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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is my colleague into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a young woman working in a hospital setting. Last year, a new guy joined the same department. We clicked. He gave me his sandwiches, we once had lunch together. I had a boyfriend, he seemed single. Once I tried to set him up with someone else, and he mumbled ' my gir... (462 words)

Mom at 12! Pregnant again at 13!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok so i was 12 when i got pregnant with my first set of twins and now im 13 and my boyfriend the father of my last set of twins got me pregnant again and its twins again they will only be 11 months apart and im only 13. What am i supposed to do? I want my babies and so does my ... (87 words)

I feel like I can't move on with my life. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year, I got my first proper boyfriend. I'd just turned 16 and i lost my virginity to him. I broke up with him in november 2008 after 10 months, because he treated me so bad and the things he did to me/said to me and put me through were unacceptable and i was fed up. I... (298 words)

I'm scared he'll dump me when he goes off to college.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 6 months but he is going away to college at the end of summer and I'm scared that he'll dump me. Has anyone been through this before? Are there any signs that maybe he won't??... (45 words)

How do you know when the love has died?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age - How do you know when the love has died? I have been married for 15 years to a wonderful thoughtful loving guy, for 10 of those years. Then because of something that happened 5 years ago in his family, he thinks he was pushed aside, hes fallen out with most of his family. I've ... (286 words)

What can I do to make our happiness come to life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ok my girlfriend tells me I'm controlling but i cant help but do what i do i love her so much and im afraid that what i am doin is driving her away from me i just ask to know what she is doing before she does it not during n that she dont be chilling with a lot of guys i mean ... (154 words)

I can't find love... What do I have to do in order for it to find me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm here tonight because I'm losing hope in love. I can't find it. I've been in 4 relationships in as many years. The first one was my first ever. It was long distance and lasted for 2 years. Since then, the longest relationship I've had lasted 3 months. Since I found my... (249 words)

Please help, I feel so depressed and cry all the time. I feel my life is passing me by.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok first age is wrong im 16... took over my sister's acount and dont know how to change the age! I have been on a roller coaster sense starting high school. I have had friend problems guy problems and of course more. Last december I got to the point that I felt so alone I ... (457 words)

What could this discharge be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i noticed i have had A LOT of discharge. Mostly when i get up in the mornings. its always clear and has little or no smell.. what is this? I'm almost 17 and i weigh 82 pounds if that helps any.. and no I'm not a virgin. What could this be? do some people just have a l... (64 words)

My friends hate the guy I really like!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well this is a bit of a long story but i really need some advice. My friend had a "thing" with this guy and they kissed once but then she told him she didnt like him and wanted nothing more to do with him. Then this guy and i began to talk alot and there was something there. So ... (339 words)

How can I be famous???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 14 year old girl and have always dreamed of becoming a famous disney channel star like selena gomez or demi lovato. I dont know what to do though. I cant sing, and am very shy so I dont think I'd be good at acting but I would try but I dont know how to get there. I want ... (141 words)

My ex... or my ex ex??? I don't know what to do for the best!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay well I just recently got out of a relationship, he broke up with me actually. I was dating this guy, and I guess I'm kinda in love with my ex still. I dated him a year and I cant get over him, I miss him so much and want him back so I decided I should tell my new bf j... (275 words)

How can I keep him off these websites and bring sex appeal back into our marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5411 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 12 years and my husband and I have been together for 14 years total. We have 2 kids and we both work full time. In the last 3 years we have been through a lot of stuff, his admitted affairs after I found him emailing and looking for women on craigslist ... (527 words)

She knew I liked him now shes avoiding him to make me happy. I feel like a idiot.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy in my class for a while, and only four of my best friends know about my crush. A while ago we went on a trip and my crush and one of my best friends kept talking to each other, and it got to the point they were being too close for comfort. I stayed quiet a... (134 words)

Could this pain be a personal problem or linked to my sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5425 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok..this question isnt properly to do with relationships but it might be. I have been with my boyf for 3 month now, we are both clean and started having sex without condom (im on pill). Over the last few years ive had terrible cystitis lasting from 3 days to over a fortnight. B... (145 words)

I'm 14, What sex positions can I try out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - what other sex positions can i try out any suggestions???... (10 words)

Hes kisses me then send me a text saying its wrong. Does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - this is the third time ive met this great guy, he was putting his arms around me a lot and kissing my hair, and then he text me later saying he was sorry, he knew it wasnt right that he was over-hugging me as we are still getting to know each other - does this guy like me? ... (58 words)

Does wanting sex with a man make me gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I wanna try sex wit a guy but does that make me gay? Even tho I love sex wit girls...I jus wanna try bcuz i,m freaky n wanna try new things or should I have my girlfriend use starp on one me instead?... (43 words)

I want to leave my first girlfriend for my 2nd pregnant girlfriend but I fear I have left it too long!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a home with a Girl I have known for 8years, I have dated her for 3years. I'm unsure if I love this girl or what people say 'in' love with this girl. I can't imagine life without her but i'm just not happy, I have a heavy heart and don't know how to sort it. I have made ... (234 words)

I have a burning when I pee, boyfriend slagging me off via text and hes locked his phone. Is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys! Was wondering if could get your opinions please? Sorry about the length of this post! Been dating my boyfriend for 4 months and on the whole things are going really great, he's a very sweet, understanding and caring guy... BUT there's been a few wee niggling things the ... (581 words)

I've been having unprotected sex, can I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having protected sex, he rarely penetrates without a condom but never cums inside of me. I have irregular menstrual cycles and havent gotten my period this month Im approximately 7 days late. Should I worry? Can his pre-cum have gotten me pregnant? Help please.... (46 words)

Why would he be inwardly jealous and just not show it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been feeling so horrible because my friend that's a guy broke my heart and hurt my feelings. So i have been ignoring him and if he gets in the conversation I talk. It's bad enough that he acts like I never mattered to him but bad enough I have to see him every day at ... (261 words)

Wife thinks I'm cheating. I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife thinks I'm cheating on her with my secretary (who's quite good-looking but can't tell my wife that). This started when my wife met her and saw me check her out, she ask me why would hire someone who's a lot more attentive than she is. I didn't really know how to answer ... (146 words)

Can sexual dreams mean anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Are sex dreams weird and can they mean something? I've had two. The first one was of a famous person that I've liked forever. But the one that I'm intersted in is the second. I had a dream about a guy I've known since I was eight and he was nine. My brother and him are friends. ... (91 words)

Hes trying to make me jealous!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been good friends with this guy for 3 yrs, then in a long distance relationship with him for 1 yr. Overall things were going well, and the visits every few months were great. The problem is that he seems to go out of his way to try to get me to act possessive. At first he ... (485 words)

He keeps speaking to his ex. It really hurts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (?) age 26-29 - i love my boyfriend but i found out he keeps talking to his old girlfriend even after he promised not to. i dont want to break up with him hes my life but it hurts when hear the stuff he says to her. what should i do?... (47 words)

Can we make this work? What should we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfreind and i have known each other for about 8 years. He has always been crazy about me, but i have been married for the past 5 years. I'm now divorced and we are dating. I'm so crazy about him and he feels the same but we have one problem. He is a construction worker and ... (111 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me but wants to be friends. Should I talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i had been officially dating for 5 months and she ended the relationship a few days ago. Before we were dating we still loved each other and were basically a couple with out the boyfriend/girlfriend title like we both promised not to hook up with other people ... (1460 words)

Depressed from the bombshell my wife dropped. She wasn't a virgin.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently got married and on our wedding night my wife dropped a bombshell by saying shez not a vrigin. she said she had sex while she was 9 years old and the guy was 20 years old. She didn't have any boyfriend or any sort of relationship since then. I don't know what should I ... (71 words)

Abandoned by my husband

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A year and a half ago, I left my home and my family to immigrate and be with the man I was in love with. We married, moved in together, got a cat etc. I thought we were happy, and I suppose in the beginning we were. But he told me about a month ago that it was over, that he had ... (252 words)

I'm 13, Should I wait to have a child with my 17 year old boyfriend?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5389 days ago

15 June 2009 (?) age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i want to have a baby. we are both in our teens (im 13 he is 17) and unsure if we should wait??? please help... (28 words)

I'm too paranoid to finish in the condom

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi ever since I started having sex with girls, always pull out even I always wear a condom. I don't like finishing inside the condom, since it might break. My GF wants me to do it inside but I never do. I'm too paranoid. is this normal? my cousin fathered a baby at 14 and I ... (62 words)

I don't know whats wrong with me, I'm not in good health

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been on a roller coaster sense starting high school. I have had friend problems guy problems and of course more. Last december I got to the point that I felt so alone I cried every night. I have never had problems with making friends and get anlong with many people, ... (423 words)

I need contreception advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for about 6 months now and we have both decided that we are ready to have sex. we are both virgins so we are a bit unsure of where to get condoms. i would also like to go on the pill to make sure i dont get pregnant. But im really ... (124 words)

How do I explain my jealousy problem to my doctor?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've had a major jealousy problem with my boyfriend which i now feel is getting out of hand, I seem to be getting worse every week and I hate the way it is making me feel. I finally decided i have to do something about it and have made an appointment with my doctor this week - ... (103 words)

I want him to know how much this hurts knowing he has a girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice, I have fallen for a guy at work, he is everything I have ever wanted in a guy and I thought he felt the same, we have kissed a couple of times, but he is a little shaddy about his life. I got a little suspicious and asked someone at work if he was single ... (155 words)

How can I make our sexlife even better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend love sex we do it all the time...but I want to try anal we tried a few times but didn't work....how can I make it better? And another thing is I want to make her squirt all over me. I'm very kinky and I wanna have a 3sum she's open to the idea but how 2 ... (78 words)

7 years down the line and he still hasn't put a ring on my finger!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I will try to keep this brief. Beloved Boyfriend and I have been living together for approximately 7 years. We have (I think) a wonderful relationship - we are basically best friends who want to spend the rest of our lives together and have awesome sex. We love going on... (460 words)

I'm still letting this girl get to me... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm feeling so sad and confused that I'm starting to make myself sick. Me and my boyfriend had a pretty big fight yesterday, but it eventually just turned into us having a conversation about our relationship and everything. It was good, we both got a lot out and were able to ... (536 words)

I canceled the wedding because I don't want to be tied down. Should I leave him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I have been with my fiance for 3 years now and everything has been wonderful. Just this past weekend I have cancelled our wedding which was to happen in 3months from now. He is 7 years older then I am and lately I have been feeling distant from our relationship, I have ... (602 words)

He spends days working with her and didn't tell me! Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, me and my boyfriend have been together for four years, he started up in his own business a year ago, and since then he has had very little time for me, which i must admit was expected and for some time to come as i understand how busy he is. now this may be nothing b... (259 words)

Been with my boyfriend 2 years but falling for another guy..its like we have a connection!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Ups and downs in our relationship but I love him a lot. But now I think I'm falling for a guy whom I've known since we were really young. We happened to reach each other through the internet last year, we chatted on IM and SMS, hanged ... (118 words)

I feel like a child compared to my friends because I'm not having sex, drinking and taking drugs!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14 years old and all my friends are already having sex and giving guys BJs and drinking, drugs ect... i really don't fit in but for some reason im friends with them there nice people but i feel as if im werid cos i dont have a boyfriend and im quite polite and would never do... (74 words)

What is a climax?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - wut does it mean when u climax?... (7 words)

Why do I get turned on so easily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do I get horny so easily? I can just be hugging my girlfriend and i get turned on! Why is this?... (23 words)

23 and a virgin. Boyfriend doesn't want to be the one I lose it too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23 and still a virgin. It's not that I wanted to wait till marriage; I just wanted to wait for the right person and the right loving situation. I've been going out with this guy for over a month now, who was my friend for 3 years first, and he's much, much more sexually ... (536 words)

She wants space, is this just a nice way of saying goodbye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I wanted to find out what to do as I have been dating a seperated woman for about 1 year and 8 months. She had been seperated for about a year and a half when I met her and she had only been out on 2-3 dates before me. Right away we hit it off and I had asked her after about a ... (739 words)

Had a dream about a girl. Does this make me bi that I can't stop thinking about her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5434 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - iv thought i was bi for a while now last night i had a dream and me and the girl i know from athletics were kissing and like getting off with each other and iv been thinking about her i have done before i meanshes really pritty shes kinda boy ish but shes naturally pritty s... (171 words)

How do I deal with my anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age - I have a problem of experiencing anxiety when I don't hear from my girlfriend. She will tell me she will call and when she doesn't I start thinking about all kinds of things that just isn't true. It always turns out to be no big deal at all, it's as if I'm over thinking ... (166 words)

What should I say to my crush??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The reason for the following is because I missed out on talking to my crush today all because I was in a rush. But it's kinda okay I guess because I can plan a bit more what to say to him. So this is pretty much a poll of what to say. a) "Hi my name is X, would you like t... (140 words)

I love him but he only see's me as a friend, should I keep trying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyy aunts and uncles! :D i'm having a bit of a love issue...any help would be appreciated :) well lets see: i'm 14 and i met a lovely guy called Luke at my church, he is 16. i liked him from the start but then we got closer and spent more time together and i just fell in lov... (289 words)

I said I loved him back but hes still with his babys mum! Am I leading him on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been hooking up with a older boy who has a kid and a baby mama wich is fine but i do have to deal with her from time to time. for the first time in the history of me and this boy he was sober and called me to hang out with him so i was like ok this is strang he came ... (231 words)

My Fiance left me with our 2 year old child. Please help I'm feeling so lost

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so in December of 05 I met my fiance' (well she used to be my fiance), we both had just gotten out of bad relationships but seemed to hit if off well. In february of 06 we found out she was pregnant. She had just told me she didn't want to be with me and ended up getting ... (1608 words)

What does a leather bracelet/fabric bracelet mean these days anyways.... anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - so, im gonna see this chick, and noticed she is wearing a leather ''friendship'' bracelet ... i am a bit older than she is, (its a surfer style thing, and im a surfer, but just not for years and years) -- so the only place i can ask this, without getting laughed at, is here ... (90 words)

Tips for getting over my first crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Dear cupid, I've had a crush/been in love with this guy for three years now. He is a nice guy - confident, funny, easy to talk to (goodlooking too!) - but I don't think that us being together would work. I just want to be friends with him now. I want to stop flirting, I want... (115 words)

Was it rape or change of heart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so here how it goes..... my best friend has a tendancy to be a little bit dramatic and when i say alittle bit a mean VERY she makes the war in the middle east a play ground schuffle. so anyways it was a very nice day at the beach yesterday so we made some drinks and headed down ... (313 words)

Who is the father of my baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my 1stday of my last period is february 3,2009.i had sex wd a guy on the 15th of february.then i had sex again with my bf at 17th of february now im pregnant.and im confused who is the father of my baby.can you help me figure it out?... (48 words)

Girlfriend of a year wants a break

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my giirlfriend were together for about a year. About three weeks before school let out, we got into a small fight that was used to tell me that she wanted a break for the summer. She said it was for the best for both of us and that she wanted us to work and this was ... (265 words)

Is it normal to get itchy "down there'' after shaving?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this isn't really a problem but I just wanted some advice from the gals out there. Is it normal to get really itchy after shaving 'down there' or is it just me? In which case should I use a hair removal cream instead? I could really do with some advice on this and if anyone ... (68 words)

Attracted to older men!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am 17 and my issue is that I am not into high school boys, I have never been with an older man but I am more attracted to the idea of being with someone older! Most men that i am attracted to are between the age of 25 and 27. Does that make me slutty? Well not really ... (112 words)

Addicted to masturbation!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am addicted to masturbation. I love to do it I do it at least 2 times a day I LOVE it but I need to stop and I don't know how. I am usally horny very often during the day and night. Can anyone help me????!!! ... (47 words)

I call my ex every time I get drunk to tell her I love her and miss her.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi whenever I go partying with my friends and get drunk I call my now ex girlfriend from about 3 months ago to tell her I love her, and miss her. I don't want to do it. But everytime I drink I think of her and miss those times together. I dont know how she feels because she ... (96 words)

She starts chasing me after I stopped caring

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'm a 28 year old man. I was pursuing this girl, she is a bank teller, very pretty. One day I just walked up to her booth and gave her my phone #. She called me a few dys later and we started going out, got along real well. it all lasted about a month and a half and she says ... (265 words)

I am afraid that my husband will lose his control and perhaps do something beyond his control.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, I've been married for 13 months. I am a christian catholic wife married to an Islam husband. Before we got married, he assured me that he will not prevent me from my catholic practices, however he asked me to study a little about Muslim faith. I gave birth to our s... (253 words)

I really like her but what's the best approach?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is a girl i been liking for 4 years know and i want to know how do i approach her. i think she is showing sign of intrest but i am not sure last night she fed me some french fries. ok me and her became celebate and she's happy i told my friend that i did'nt have sex in 5 ... (139 words)

How do I stay calm and put my insecurity aside?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing a wonderful guy for around two months now. He's kind, warm, generous and so much fun to be around. However, he is still really close to his ex-girlfriend of 5 years. On a rational level, I trust him completely and actually think it's quite nice that they ... (196 words)

We broke up, but she still wants to have sex with me, even though she's seeing someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Me and my ex GF broke up in the beginning of February. We were together for about 6 months prior, until one day she decided she wanted some "space" I knew she wanted to break up but let me down easy, since I always treated her good. The reason she gave is she was a little ... (346 words)

Is this woman worth it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a single man and recently i've been hooking up with my ex (who has a boyfriend) when we are both drunk. She isnt happy with her boyfriend, this is underpinned by the fact they haven't been intimate in any way for over a year now. I really care about this girl and ... (479 words)

I need clarity here... is this just a phase?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I really only need some advice at the moment but I need some clarity on this. Since a while ago everyone out of my friends and family has thought that I have really liked this girl. We've been best friends for a while but has a boyfriend. People were thinking she might dump ... (187 words)

How do I stop loving someone who loves someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid I was involved in an affair for a year and a bit with a married man. We started spending a lot of time together and building memories together. And one day his wife put him out. I was still with my spouse. He told me that he wanted for us to be together and planned ... (556 words)

Myster gift of flowers..are they from my date?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im a seventeen year old girl and i have only ever had one boyfriend. we were together 11 months but then split for the best. ive been single now for 9 months, recently ive been speakin to this guy, ive known him about 3 years now, we speak every night on msn and we text ... (330 words)

When he's drunk..he loves me

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts and uncles. Right well i posted a question on here not long ago, about butterflys for another boy? Well that boy is really messing with my head, when he's drunk he's ringing me telling me that im lush, that he loves me and the other day even crying saying he ... (533 words)

Am I a bad friend if I don't approve of her cheating on her husband?

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15 June 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I hate to be in situation like this. I have a very close female friend whom I work with. We are both working overseas actually. Yesterday we had an argument coz she said she was disappointed with me for not defending her as much as she needs as her boyfriend broke up with her ... (445 words)

I'm worried that my past has made me bitter and harsh

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I started seeing a girl in summer of 07 and we split up last year. We experienced a lot together including our first time etc and we really loved each other. Eventually it all seemed to go horribly wrong because her friends pressured her into not seeing me. She ended up... (160 words)

Questions about my frenulum

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all I suffer from premature ejaculation but my question is this. My Frenulum that connect my penis head with the shaft pulls my penis head quite far down when I pull pack my foreskin. Is it supposed to do this? My frenulum is great hard and when I pull my foresk... (93 words)

Rainwater, sperm and pregnancy!

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - REVISED: I got a question from my friend here. my friend with his girl was messing around. Using his left hand, he fingers his girlfriend and he while masturbaiting on the right, using his right hand. then my friend came and put his semen and sperm on his right hand. then... (507 words)

Why is it wrong for a man to feel bad about a woman's past?

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15 June 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Why should a man not care about his woman's sexual past? I don't see anything unreasonable with this. I don't see how many women can understand this from their points of view because let's face it most of the physical activity comes from the man and how good sex is will be b... (171 words)

My bf left me after 11 years but he still texts me...

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15 June 2009 (F)

age - my boyfriend left me for another women he moved straight in with her, after our 11 happy years togther. he never stopped texting me he used to end me a text once a week and since the 20th may i had about 25 texts some saying how was your weekend, one saying how are you, one ... (191 words)

Ex sent sweet texts until the end and then got rather nasty..whats it about?

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15 June 2009 (F)

- I broke up with my partner over 2 months ago and we haven't spoken until Saturday. I miss him alot. I was out Saturday night and made a studid drunken call to him. We spoke for a minute and he was angry and he hung up on me. I text him yesterday morning and said I wouldn't ... (172 words)

LDR girlfriend and now theres another girl in the picture

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so um im just confused about something. I've been going out with my girlfriend for over a year now. It's been long distance relationship and I know most of you would give me reasons as to why they never work out but my story is a little different. I really love her, ... (525 words)

Why do you think he wants to buy me this expensive gift after only being together for two weeks?

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15 June 2009 (F)

- Me and my bf have been together for 2 weeks. Im 20 years old and he is 25. The other day he offered to buy me a really expensive gift- which is about AUS$4000!! That is alot for any gift, even if we had been dating logner, I would still think that is too expensive for a gift! ... (168 words)

My brother acts like my parent

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i live with my parents and my older brother... but when ever i want to go some where i always have to ask my older bro. when i go to movies,beach, friends house, coffe, store, etc... i have to ask him for permision. its like i ask/tell my parents they are like ask your... (124 words)

I like him alot but he keeps standing me up!

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i met this guy in january at a basketball game i was cheering for,i had a bf then, but my relationship with my bf ended after my bday. my crush... he has the most amazing big lips any who he is so perfect for me.. hes mexican... i havent dated a mexican since i was 14. ... (246 words)

I keep cheating on my bf with this one guy, why?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now. We have a great relationship, we both treat each other very well. Except I sometimes cheat on him with one guy. I don't know why. This other guy doesn't treat me nearly as well as my boyfriend, we just have fun. I don't feel ... (78 words)

Is there any way to get our sex life back on track?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are getting near our 3-year anniversary, and seem to be in a sexual rut. When we first started having sex after the first year, we had sex every other day, and now we go weeks - and now 2 months - barely touching each other. I realize it's always more ... (123 words)

What Now? What Next? Where To?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age - What Now? What Next? Where To? I've been dating the same guy for over four years now. The problem is I know he is cheating on me with other women. I found about one of these woman about two years ago when I thought I was pregnant and he was nowhere to be found. This woma... (433 words)

My wife is passive in bed!

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My problem is that my wife is passive in bed. She basically likes all kinds of favors and we both have orgasm. Unfortunately her activity is mostly limited to turning to nice position and squeezing her vagina. We had talked about this and she admits she is lazy. I have som... (116 words)

How many couples have sex when the woman in on her period?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody, I am wondering how many women or couples out there have sex when the woman is on her period? I have to do it with my boyfriend everyday no matter what and I am not about to skip the sex because of my period. I don't see the problem with it so we always do, but I ... (94 words)

G/f broke up but now wnats to be best friends

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15 June 2009 (M)

Mother trying to force her religious views on me and break up my marriage

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My mom (she's christen) doesn't like my wife (of 3 years) because she's atheist. My mom has been on my case about it since she read her facebook religious status. She says if I don't find someone who believes god or I'll cut out her will and I'll go to hell (im atheist too but ... (100 words)

Difficult flatemate/pets

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I live in a share house with one other person, the situation is we are not on a lease as such, we pay rent to the owner directly. My flatmate has two cats, one of which has recently began to throw up on the carpets in the house. She will not clean it up and sees no need to. I ... (117 words)

Is a good idea to sleep with a good friend?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had a few boyfriends in my time, but i have never gone 'all the way' with any of them, coz i have never felt like they deserve it. but im now almost 18 and my best guy friend and i have been talking alot. then it ended up with us both confession that we wanted to loose ... (135 words)

If I ask for sex she blows up!

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my wife and i have been married for 7 years. things have not been good lately. my wife works nights, and when we get a night togather all i want is to be with her. she acts like she wants nothing to do with me at night. the day time we spend time togather but if i ask for sex ... (224 words)

Clitoris pain, what could this be?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a question about the clitoris after oral sex... After the stimulation i know that the clitoris stays a bit swollen and sensitive to touch for a few mins to a few hours...But the problem is now that it has been 2 days since that and my clitoris is still very sensitiv... (142 words)

I cheated on her but I love her!

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - um this is sorta weird but here goes, I'm in a situation were i cheated on the girl i love. i'm only 14 but i know i'm in love because whenever i hear her voice or see her my heart pounds and i get realy hot and she makes me feel good and happy. we've gone out (in the figu... (174 words)

Just broke up with g/f and attracted to another boy

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey,i just broke up with my girl a few months ago after i caught her cheating,i got tired of girls and i dont know why all of a sudden i was attracted to my friends new neighbour,jake,that other night when my friend was having a party.A few weeks later after the party,we became ... (94 words)

Indecent proposal--should I continue the affair?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here I go. A bit long, but I want you to get the whole picture. I am a successful business woman married to a wonderful man and have 3 beautiful boys. If you "knew" me you could never tell I have a deep dark secret. I have had an affair with another man for over 4 years... (1576 words)

I really liked him but he stole money from me!

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i really liked this guy, and we only met acouple times but fe flirted with me and acted as if he liked me and i really liked him and i still do but he hasnt talked to me since spring break after he stole my money. and i still really really like him. what should i do?... (57 words)

Is it common to comment on looks when meeting someone new?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a great deal of new people this weekend, mostly friends of my mother's, and each person commented on how "beautiful" i was. not how nice it was to finally meet me. Are they doing this to flatter me, or to be nice to my mother, or what? I suppose it's nice and all, but ... (92 words)

How do you know if she's lying or really likes you?

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do you know if a girl really like you for who you are, and how could you tell that's she's lying?... (22 words)

I'm single, he's married..should I let him leave and see if he comes back?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well im new to this an i have been viewing other peoples questions and it seems that my "issue/need of advice" on this topic isnt as uncommon as i thought it would be.. wellllllllllll to start off im a young female between age of 21-24 i met my guy a year 1/2 -2yrs ago (w... (1396 words)

Anal sex advice...

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Will a girl bleed if I have anal sex with her while she is on her period... (17 words)

Self esteem issue--I don't understand why he likes me?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend recently came back to me. Our break up was mutual - it was not like he cheated on me or something like that, we were just sick of arguing a lot. Well, before we got back together, there was some "competition" - one of his exes wanted to get him back, and sh... (234 words)

Married co-worker is like a drug to me

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 8 months ago I started a new job and everyone was talking about the Rob the cute married guy that has a bitch of a wife . She would show up at our office and yell at him in front of everyone, and he just seemed to allow her to do it. Within the first week my boss put Rob and ... (520 words)

Mother & brother won't let me date this guy!

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: Poster is 13... Okay, this may seam as a typical relatoinship problem but for me it is much more. SO my older brother has a friend that is my age. we have been talking to each other over the phone and online. we are NOT DATING but we both want to. There is a couple p... (151 words)

I seen my dad having sex with my sister

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - My dad is screwing my sister. I am 14 and my sister is 15. Lately I have noticed my dad all over her, holding her, rubbing her back, kissing her forehead. The other day I walk into the living room and see my dad laying on top of my sister. My sister had this strange look on her ... (141 words)

I think she cheated, she won't admit to it..just leave her?

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with the same girl for 3 years. This is the longest relationship I ve ever been in. The main reason why I got with her because at the time I knew for A fact she could be faitahfull and so could I. All my other relationships ended either because I cheated or the ... (763 words)

I miss my sister so much & don't know how to deal with it

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well im not sure if this question really applys to this site, but i kinda need a bit of help, my sister just moved to b.c around last christmas, she is coming down for a vist, but i dont know what to do, i miss her so much i love her she was like my therapist, because i do... (194 words)

Does he just want me for his fantasy?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy who is in first year nursing like me as well in nursing asked me out to dinner for vday. Dinner went great we watched movies and thats it. After a couple days of not talking I asked him what was up and he said that im a great girl and we should be friends so i agreed ... (320 words)

Why when you're married do you want to get out of marriage?

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15 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - Why is that ,when you are married you want to get out of it? And when you are alone ,you want to get married ,or jut be in a relationship...? Is this true , that many many marriages ending in 20 years or up? I;m in the marriage right now, but I feel , it'sdead, want to get ou... (130 words)

Do you think he is playing hard to get or did I just really screw it up?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so this guy i know has always tried to get a hold of me. we go to different schools. and for the past year it just never really happened...us getting to hang out. but then last week he started texting me again..asking me to hang out. but i never could. and then finally last ... (463 words)

He will not end it but he will not talk about it either! It's very frustrating!

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15 June 2009 (F)

age - Am I being too hard on my boyfriend. I have known him for 26 years. We have not been together that long but we both had a relationship before we had kids for other people. We got together in 2000 again as if it was unfinished business and now have a child togehter. We a... (364 words)

Do I like this guy?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Do i like this guy? I have no idea if u have mixed feelings for a guy do u like himm can u still like him?? Theres this guy in my class and we have been friends since grade 3 and my best friend told me a couple of days ago that he thinks im pretty i have never thougght about me... (197 words)

Is it possible to be happy when you're all alone?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do you think it is possible to live a meaningful happy fulfilling life when you have no partner, children etc but a great career and a close group of friends? Im asking this because due to a cheating ex I have an STD. I am an extremly sensitive person that has been hurt so ... (210 words)

No period for 5 months!

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm 14 and have not had my period in 5 months, I'm not pregnant and a I'm a healthy weight 5'1 94pnds and I'm not taking any drugs (prescribed or street) Personally, I wouldn't care if I never got my period again, because I turn into an emotional wreck when... (128 words)

I'm torn between two lovers....

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need help. Ive been with my bf for a year and abit. I cheated on him with my best mate from work .I have come to realise that it was a big mistake. I told my mate that i think we should just be friends and nothing more. He has said he loves me. He also said he was ... (127 words)

I need help and I need help fast! Should I continue my relationship or not? I really want to though...

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok here it is I'm 17 and I have been dating this girl for about 3 months. At the beginning she was dating this other guy who beat her and actually raped her. She didn't file charges on him because she feels sorry for him I told her she should have but she didn't. Any way after ... (431 words)

I'm kinda tight... what should I do?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi agony aunts... i kinda have a story with a question at the end... Well... you know... my first time well... the first time I tried to have sex with my boyfriend I just couldn't do it, it hurt so bad... then i talked to some friends and they told me i should be relax,... (223 words)

Should I consider applying for schools out there in case there's a chance for us? Did I do the right thing?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last summer, I met a guy through a friend and although I knew he was moving to California, I proceeded seeing him for the three weeks he was here because we were both into each other. When he left for California, I was completely devastated. (I am in Florida in college). ... (618 words)

Does he have any interest in dating me?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - Does he have ANY interest in dating me or does he only see me as a good friend? [Mod note: user age is incorrectly logged.] He asked me to be his date to an event out of all girls, and seemed pretty excited about it, it went great. After the event he dropped me off but forgo... (229 words)

My friend stole my boyfriend and he kissed me... I have forgiven, how do I forget?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i had met this girl jessie, we became close friends..i strted hanginn out with her and her friends.... in the group there was this guy at i was attrated to him.i was shy and dint really talk to him. the summer came me and him started hanging out and we ended up as a ... (863 words)

My father is the father of my baby... I'm falling into depression... help!

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont really know how to put this, most of you will probably be utterly digusted, and wont even be able to find the right words.. but i really need some advice. about a month ago, my mom was out of town for a business trip. i am a only child now, since my brother went of... (254 words)

I would love to find a meaningful relationship but it's just not happening...

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15 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I guess this is a long one so where to start. I'm 21, I'm Gay, I came out when I was 17 years old and had a fantastic response from everyone I know. As a person I'm not effeminate in anyway, most new people that meet me are shocked to find out that I'm gay. The problem is still ... (619 words)

What do I do about him as I don't trust him but we have a child together.

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP! OK so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years and we have a baby I'm 16 years old 17 soon he is almost 20. we had some problems he tryed to ask another girl out. he kissed her and was at her school trying to find her to get his answer from her (to ... (182 words)

Help! How do I heal my broken heart...?

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 going to be an 18 year old teenager. I feel stuck in this circumstance of loneliness. For the past couple years I have still trying to get over this guy who left me without a word, as pathetic as it sounds... I was distraught and felt like I had loss someone like I was ... (185 words)

The more I see them together the more I hate them both!

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15 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay well im 17 now, when i was 15 i met this guy aged 17 who i really liked, he asked me out and we were together for 6 months, i was madly in love with him! we were 'friends' to everyone, i dunno why we wouldnt admit our relationship. but then one day i walked in my house and ... (302 words)