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How do I just stop loving this man?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been seeing this man for about 3 yrs and he has lived with me for the past yr and a half he is bipolar and I and having troubles dealing with it I am always telling him im sorry for things that isnt my fault and always treating him as he is the king and I am some ... (209 words

I am stuck in a routine of Solitude because of my financial difficulties!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 51-59 - I was in an unhappy marriage from which I got divorced over a year ago. It was a decision that took a lot of thinking about at the time but i knew that it was the right thing to do in the long run in order to one day find some happiness. I held no bitterness or bad feeling ... (447 words

I want to get him turned on and try new things with him!

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20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - First, I'd like to apologize for the length of the question. Well, My boyfriend is coming over tomorrow. I love him with all my heart and he's really amazing and we've been together almost a year but lately I've noticed that we haven't really been spending a lot of time ... (306 words

I have cheated on my fiancée even though no sexual acts occured?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 26-29 - I am 21 and engaged and living with my fiancée and recently I went on a night out and after the end of the night I had missed my last train home and I didn't have the money to pay for or the thought of getting the £20 taxi home so my friend (female) said why don't I sleep at ... (199 words

I feel like I have the heart and soul of a Hispanic person!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - What do you do if you were born with a surname that you feel you weren't meant to have and it's making you miserable? I've loved Latin stuff all my life, and always wished with all my heart that I were Latin. Ever since I can remember, I've loved flamenco, the Spanish lang... (557 words

Should I put up with her denial ?

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20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - My g/f And i have gone out or 7 months. She has Now told me that she loves another guy and Always has throughout our relationship. I had asked her before but she said she didnt, which is lying. The boy dislikes me and is trying to get my g/f to break up with me. She is obliv... (133 words

Is something wrong with me when he touches me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - hello, this is quite a personal question but i really need 2 know. me an my boyfriends have been together for 6 months now an we're really happy. we're 18 and we r both still virgins and are planning to lose our virginities to each other soon. he has recently fingered me... (132 words

I want it to be the way it used to be but some trust is gone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi, me an my boyfriend have been 2gether for 6 months and were really happy together. then the other night he went 2 a party and the nxt day there were photos on myspace with him and another girl holding hands and their arms around eachother. thats as far as it went. weve t... (144 words

Is this wrong of me to keep thinking of my coach?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - So my team and I just finished up our season a couple weeks ago and I've had mixed emotions sense then about some things (mainly about my coach). I really enjoyed being on his team this year and he made it so much fun for me, personally. Whether it was his jokes he'd tell ... (446 words

Is it possible that I have a disease from anal?

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20 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - Hi, my ex had anal sex with me and he didn't tell me that it has risks of diseases and i didn't have a clue about it i have done it for him to please him cause i'm a virgin. my current boyfriend knows about it and became angry cause that happened he considers it as abuse... ... (76 words

How can I control this anger in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend broke up with me. During two months of separation, he never called me even once. When I call him or txt him he would txt me back and call me back but since I have stopped almost two wks ago he hasn't even bother to contact me at all. I visited his facebook web ... (476 words

Dreams of my ex-boyfriend....Should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - ok so heres the thing. me and my boyfriend broke up last month. we were 2gether for 1yr and 3 months. so like i was really into him. he was acting like a big jerk to me. and i couldn't take it anymore. everyday that went by he wouldn't act like my boyfriend. he didnt hold my ... (163 words

Shave my pubes for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hiaa im 13 and im unsure if i should shave my pubes for my boy or not. Please give me a answer!!... (23 words

Part of me feels I may end up doing a favour for another man

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 41-50 - ok me and partner of 8 years have recently seperated we have 2 wonderful children age 4 and 2 she says she only loves me as a friend and has had another male friend for what i believe to be last few months. i decided to move out and give her time and space and she nearly h... (209 words

I need advice to make it work! I don't wan to leave!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - hi im having this huge problem with my bofriend i really need an advice please do not tell me to leave him bcuz i wont sorry is the im deeply in love with this guy who we been goin out for 6 month now may 29th 2009 we made the 6 month well everything was great that night he ... (673 words

I need some advice to be mature and sensible about this so that nobody gets hurt

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20 June 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hi, I would really appreciate some help please. I've fallen for somebody who already has a boyfriend and a young son. I work with this girl and we get on great. I have spent a bit of time outside of work with her and her son and I love spending time with them. The problem is ... (275 words

I thought having sex would help my self esteem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 41-50 - I have something that has been bothering me and it is the about who im having sex with. Iv only had two sexual partners and neither of them were attractive to me. Im not shallow and dont judge people on looks, im not the best looking guy either. I just dont know how to feel ... (97 words

She thinks I'm a sex maniac for just 2 times a week!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age - I am a 49 year old male married 8 years with one son 6 years old my wife is 36 years old my problem is before we got married we were having sex 4 and 5 time a week after our son was born the sex drop to 2 and 3 time a week, for the past 2 years it's 2 time or if I am lucky 3 ... (165 words

I felt like I did the wrong thing even though things were not working out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - hey guys. i finally dumped my girlfriend and we are both breaking down. it was horrible, she wanted to try and make things better but i said i didnt believe it could until we got our heads right (we both are messed up). we have agreed to stay best friends. will that be weird? i... (188 words

Love then hate...but I love her now so what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - i love a girl in my college .when the college opened she was loving me . but after some misunderstanding created by some other students in the college she just started hating me. from the beginig i hate her but now i am in love with her after understanding my faults but she ... (69 words

I seem to have an excessive sweat problem!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hey, I seem to have an excessive sweatt problem, i bath everyday but as soon as i put a fresh shirt on i have these dark patches screaming through. I cant stop the sweatting and im worried girls will look at me with disgust. any help pls ? :(... (49 words

I feel like everyone I love is turning against me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - Hi, ever since i went through a rough breakup from a relationship earlier this year, ive found things havent really gotten much better for me. I seem to have lost touch with the people i really do love. It seems like im angry all of the time now, ive tried speaking to my f... (127 words

All these things he does means he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - hey. Okay, my problem is that there's a guy who's three, almost four years older than me and I'm only fifteen. When ever I'm around him, he gets quiet. But when he's farther away from me he tries to bring attention to himself. My mother has also told me that when I'm not ... (109 words

He has never had a job & is not very into getting one soon, should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi there.. so i have a boyfriend of 2years and 7months. i'm almost 16 and he's 17.. i tell him he is going to be an "adult"[18yrs old] in a couple of months[January] and that he should start looking for a job because he is not a child anymore.. i know i want... (196 words

What should I do? Leave him because he's an asshole with anger problems?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've been with this guy for 9months and Its been ups and downs from the 5th month. When we use to go out he would stare at females and not hear a word I said. I finally got him to understand but it didn't last long. My b-day weekend we went out off town and everything ... (491 words

Should I hook up with my second cousin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - ok so me and my second cousin have never really talked. ever. infact we berely ever used to see each other, only like once every other month at family reunions. and well recently me and my family and my second cousins family got together because they were invinting us to ... (377 words

Why couldnt he have just told me he was not interested?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/should-i-wait-or-make-the-next-move.html i wrote this question back in feb after id met this amazin guy! i thought it went great. he text me after we'd met, he said he liked me, he asked me if we were meetin again sometime.. he seemed really i... (343 words

I do not like feeling old because of how he looks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I am no longer physically attracted to my husband to the point where I have no interest in kissing and diminishing interest in sex. The main reason is because he is balding and is now severly bald. I am also starting to realise other physical faults such as his acne scars, ... (286 words

Maybe I should persist. Maybe I should give up. Help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M - I’m discouraged. This is really disheartening… After giving up on online dating a while ago I recently got a message from a girl that surprised me. She’s great and meeting her like this was really unexpected. We chatted, we met up, and after each exchange she would update... (336 words

I'm sick of being known as 'the slag'! Three months and they still won't drop it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - this is really beginning to upset me now, in march i had a small get together with friends, 8 of my friends came over from college and we got a take away, had alot of alcohol and we danced and sang, it was a great night! when it came to half 1, 2 o clock in the morning everyone ... (405 words

Why hasn't he dumped her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - I really like this boy and he has a gf , but keeps telling me he loves me , and asking me to wait until this girl he's going out with dumps him until he can go out with me (which he thinks wont be that long) And ive just dumped my boyfriend for him , and he still hasnt dumped ... (74 words

Why do men complain about us gainging weight?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Dear cupid y is it that after a couple of yearz of bieng together,m0st men start c0mplaining about us gaining weight? what is the pr0blem?... (25 words

She knows I can't get it up, but wants "the real thing" anyway

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age - Im 51 years old and my wife is 38. Just to make this short and to the point . I cannot get an erection to have sex . I have told my wife out of frustration and respect for her that she had my blessing to have sex with other men . She has done that at least once that i know of. ... (288 words

I want to make her mines!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - There is a girl i like pretyy much n she knows it too. but she is givin me lots of confusions. i dont know wat to do to make her mine. i need her at any cost. Dont wanna lose her as a friend also. wat should i do?? ... (49 words

How would she react if I told her I was younger?

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20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - Im 20 years old and i met a girl who is 24. i told her that im 23. she has a boyfriend but we talk everyday and spend all of her free time together. we were just having fun but we just talked and we both realize that we are starting to really like each other. we figure that we ... (94 words

Could I have been a better husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 41-50 - ive been maried to my wife for eight years now. Ever since ive met her she has had a trust isue. I guess i always hoped she would see me for who i am and learn to trust me. She claimed to have had bad relationships before me. In a way i think i was paying for their sins. She ... (395 words

I want to prove to him that I'm the one for him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - i need tips on how to avoid a break-up. i really want to save my relationship with my bf because hes starting to hate being with me and i want to prove to him that im the one for him. please help its urgent!... (44 words

Is this Fate that my brother found my ex's phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - hi everyone! i need some advice please. before i started going with my current fiance i was engaged to a guy who i was with for just over 3yrs. The reason we split was bcuz he was violent towards me. my current fiance is great although he's 19yrs older than me he's 44 and i... (448 words

No sex with boyfriend for 2 months and its getting me down

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years now. Don't get me wrong, we have had our ups and downs but overall we are happy. There is just one problem which is big. We haven't had sex in 2 months. WE've only had about sex five times this year so far its gradually ta... (438 words

I need to know whether she has emotional feelings for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - My long time friend which is a girl we've always being chatting certain times in class.this continued? in such a way that my classmates mistaken us to be emotionally attached.sometimes we like making funs together sits together in class .i brought a picture of i and my cousin w... (312 words

We were caught naked by my husband! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 51-59 - I have been seeing this guy for nearly a year I,m in the process of separation from my husband. The guy i am seeing is still married he tells me he is leaving his wife next year when his youngest child will be 18. The big problem i have is that we were both caught by my husband ... (124 words

The sex is great, but he's selfish. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 51-59 - I am 37 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for 3+ years. We have been living together for a year. We both have previous unsuccessful marriages and aren't in any hurry to get married (if ever). My problem is, he is self-proclaimed selfish (it's true, he is), doesn't ... (346 words

I have to chose between Man A & Man B and I don't know how to do it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - dear readers, i am very sorry for the lenght but i have to explain. Please dont get discouraged by that. Read it coz i need ur help. i had an internet relationship last year that was ignited in august 2008. We got so used to eachother that i couldnt go a day wtout chattn or ... (452 words

I'm not physically attracted to him, but am I being mean by turning him down?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hey guys, I'm sorry if this question gets a little confusing, but i just need a little help... Right, just over a year ago i managed to get myself out of an emotionally [sometimes physically] abusive relationship. Since that time i have found it hard to trust lads, thinking t... (353 words

What is going on in my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 26-29 - so i've had another dear about kissing a girl but it was wierd cause it was a girl i dont even like as friends and in my dream i was on top of her on my hands and knees and we was really pasionatly kissing and the things led to another, but these dreamsare starting to confuse ... (101 words

I'm loyal to my boyfriend but slept with another guy. Which one do I go for?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are together for almost 2 years until just lately I kissed another guy whom I'm spending my night with for almost 2 months. This guy is just a friend whom I'm working with on a job. I never thought I can do this to my boyfriend, I am very loyal to him and ... (214 words

Appropriate to send flowers on her birthday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 26-29 - Is it appropriate to send the girl i like so much and have liked for so long flowers on her birthday? She doesn't really like me back, but i really feel like I want to do something for her. I dont know if I should though.... (46 words

Should I expect him to take me back or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I recently lost a very good friend to cancer. My boyfriend was not being very supportive the following morning my being mean and unfair to my son (who did absolutely nothing wrong) I got mad and packed up everything that I had in his house and started to leave. Before I left ... (162 words

Girlfriend lets her big dogs roam everywhere in the house and I don't feel comfortable with this

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 41-50 - My girlfriend is a total animal lover she has grown up all her life with many pets. Throughout the years she has added many different types of pets to her family. I’m not as much as an animal lover as she is, but I don’t mind all the different types of pets. My only... (283 words

Girl flirting with me but I can't bring myself to let anything happen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - ok so I recently posted on here. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-pain-from-my-past-has-numbed-me.html for those of you who suggested therapy unfortunately I cannot afford it. although I truly don't feel anything still I wait for time to pass. I recently moved to the ... (96 words

I told my husband's friend things in confidence and he told my husband what I said word for word!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - My husband, "Rick," and I own a own business and decided to contract one of his friends, "Travis." During our first meeting, Travis shared personal information with me about his frustrations with his business partner on another venture. Rick was there but on the phone. Travis ... (357 words

How do you know when you can trust someone?

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20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hey, how do you know when you can trust someone? My bf and I have been together 8 years, up until last year, when he broke up with me out of the blue. I'd had my suspicions about him before the split (started receiving cell calls late at night, taking his cell everywhere - ... (270 words

How to give the perfect hand job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I'd like some advice from you girls and guys. Basically, I'm not very experienced when it comes to sex and want to know how to give the perfect hand job. I like giving head, and my bf enjoys it, but sometimes I get tired and would like to use my hands instead but am ... (85 words

I don't understand this teacher's behaviour towards me

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20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - I'm a 21 years old female College student, and it's been years since I've entered College. A teacher, who's about in his early 40s? who I thought was friendly, and would greet everyone a "hello" has got me curious recently about his behavior towards me, and here's my story:... (682 words

I never dated him, but how do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 26-29 - dear cupid, theres this guy that i was kinda on and off about for a while but finally started liking for two weeks he flirted with me and i genuinely though he liked me back. then a week before school ends when i finally bring up enough courage to ask him out he TOTALLY!! ign... (173 words

Too wet to enjoy sex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I have too much vaginal discharge and it's got to the point that I don't want to have sex with my boyfriend. It doesn't come out onto my pants (most of the time) but it is there inside me all the time and as soon as we start anything it's like the flood gates open. ... (227 words

If there is definite chemistry, why no follow up communication to the initial meeting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age - If there is definite chemistry between a man and a woman, why would the man back off? What causes a man to feel scared or is it some other emotion? After nearly 8 months of communicating albeit online, on phone, texting, whatever, the day came to finally meet one another face... (101 words

How do YOU define love? How did you know when it was love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - can anyone one tell me what their definition of love is? or how did you feel/know that it was love?... (20 words

What's going on with her -- any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I have been hanging out a lot with a girl from work lately. We get on great and are always together at work and calling/ messaging each other evryday too. I'm not sure whats going on with her now though. She always calls me baby, love, darling etc and since she found ou... (203 words

I'm stressed out about my Mom, her b/f, my b/f

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - my life is hell! im 16 and my mom treats me like a child. she wont let me leave the house unless she knws there's going to be an adult there and she has to know them. her boyfriend lives with us and all he does is sit on his lazy doesnt pay bills and yells all the time. and my ... (86 words

Boyfriend became so committed and loving after seeing his ex during our breakup?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - My BF and I once broke up about 6 months ago, and after two months later he came back. During our being apart, he had some relationship with one of his exes - not sure it was a relationship or just sex. His ex wanted him back when we were broken up, but he didn't get back with ... (266 words

I want to be an actress

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20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - im 16 and im really intrested in starting an acting career only thing is i cant find any auditions or an agent. i live in duluth georgia. if any one can help please do! i love to act and i just want to achieve my dream! please help... (48 words

His favourite sites are "rape porn"!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - I found out that my husband looks up hardcore porn. His favourite sites are "rape porn" where women are shown to be attacked and brutally treated. I'm completely repulsed by this and feel sick to my stomach that anyone would be excited by this type of thing. He says he will ... (72 words

Is it truly possible to be in love with 2 men at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 51-59 - is it possible to be truly in love with two men at the same time or am i just nuts..... i met a man 2 1/2 years ago and was totally crazy over him even though we only went out a few times, needless to say he had commitment issues and i just figured he never get over them, so i ... (185 words

We have alot of arguments and fights! Why bother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 9months and weve had a lot of arguements and fights. he says im a bad gf but all ive been doin is trying to make our relationship work. everytime we have a disagreement he never lets me say how i feel. he told me if things dont change ... (91 words

He seems to lie when he's been with his best friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Hello all! So here is my question/problem: I am 19 years old and a sophmore in college. I have been with my boyfriend, who is 20, since 2006. We met in highschool when I was a sophomore and he was a junior. I love him with all my heart and he means the world to me. We made it ... (371 words

Scared I can't get arouse by a girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - im 15 and i masterbat to men porn and not women sometimes i think of having sex with them, i don't what so ever see myself with a man i find it nasty makes me sick to the stomach, i look at straight porn between a man and women and see how it goes have sex with a girl but i ... (357 words

What becomes of the broken hearted?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - It all started in february of this year. My husband of nearly 2 years (we'd been together almost 8) told me he didn't love me anymore and that we should get divorced. This came out of left field. He later said he only got married because we had a child together. He decided ... (168 words

Mass on ovary--isn't it dangerous to leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 51-59 - I hope someone somewhere has an answer for me.I had a swollen lymph node last year and went to have tests run..they of course only knew it was a lymph node once they ran an MRI..but when the test came back they told me I also had a mass on my left ovary.I had surgery to remove ... (170 words

He hides his past relationships

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 26-29 - Hi everyone! a few months ago, i wrote to you guys about this boy, who i just can't forget. The thing is that he kissed me, told me he really liked me, we were together day n night for exactly a week, it was the best week of my life, until he told me he was too old for me. ... (350 words

Is it normal to have a boner constantly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old male. I'm wondering if it's normal to have a boner constantly. miao... (23 words

Should I do it or not? I don't want him to fall in love with me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5425 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - I Finally Let Go of My Ex-Boyfriend and his Cheating Ways. But everytime i try to get away and start fresh Another Ex Shows up. What is it with that? Anyways i met this Boy in like...um 9th Grade but he liked me and i didn't like him at all...but were Graduating now and on Prom ... (135 words

He stood me up, I feel rejected and hurt and I'm wondering what went wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

20 June 2009 (F age - Hi, everyone - hope you can help me. This guy and I have communicated to each other that we want to make love with each other so I left him a note to meet me and he didn't, nor did he explain why. So now, of course, I feel rejected and hurt that he stood me up so I'm backing ... (131 words

It's driving me insane not hearing from her!

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20 June 2009 (M age 51-59 - So I met this great lady 1 year ago through work and we have been in touch every so often. Recently I have asked her a few times to see if she would go on a trip with me which she has done (to celebrate a new car) but she made it clear that she likes to keep business and ... (232 words

When will she come back to me?

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20 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - A few days ago my girlfriend broke it off with me after 11 months of going out. That night she sent me a text message saying "goodnight..hang in there..if we are meant to be we will get through this and become stronger people for it. I still love you and always will xoxo" ... (479 words

How can I get her to like him? How do I deal with being in a relationship which she doesn't approve of?

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20 June 2009 (F - I am 20 years old, just started going out with my bf who is 25. However, my mum doesnt really seem to approve. Its not because of the age gap though. I think its more to do with a few other things. My mum can be pretty judgemental and she assumes alot about people based on ... (484 words

Boyfriend cheated and got another woman pregnant

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20 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - I’m 22 years old and my boyfriend of 2years cheated on me last year around April and got the woman pregnant. I say woman because she was 31 years old and already has a 12 year old girl. He found out that she was pregnant and kept it a secret for 3 months because he said he was ... (274 words

We always argue, is this the end?

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20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - Ok so i and my boyfriend are constantly arguing and i can't for the life of my understand why. i always try to avoid arguments with him, so much now that when he calls all i am really doing is agreeing with everything he says. I mostly say "yes, ok, you're right" i never really ... (339 words

What a dilemma - I'm her only friend and boyfriend but I want out!

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20 June 2009 (M age 26-29 - ok, so. I've been gooing out with this girl for overa year now. But recently she has started acting up. This happens about once a month, but is no actually to do wtih her period, as I know the dates that that occurs on. Anyway, when she acts up I just can't be bothered with her ... (148 words

Why am I so hairy? When will the body hair stop growing??

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20 June 2009 (M age 26-29 - Hi, I am a 15 year old. For people of my age I have so much facial and body hair - i have side burns, chest hair, hairy legs, hairy buttocks and hairy back. I am quite worried about it. I was hoping if you could tell me whether this is normal (as i don't think so) and when I w... (67 words

My brother is driving me crazy with the way he's behaving! How do I get him to stop?

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20 June 2009 (M age 30-35 - My roommate/brother (long story) likes to walk in on my girlfriend of 3 years and me when we make love. My girl doesn't like it so talked to my brother but he keeps doing it. Anyway he went too far a few days ago. My girlfriend came over to my place (it was her b-day) and we ... (209 words

I'm not the shy little girl I used to be - how can I get my parents to understand that?

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20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - okay so i just turned 19... ive always been a shy mellow gurl until i turned 16. be fore that i was always so focused in school and fling college apps. now i graduated form hs.a nd go to college. i wanted to go out of town for college but my mom trick me into feeling gyuilty ... (249 words

Do you think she'll be disappointed when she sees it?

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20 June 2009 (M age 36-40 - ok this might sound stupid but please let me know wot u think. need a girls perspective. I was changeing into my swimming trunks one day to go swimming in a river. as i was changeing one of the girls that was with us caught a glimpse of my penis. I hadnt got into the freezin... (246 words

FWB got pregnant and wants to keep the baby

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20 June 2009 (M age 41-50 - Hello this girl and me decided to become FWB last october. We agreed to this no emotional attachments, well last week she told she was 6 weeks pregnant and wants the baby. we're both 28 and this would be the first for both of us. I don't know what to do. we don't have a BF-GF ... (77 words

What does semen/cum taste like?

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20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - I was wondering, my bf and i have been going out for almost a year and i really wanna "spice" things up for us, so i've decided i would give him a blowjob. My concern is when he cums what does it taste like? what does cum/semen taste like?... (49 words

Do you think he likes me still?

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20 June 2009 (F age 30-35 - This guy was really distant to me for a while the all of a sudden hes come back into my life like my best friend. He actually talked to me online but no texting no more. I told him that I will say goodbye to him Wed because the last day of school I'm not going to see him before ... (220 words

My boyfriend looks down on "housewives" and it really bothers me!

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20 June 2009 (F - My bf looks down upon 'housewives'. This really upsets me because my mum is a 'housewife', as she doesnt work, she chose to give up a career and stay at home and dedicate herself 100% to our family and our house. I cant explain how much I appreciate what she has done. Shes such ... (293 words

Do I wait or start dating now?

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20 June 2009 (M age 51-59 - Ok, where to start? I guess I will attempt to explain this scenario from the beginning. Though will try to keep it at a high level as not to bore you. Back in September of 2007 my wife told me as we were going to bed that she was not attracted to me, nor did she love and... (1276 words

She's still married to me, but doing her own thing

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20 June 2009 (M age 51-59 - My wife and I will be officially separating on June 23rd, 2009. That is the date set for me to move out into an apartment. I have been a terrible husband and I admit that and realize that but I still very much love my wife and this experience, plus a small heart ailment, w... (460 words

What did his comment "it would kill two birds with one stone" mean? I'm not sure what to do and if I'm overreacting.

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20 June 2009 (F age 41-50 - 8 years ago I met a man at work, after going through lots of horrible relationships and a alcoholic dad. I wanted to be finally happy. He made me happy, he was a nice sweet kind guy. We worked together for 3 years before we started dating, once we started dating I realized that ... (456 words

Experiences with online dating

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20 June 2009 (F age 36-40 - I've gone through a long, difficult break up. I learned some things about myself, have been learning to move on etc. Now, I really would like to try again at another relationship. I'm quite shy and haven't been in the area for that long, so I want to try online dating. Does ... (133 words

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