a lot before he asked sara out and even now i still help him out with relationship advice cause sara i... (165 words

Why am I feeling jealous when I totally trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and have never had any problems, i trust him 100%. But I still get very jealous when has around other girls. For example, his ex girlfriend was in his house last night (She is his house mates sister so I can't be helped)... (152 words

I'm scared he may be falling out of love with me. Could it be due to depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5303 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - K, well me and my guy have been dating 11 months next week. We work together and we were friends before we dated. But since roughly March, he has become depressed. He has been depressed before and he got out of it. Im scared he may be falling out of love with me. Ive bee... (261 words

Will this cyst harm my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Apologies that this isn't a relationship question, but thought you people may be able to help. 14 weeks pregnant at the moment, had my first scan on monday. The doctor found a cyst on my right ovary which is 4cm by 7cm, but thats all that was said, nothing else. Now i'm ... (88 words

What's so wrong with my enjoying the female form?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5415 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend is very upset because I enjoy watching porn. We've been together for little over 2 years, and she lost her virginity to me. I love her, she is such a great girl, she is different from other girls I've ever met or been with. I've told her this, but she's very ... (525 words

I don't want to step in but I want to date her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - ....i need a little help here... there is this girl i met a few months back through some close friends, and she has this boyfriend who is kinda a jerk to her, but she says that she is in love with him and not willing to leave him yet, however i hav developed feelings for this ... (135 words

We both have the same dream!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ive been having really strange dreams lately about my boyfriend and im not sure if its either trying to tell me something or its my insecurities coming through in the form of dreams. Basically. One night a few weeks ago i dreamt my boyfriend ran off with another woman an... (167 words

How should I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Okay so my bf and i haven't talked in like a week now and he doesn't text me and hasn't talked to any of my friends that are his friends too and idk wat to do? should i text him? call him? *sigh* i suck at the whole relationship thing. ask if u have any questions. thanx... (63 words

I'm afraid I still care about him too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 26-29 - my exboyfriend that i began dating over two years ago and i broke up 7-8 months after we started dating and i'm still trying to get over it. i'm fine until i see him in person because we flirt...alot! and its hard not to see him because he is my best friends brother. but he ... (185 words

Dating a older guy who seems to be confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am 29 and I met a guy who is 42 yrs old Brit. I met him at a gig and to network I gave him my business card. Later he emailed me saying how great I did and he is in debt to me. I wrote back and said if he is ever in the area I work in we can go get lunch. He agreed and was ... (408 words

I need to keep the spark!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - Im in love wit my bosses daughter we've been together for over 6 month now n were having problems I need help to keep our relationship from losing it spark, how can I do that?... (35 words

Did I scare him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - hey guys, So I met a guy last month, we hit it off real well (my friend is friends with him and told us to talk) we never met in person, we started talking via aim and then he asked me for my number and we've talked on the phone like every other week (so only like 4-5 times s... (728 words

I'm 15 and pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hi um this is very embarassing. Well i'm 15 and i think i'm pregneant!Me and my boyfriend had sex but w/ protection. could the condom of broke? Please help. My sister was pregneant at 16 and gave her baby up for adoption but i hate adoption and would never do that but i don't ... (65 words

I thought it would be the right thing to do to tell my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 26-29 - my best friend whent out with my ex and i had a little fling with him, we whent in to a field and did things,i told my best friend because i thought it would be the right thing now she hates me and most of the people at school apart from my true friends, i dont know what to do ... (99 words

I pay all the bills and want him to leave but he won't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - i rent to own and signed a contract with my husband i want him to leave but he won't what can i do to keep my home and make him leave i pay all bills financially.he is a control freak i love him but things are going south he and i have no more respect for each other what can ... (87 words

How can I win over his parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months and just started living in an apartment together about a month ago. I know its too soon to say for sure, but I can picture myself spending the rest of my life with him. Everything has been great so far. But last night, I met his ... (362 words

The third time I've dreamt about him and I have nothing for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - out of the blue, I've been having dreams about this guy i used to have a thing for. I mean, we both had that moment of liking eachother. We never actually said that we liked eachother but it was soo obvious to us and everyone else that we did. We never said much to eachother, ... (197 words

Love triangle of friendship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hmm, well this is worth a try if it makes me feel better about stuff.i just need an outsiders advice and oppinion about this. I feel so left out sometimes :\ like, cause I have 4 best friends, but 2 main ones. Jeni- main girl best mate J- boyfriend and best mate Rhys- guy ... (809 words

Troubled relationship..could my dreams mean anything?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok, so my ex boyfriend and i have been trying to work things out for about a year now. And recently, he decided that he wants to be completely done; finished. I've become exhausted by our problems that I've come to careless about it. But i keep having dreams that him and i ... (129 words

He tells me "Why do you always start talking crazy?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I've written about this guy a coupe of times. We've still been hanging out. I text him last night saying, would u wanna hang out tomorrow night? He didn't reply back,so i get mad.I text him back again saying,what's wrong,if u don't wanna hang out anymore just tell me,if i don't ... (96 words

I want to go out and have a life but don't know how to do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Im really happy with my boyfriend and im really happy when my boyfriends around but heres the issue. I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago. Ive been searching for jobs for months and months, right since i was back at home and am having no luck! I've moved cities to ... (425 words

Was my b/f just venting to a friend, or should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 51-59 - Hi hoping for some good advice. I am a divorced mum of three and have been dating what i thought was a fab guy for nearly 12 months. I have been planning a surprise for him and wanted to ask his friend what he thought would be the best thing to get him. So i looked at his em... (344 words

Should I still see him if they broke up? I need advice badly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - i desperately need advice from anyone.. I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago because I discovered from his mobile phone that he was having an LDR with a younger girl who he claims is much prettier than me. This killed me inside but i begged him to stay with me and he a... (585 words

Parenting and etiquette advice please!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - My daughter is having her 5th birthday party next week, and I am taking her to see a stage play. The tickets are not that expensive, but there is some travel. what I was wondering was if I want to invite her friend, am if I responsible to buy the ticket for her and her ... (164 words

Is it really internet love and should I push my boundaries and send him a naked picture of me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - well i met this boy online and we have been going out for like almost 8 months now hes 17 and im 15 and i really think i love him and says he loves me to. we talk on the phone evernight and text each other constantly he has never forced me into doing anything that i didnt wa... (154 words

How do you deal with the mother of your husband's child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi, i got married last year to a wonderfull men, He has a child with another women. Now we a planning to take the child to come and stay with us. Now my husband want us to go and have a meeting with the mother of his child to discuss arrangement, I dont feel comfortable and i ... (119 words

I faint during sex! What can we do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi, I really need help have ever this happened to you before every time I have sex I feel hot I sweat a lot and my heart beats so fast and I end faint. what can I do I saw a doctor he has no idea why this happened he said that I'm fine I know it not fear, I don't know whats... (85 words

Should I tell my boyfriend about this dream?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - this is sort of stupid, but i can get my mind off of it. i really had a stupid dream, but i feel that i have to tell my bf about it. i really do love my boyfriend, so dont get me wrong but i dreamt that i was telling a mutual friend how to be with his gf, and then thing go... (219 words

Could I be pregnant or could something be wrong?

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26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok so i messed up my pill big time last month and had unprotected sex with my bf, i had a small brown discharge 2 days after i stopped my period and ive had cramping like im about to start my period its been going on for 2 weeks now ive had really sore boobs for 3-4 days now ... (108 words

When things don't fit her, what do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age - Ok well now i have a new question . My wife has taken a turn in our relationship. First of all she is a bit overweight.(AND THAT DONT BOTHER ME) So yesterday she calls me from work and tells me that she is at this department store. And im im like aaaaah ok? She says that her ... (286 words

Lesbian - but afraid to lose my husband. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I'm in a horrible situation... where I have to choose. Making a decision so big is always scary and difficult... Well, here's my story. I'm married to the best man in the world, who truly cares about me and wants to make me happy. We've been together for f... (583 words

Should I or should I not make this fantasy with my cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5414 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - hi. so i recently got back in touch with a cousin of mine after a while. we met when i was about 14 at my grandma's funeral and we instantly hit it off. we get along great tho we seldom spoke. we met at funerals mostly and other family gatherings. last time i saw him was when ... (197 words

Why did I feel horny instantly when I saw her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - i have a girlfriend and we're both bisexual. we had sex for a couple of times already, and we just love doing it, every time she comes to our house, we go straight in my bedroom and start kissing and touching each other and have sex. now, we barely see each other because of ... (139 words

How to get closer with my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hey folks! I feel a little helpless about what's going on between me and my girl. So here's the story in short. My relationship with that girl is rather young and a "little" complicated. At first I have to say that it's actually an internet based relationship, since she's ... (828 words

How do I forget this girl he cheated with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - i have been with my bf for 2 years.6months back he cheated on me with this girl i would like to call "k".the minute i found out about them my bf told me he cant dump "k" because he loves her like he loves me,and the sad part is that he compared me to her telling me how she is ... (155 words

Her ex is around a little too much!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - This is my problem. Me and My Girlfriend have been together since early april, we 'paused' our relationship until may 2nd because she was having problems with an ex of hers. He keeps luring her into his car and kissing her, grabbing her ass as such. Weve talked about it ... (201 words

I made an ass of myself at a party and now no one in the office seems to like me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - Ok, Well basically everyone in my office hates me. I have been here a year and was starting to make friends. Then last night, I went to a work party and me and a colleague of mine got drunk and met some guys, I ended up kissing one, even though I have a boyf, wasn’t even a p... (215 words

I thought we would marry but she has moved 1/2 way across the country!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 51-59 - So after 5 years and many ups and downs, she decides she would marry me. She says that after 2 failed marriages that lasted a total of 25 years she is scared.We got into a heated argument recently and she left. I recently talked to her and told she has left Denver and is in ... (89 words

He's spent $50,000.00 on getting counseling..says he's addicted to it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I found out earlier this week via a fair few amounts of post that we're in debt and that my husband is the cause of it all. The credit crunch has nothing to do with it, my husband's spending habits are the cause but I had no idea what he had spent it on until now. I asked h... (220 words

DO men like to be woken up to a blow job?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - My friend said she gave her boyfriend a blow job in the morning just as he was about to wake up but she didn't tell me about his reaction and I was too scared to ask because he might think I was being too nosey. Is it annoying to be woken up to a blow job? Do men like it?... (61 words

Do you contact your ex if nothing is there?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 51-59 - It's common knowledge that you dont call your ex endlessly if you're no longer interested in them, right? My boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago and has slowly been contacting me more and more often. Now, we talk a few times a week. I tolerate it to see if things de... (175 words

How can I gain her mums approval?

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26 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - Theres this girl at work that i like and i am pretty sure she feels same way bout me as weve been txting non stop for like 2 weeks well i asked her to the movies tonight and she said yes but her mum wont let her go with me unless there is another girl at the movies with us i ... (123 words

Can I love two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, Theres two guys, one of them is my ex boyfreind, we were together for about twwo years, and shared soo much together. I broke up with him, because i felt that we went getting along, and i wasnt happy at the time. When we broke up, i started to party a lot, and do stupkd s... (352 words

Do you date to find a mate? Or just sort of stumble across them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - A mans love for a woman, or a womans love for a man. When people proceed to endure a relationship, why do they do it. What is the deciding factor that keeps us trucking the long haul. Why do we love. All these questions are simple but complicated. How do we know when the on... (389 words

Why does it bother me that fiance masturbates all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am together with my fiance for almost year and I can't get over the fact that he masturbates several time a day. I know already that it is normal for men to masturbate all the time, but we have sex a lot... some days up to five time and other days at least 1-2 times a day. ... (234 words

Does he still love me but trying to forget about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - i am 15 year old, recently i met a boy and fall in love for first time but it is not a facination. after one month he said he cant do anything and he need a breakup i agreed and he just became only my just friend and if only a friend he should talk to me but here still he ... (97 words

Parents will not accept the man I'm dating because of race

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - i am 25 years old white girl,and just graduated my master. during my studies i met and felt in love with a black man. our chemistry and our relationship is amazing and we even talking about our future plans and that one day we want to get married and a start a family. i neve... (321 words

Somethings up on the weekends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - I'm a single mom of a 1 year old daughter, her dad left me for another girl when she was 2 mo. About 6 mo. ago I met a great guy who I felt was perfect for me, he seemed to reciprocate my feelings. He's supported me emotionally thru everything. Dealing with my kids father, ... (196 words

Why am I afraid to have sex with a normal girl but not a prostitute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - Why am i afraid to have sex with a normal girl but not a prostitute?? I'm 22 and have a big problem.. i only seem to be able to have sex and not worry about performance or anything when its a prostitute that i don't know...but when the oportunity comes to have sex with a n... (124 words

Sex music?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5412 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - Me and my girl have got this list going of really good songs to have sex to...i was wondering if anybody can suggest anything else in the lines of rock, metal, or goth. Here's what we got (not all, but some): "Poison" by Alice Cooper "Counting bodies..." by A Perfect Circ... (107 words

He could be so cruel but now he's being so sweet but I don't know whether to stay with him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5231 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am confused. My boyfriend and I have been dating for nearly 2 years now. He is an exchange student, in the states as a college athlete. We have a good relationship now, but he used to be very possessive and controlling. He was never physically abusive, but ment... (1025 words

Will it hurt if I have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 26-29 - hi im a 16 yr old male. and me and my girlfriend want to have sex. the problem is im uncircumsiced and the tip of my penis is sensitive. will it hurt if i have sex. please reply... (38 words

Is this relationship going nowhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. It started out great. But recently I have been wondering more and more about how long we will last. I see all of her faults no matter how hard I try to ignore them. I find myself wishing she was more attractive or ... (379 words

I'm kinda jealous, should I be concerned if he puts some other chick one spot in front of me on Facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - if this guy ive been seeing puts some other chick one spot in front of me on facebook she doesnt have him anywhere on her top she commented him saying he was cute he didnt comment back and she commented his photos, saying he was cute and stuff i dont kno if i should ... (148 words

He's been visiting the mother of his fourth child without my knowledge!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - My husband had 3 children before we met. We went out for a while and then seperated to give each other time to figure out if we wanted to be together long term. While we were seperated, he entered another relationship and had a child. Shortly before the child was born we got ... (197 words

What is the law in the US concerning 17 and 18 year olds having sex?

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26 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - What is the law in the united states concerning 17 and 18 yr olds ddating and being physical? Is there some kind of grace period? or is that just a rumor that no one seems to get right?... (38 words

I'm lost and heartbroken that her parents are making her marry someone else!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

26 June 2009 (M age 41-50 - We were in love for the past 10 years,we are from different religions and now my girlfriends parents are forcing her to get married to someone, she really cant go against her parents wish and wants us to call off our relationship.Its been 10 years and we surprisingly never ... (83 words

I'm on the pill but he didn't use a condom. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Could I be pregnant? Here is what happened: My period is supposed to start either today or tomorrow. I have been taking Femcon birth control pills for a year. Well, boyfriend and I had sex last week. He forgot to bring a condom, but since I am taking pills I figured it wasn'... (175 words

Is this what normal couples do in relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm gunna try to make this short. Basically I feel I'm horrible with relationships mainly because I overthink and overreact. So I just want to know if I'm reading to much into this. My ex and I are going back out after awhile of being broken up but we've been through alo... (198 words

Am I pregnant or is my cycle irregular?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex anf I was supposed to start my cycle on the 19th. I still haven't started, but took a pregnancy test on the 24th it came back negative. On the 25th I started spotting but never actually started. What do I do any advice? Is it ... (76 words

I've been having unprotected sex so could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

26 June 2009 (? age 30-35 - i have been having headaches back pain i`m really tired all the time when i smell some foods it makes me just wanna puke and other times i have been eating a whole lot also. i had unprotected sex about 2 and a half weeks ago do you think its a sign of pregnancy? i`m afraid that ... (72 words

I want a relationship but I'm to scared to meet them!

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26 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - Im gay, i have never had a relationship with another guy. My first time was with a guy, and i was 22. It was only a one night stand (which i am against, not sure why i did that one). But lately i have had oportunities to meet with other guys, but i keep backing out. We make ... (199 words

How come I can't let this first love go?

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26 June 2009 (? age 30-35 - My ex is my best friend. We still talk all the time about everything. He's my source of advice and my best confidante. He keeps me grounded. He understands me so perfectly and can read my every mood or action. I don't know how he does it. It's like he knows as much what's i... (286 words

What should I do when my friend sees me as a slut because I don't wear a purity ring?

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26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - So me and bff have been friend for 12 years but recently she's been looking at me like slut cause i dont wear a purity ring and belive in sex when ur in love instead of marriage and though i plan to wait until i am truly in love and hopefully until im married. Her mother and ... (71 words

How do I show him that I am meant for him?

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26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm so confused! Me and my boyfriend of 1 and 1/2 months broke up on the 18th. I was really crushed and still am to this day. It was so unexpected ;( He told me he wasn't ready to be with me because he was hurt too much before. I told him I was different but I think actions ... (265 words

Beautiful with a small chest...is this a problem (just asking)

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26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - Beautiful with a small chest...is that a problem? Just asking because... I recently found out that my boyfriend of pretty much 4 years and the father of my child has a big breast porn fetish that he has been hiding for some time. When I leave, he jumps on the computer and loo... (342 words

Will time heal and will his friends accept me?

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26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Im having kind of a hard time right now, and I dont know what to do. I dont even know what to think, really. I cheated on my boyfriend around five months ago. I made out with a guy and gave him a handjob. I was honest with my boyfriend and said I wasn't going to do it again. It ... (291 words

Why does she go out late nights away from her husband?

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26 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - My wife seems to enjoy going out late at night alot. That's without me. I guess her so called friends are worth spending nights without me. The thing is, I really don't trust those people. On top of that, we're in a newer environment and she likes to stay out late going who ... (190 words

My BF owes his friend money from over a year ago - what to do?

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26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have a rather sticky situation. I have been dating a young man for about 3 months. A few days ago, I witnessed an unpleasant confrontation between him and one of his friends. His friend approached him at his house when I was over there, and demanded that he repays a loan! ... (191 words

HOW do I get rid of this abuser once and for all?

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26 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I need help on how to be strong and leave an abuser..An incident occured today where we were having an argument in his car. I was so fed up of hearing him say that he is going to move on and find him a new girl because he asked me a question whether i will love him for life and ... (246 words

I can check his Facebook mail..Cant resist the temptation!

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26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey To cut it short, my exboyfriends facebook account still logs me in and he definately doesnt know. its really hard not to check his emails!! does anyone have a suggestion for me not too do it? Thanks...... (44 words

My world is crashing down on me... he's registered on a sex site but I'm am afraid to break up with him because of my financial situation

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26 June 2009 (F age - I am devastated! My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We have been having relationship/financial problems for sometime. I just lost my job and cannot maintain household without his income. I am 3 months behind on my mortgage. He is working in another ... (139 words

I wrote these lyrics... opinions, please!

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26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Heya i come on this site a lot and i know this isn't the regular question asked but i thought some of you guys would give me your honest opinion. I just would like some people to read this song i wrote- i've won a couple of lyrics competitions and love song writing. Please... (416 words

Who says "I love you" first and does it matter?

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26 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - So just personal opinions, who should say I love you first? The man, the woman or does it not matter? And why? I feel like there is an unspoken (maybe outdated?) rule that the man leads i.e. asks the woman out, calls first, says I love you first, etc. Is it better to let him ... (72 words

Is the girl I met at the gym interested in me?

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26 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - There is this girl who im very fond of and want very badly to ask her out, she goes to my gym and we do a group workout session with like 10 other people, i just started so ive only seen her like 5-6 times so far, shes kinda shy as am i so i havent had the courage to walk up to ... (265 words

I'm pregnant.....what should I do?

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26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - I dating this guy for more then one year and now I decided to end it because its a dead end, I found out Im pregnant. He says he wants me to do an abortion, knowing the risks of abortions I wanted to keep it, but since we found out he's been treating me worse and now I guess I ... (113 words

My mother accused me of flirting with her friend! I was only being polite. What should I do/

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26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Tonight, before her going to bed, my mum accused me of flirting with her 55 year old male friend when he came over to dinner. She was drunk and called me a bitch and overall was completely irrational. I find it disturbing, disgusting and upsetting that she could think THAT of ... (188 words

Is my boyfriend's sexual performance normal?

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26 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - When my boyfriend and I have sex I never orgasm and rarely orgasm in foreplay I only have about twice and he's had to do it for 20minutes or more .. =S Also when we have sex he only takes about 5 minutes to come but he says he doesn't really feel much and afterwards he fe... (102 words

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