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writes:I'm gunna try to make this short. Basically I feel I'm horrible with relationships mainly because I overthink and overreact. So I just want to know if I'm reading to much into this. My ex and I are going back out after awhile of being broken up but we've been through alot. He called me up three days ago and we had a really good convo that resulted in us getting together. The next day he texts me in the a.m, we talk abit then I text him later at night. But he falls asleep and then [today] I don't hear from him at all. I mean should I see this as a bad thing? Or something normal couples do? Cause I get that we do run out of things to talk about eventually and we should be secure enough to not have to talk 24/7 but a nice reminder that he's even thinking about me would be nice or do guys just not think like that? Also, if it matters he's 18 and I'm 16 and he's more expirenced than me w/ relationships (kinda why I don't know what to expect)
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reader, TheAgonyAunt  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Don't worry, I'm alot like this too to be honest!
Just because he hasn't contacted you doesn't mean that he's gone of you or doesn't care about you. Guys don't think like that. He probably doesn't even realise what he's done.
If this still concerns you, try and talk to him about it about it. I tell my boyfriend if he's not calling me or texting me, it could just be that he's busy. Guys simply don't understand that girls like to be assured that they are loved, but hang in there its normal.
Hope this helps =)
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reader, Wreck +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Mmmmm honestly ... what I think is that he does not talk to alot of girls your probably one of the few girls he talks to and since hes 18 and out of high school hes probably like damn I need someone to talk to and then he turns to you... , If you guys run out of things to say then hes probably not all that interested in you because when in on the phone with my girl freind I never run out of things to say I keep talking just to keep away the akward silence you know? , To show her that Im interested in talking to her....the fact that hes 18 does not mean that hes more experienced. Ive been with girls 2 years older then me I was 16 and she was 18 and I was the one that broke up with her.. Theres just one thing i'm going to tell you do NOT make the mistake of sleeping with him DONT do it... it will make him loose alot of respect for you just keep it plain and simple if he talks to you then talk to him he is the guy hes suppose to be making the calls and texting not you but you should send him a text once in a while you know like kind of like you said just to show him that your thinking of him... dont chase after guys.
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