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writes:I've written about this guy a coupe of times. We've still been hanging out. I text him last night saying, would u wanna hang out tomorrow night? He didn't reply back,so i get mad.I text him back again saying,what's wrong,if u don't wanna hang out anymore just tell me,if i don't hear back i'm taking it as that. He says why u always start talking all crazy? I didn't say anything back bc i was still upset. Like 2 and half hous later he text me again saying,ok then.I'm just wondering what he meant by that.
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reader, Sambuca Queen  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Ive had a go at my guy before as I thought he was ignoring me when he doest reply straight away. But remember that this person has a life going on aswell as you. They may be eating, charging their phone, phone is off, got no signal, a number of things. But dont get angry, that is a big mistake and one I have made all to often.
The best thing to do is text them and LEAVE IT! Hard to do when you want a quick answer, but you dont know whats going on at their end. They may be pretty busy. I got peeved the other week cause my guy didnt reply after 2 hours, I sent a nasty text and he said work was mega busy hence why he didnt reply. I got such a scolding bout it.
Dont worry x
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reader, betty_black +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Ive done this myself a few times, gone crazy because a boy hasnt replied straight off. But having a lot of men as friends ive been with them when they've been at the recieving end of girls abuse and it does seem proper mental! Its easy to see how men claim all women are nutcases at times, it really is. You need to leave it alone, i guarantee that the minute you stop contacting he'll wonder why and start obsessing over you, if he doesnt then he was never worth it and its time to move on. Just dont obsess, it only makes you seem like a psycho bitch, trust me!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (26 June 2009):
 Ok here is my suggestion. STOP texting so much. Pick up the phone and call him. That way is he can talk he will talk and you won't overanalyze a situation and acuse him of things he may or may not be guilty off.
Try it.
Texing in my opinion is not the way to communicate properly.
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 it means that he's wondering why you're getting all weird with him and accusing him of things because he doesn't respond right away. he probably couldnt get to his phone right away to respond or he was doing something else at that point in time or didn't want to be rude if he was with someone else. was he working at the time? most work places don't allow people to text.
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