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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could he be a freak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We met online 3 years ago but kept in touch scarcely as friends, main tone being camaraderie. The evening I broke up with my real life bf I went online randomly and by coincidence we met up on messenger first time after 1 year. I was devastated after my break up and he held me ... (253 words)

My lack of trust in him is damaging our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend. I have known him since two years ago. Around February of last year we became boyfriend and girl friend. Then though, a job transfer happened and i had to move about 300 miles away. Given around 6 months into our relatio... (196 words)

How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to know whether it's possible to get back with a guy, and if so how... basically, i was with this guy for about 2 and a half months, which for me at my age is quite a long time btw. Anyway, i was with him, we had a few arguments, but nothing that couldn't be sort... (276 words)

Bessie mate becoming a bit obssesed with lad, its becoming a tiny bit annoying....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey :) now, this isnt really a problem, well, its kind of is seeing as im writing about it but i think im making a big deal out of nothing, im not sure. well, me and my friend are 15, were best friends and dont have many secrets lol, so were close. weve got this new ma... (702 words)

I want to be sure that he's not going to leave me for her... but how can I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... I'm not sure how to do this...so i'll just keep rambling till my question comes to mind. =) i'm 16, and i'm in my first relationship. it's been three months, and i swear on my life i've never been happier! the boy i'm with is amazing in every way possible, and i ... (629 words)

How do I fall out of love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think i'm in love with a guy. but i don't want to be, i want to fall out of love with him, that's the question how do i fall out of love with this guy? i feel i should explain first why i need to fall out of love with him. I have liked this guy for a good 5 years now, and... (399 words)

He never even liked me so why do I feel like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've had a huge crush on this guy all year. He would stare at me, but then look away really fast when I saw him. He could never speak to me and the few times that he did he looked at the ground or the wall. His friends even the ones I don’t know started acting weird around me. ... (281 words)

What does she want from this if she doesn't say she wants to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with a girl for two months, went out on a few dates before we got involved. We are not officially broken up, but she revealed to me that she was worried because she hasn't been having strong feelings for me. I don't have them either, but I have started to feel ... (378 words)

Worries about my health...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I find it incredibly hard to exercise and lose weight, my family make it really hard for me, i HAVE to eat what they eat, and they both LOVE food, they only eat like pizzas and junk basically and i have no say in the matter, I’ve spoken to them bout it and they just ignore me, ... (153 words)

Father's day gift for husband?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this up comming fathers day is my husbands very first ever. i have no idea what to get him. every holiday i get him tools, he loves them dont get me wrong. but i dont want to be so obvious, and ruin to much of a good thing. Any fathers know of any good gifts out tnere, any ... (63 words)

Did he mean what he said or is it all a show?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5413 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, i met this guy a couple years ago, he is my uncle's girlfriend's son. We just recently got introduced again about 4 months ago. We hang out here and there he helped me move and helps me a lot. Anyways, we went out Saturday for his birthday and drank. We went back to ... (326 words)

I'm really lonely but my two daughters get upset if I date anyone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife died two years ago and I have thinking about dating again. But my daughters (they`ll 4 and 7) get very upset if I talk to them about it. I haven`t been on one date since cause it felt I was betraying my wife. Now I have been on a seeing this woman for a month ... (78 words)

I think my hypothetical question backfired!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this guy friend that I've known for about 8 1/2 months. I found out seven months ago that he likes me.. When I found out I spazed and avoided him for a day. I felt so bad and decided to hang out with him agin, but I just now am starting to like him. Today I asked him a ... (194 words)

Moved away from home to be with him, now I'm home alone and so sad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and my boyfriend started out great he was so sweet and we got along great. we moved in together 2 months ago and it wasn't just down the road its 3 hours away from my friends and family.. so I haven't been able to find a job yet and I just sit at home all the time while ... (116 words)

Do guys get intimidated by beautiful girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - many people(family,friends,strangers,boys) tell me i'm beautiful but i would say i'm just pretty.guys usually stare at me,smile at me,flirt with me and some of them even approach me.i get attention from them,even from those who are way older than me.there is a guy who developed ... (123 words)

He say's I can't come to his house because it is too messy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I have been seeing an old friend I used to know from high school... He is 38, I am 39. He has been to my place every other night for the last month or so...We have been intimate, and he has told me he loves me and I feel like I totally trust him and I love him too. I know ... (297 words)

She told me she loves me. But she is married, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a married girl at my workplace last July. She was just married (a month ago). Her husband stays abroad. We talked well, we were like good friends. Then she went on a business trip to another place for 2 months. She used to call me everyday. We used to talk for an hour or ... (103 words)

What should I say to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I went out with this boy but it only lasted a week because everyone was pretending to go out with me. I still like him and everyone can see it, they all say he likes me too but i don't know if i can trust him again. He's too afraid to say something infront of his friends and i ... (81 words)

I get wet dreams and I want this to stop!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5427 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hey im 13 and male i keep having wet dreams and sometimes the dreams have nothing to do with sex and i still have one and today i woke up den went back 2 sleep for ten minutes and it happened. i dont like it because i wake up feeling wet and dirty and i want it to stop (and btw ... (82 words)

Married last august and think my husband is cheating already!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just got married last aug and think my husband is cheating on me already. I was doing laundry and found a condom in his clothes, he said it was from last summer from when i was on medication because some mess with you birth conrtole. A week after i found the condom i checked ... (233 words)

16 and pregnant, and I can't get the morning after pill!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - BIG BIG BIG problen im 16 and pregnant with my 19 year old cousins baby i know some people think its gross but get over it i cant take the morning after pill and i live in ireland so if i am going to have an abortion i have to travel know one knows yet whay do you think i ... (65 words)

I'm 13, any ideas for masturbating as I'm not ready for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5168 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey i am a boy and 13 i get masturbating all the time i also masturbate alot im getting bored of plan wanking does any one know any new techniques or things to do im not ready for sex yet so can anyone give me some new ideas for masturbating or things of plessure for males ... (56 words)

Should I continue my relationship while at uni? It would be a LDR.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for a couple of months now and its going well. The only problem is that in september i will be going to uni and my chosen uni is about 5ish hours away from him. People keep asking me if we are going to keep seeing each other when i go and to be ... (147 words)

How to get through to my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5148 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have no idea what to do! I've had enough. This is basically the low-down: - He takes me for granted: For example, when I do things for him just because I want to, he doesn't assume that he should do something back for me to be fair. It's as if he's just taking in the re... (991 words)

Should I carry on seeing my dad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my dad is in and out of rehab and he is always heavily dosed on medication. He has done some bad things in the past like hit my sister spend all our money on drugs. He has many mental illneses and when i was younger ,the doctors say he is officaly unstable, and if my mum sign... (145 words)

Should I spice it up before we go on separate weekend trips or when we get back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my bf (going on 5 months dating) and I are going our separate ways this weekend. I will be attending a family wedding and he will go out to the casino with his buds. I want to buy some lingerie and wear it for him. We have a great sex life but it's getting to be th... (109 words)

What do you think I'm doing wrong and how can I get myself out of it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I have a big dilemma. I need advice on this,please. I'm trying to make my life better at the last 10 years, making things work, reach goals, etc. Making my marriage better, better mother, losing weight. Getting ahead in business, but I m getting nowhere. Seriously, it ... (159 words)

Am I bi-sexual, or is a dream just a dream...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Two nights ago, I had a dream I was in the shower with another girl. We were performing sexual activity on each other. Now, I have a boyfriend whom I love, and I can't imagine my life without him, and I can't picture myself with a girl.. EVER! But, is it possible I'm bi sexual? ... (62 words)

Can someone please tell me what's in this man's head?!?!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, I went out with this guy (ill call him John)for a year. I was 22, him 23. Both living at our respective parents house. I was sleeping at his place quite often since my job was near by. I knew his mom, step dad, grandma... and was getting alone with all of them. Sometim... (1071 words)

Can my partner get pregnant on the 3rd day of her period?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my question is i just wanna know if is it possible to my partner to get pregnant that we have sex on her 3rd day of her period?? but i surely know that i withdraw my sperm outside of her vagina.. but im so scared in my pre-come and im not sure if there's a few sperm i'd left in ... (90 words)

How can I break up with him when I love him so much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey well i ve with my boyfriend for 10 months and i feel i can t easily forget him or break up but he's in a military school. he comes only on weekends where we spend the most beautiful times together but it's really hard to see him once a week only. and in summer he attends a ... (127 words)

I regret my decision to leave him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age - After a 14 year relationship of ups and downs in and outs we still love each other but he said it just won't work because of Family and the disagreements and things said in anger.... I believe that it could be and would be different, I was going through the change of life and ... (443 words)

Help! I need help getting over this guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - here goes, I met this one guy online and i know him for more than 7\8 months and we only met like twice and he was just lookin to mess around and I wanted that too but also a relationship... Anyways he told me hes not lookin to jump into a relationship and just wanted to be ... (184 words)

Are these symptoms of love or lust?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and this guy have just recently been talking well actually more weve been on 2 dates already[they were back to back] and he wants to hang out again today:] on the 2d date he kissed me like 9 times for our first kiss i was walking in front of him and he grabbed my h... (116 words)

How and when should I approach this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I see this girl on a weekly basis in a big foodstore. she's a cashier and there's always a lot on people on the checkout line so I cant really make her stop what she's doing to get her to talk to me. One time it wasn't that busy and I just went through her line and said ... (172 words)

Should I speak to him, and what can I say to make it sound natural?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I really like this guy in the year above, but I haven't spoken to him for ages and he hasn't spoken to me Last time we spoke (like 9 months ago), we talked easily (but then i wasnt sure if i liked him in that way) I don't know if he hasnt spoken to me because he just is... (152 words)

Do I let him explore his fantasy of being with a man? I don't know what to think!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I have been in a relationship with same guy for several years. He just recently started opening up to me about how he is interested in being with another male, as well as wanting golden showers. He has become obssesed with anal sex.It doesn't even seem like he is ... (114 words)

I'm confused! What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months, everything was going good and all of a sudden he wont answer my phone calls. The last conversation was a good conversation, he sent me a text message the next day that was so sweet and it has been a week since i talked to him ... (91 words)

Do I stay, let her cheat, just so I can see my boys every day? I feel so lost...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have been married for six years and together for eleven. We have two beautiful boys soon to be five and six. On our third year of marriage work required me to leave for a year and I was only able to return for a two week block about eight months in. She seem... (1311 words)

Is he ignoring me? Does he not have a signal? How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met my boyfriend online 6 weeks ago, hes in iraq as a private contractor and isnt home until Aug, and Ive fallen for him. we speak and chat all the time but I havnt heard from him in a week, I know he could be working and have no signal, but I dont know how to deal with this ... (111 words)

What should I tell my 5-year guy about the other one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i have this problm ive been with this guy for almost five years and i had alot of problms with him lying to me and using drugs hes trying to change well in the mean time im talkin to another guy threw letters who is in jail he seems like a nice guy and we seem to have a lot ... (114 words)

How far should I take things on our first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going on a first date with a lad who i realy like he seems to like me too as he keeps asking how my love life is as if he is hinting to find out if i have a bf not sure how far to take things on our first date like hold his hand and do i kiss him at the end of it or in the ... (74 words)

Should I be patient, or walk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a crush on this guy who is basically getting out of a depression. he never used to talk or hang out with us and now he is slowly starting too. the more i hang out with him, the more interested i am. he is really smart and funny, just really shy. i hang out with him one ... (172 words)

I'm in a friend mess! I miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a friend that I was really close to and I fell in love with him he was my really good friend...so I told him how I felt now he hates me and I can't get him off my mind...how can I make him listen to the fact that I never wanted things to end this way and that I never ment ... (74 words)

Personal freedom and rights in married life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am married for 2 years.I have a 14 month old baby. This marriage was settled by my parents. They chose the girl and I agreed. Before marriage I had some psychological problems. I was studying Masters in IT in Dhaka, Bangladesh in 2007. Both my parents were abroad in Saudi ... (542 words)

How can I get over the paranoia from past relationships and trust him with his best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Needing a bit of help here. I've been with a really wonderful guy for just over 2 months now and everything is going very well. I'm crazy about him and he makes me feel so special. He phones me every evening, we meet up and go for walks through the parks and although I ... (510 words)

I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5410 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for about 8 months, and serious for... (958 words)

Is he married? Or am I just one of a few?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok is he married....or am I just one of a few? My friend and I have been dating for about 2 years or so..and I had questions of him being married and he clearly said no..I took him at his word and enjoyed teh dinner and time we spent togeather a few times a month..he lives ... (276 words)

Has he changed because of the steroids?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and up to a week ago we were very much in love, we both felt we had found our soulmates. about a 6 weeks ago he started taking steroids to beef up and quickly gained mood swings, two weeks ago he stopped taking them completely and s... (214 words)

What are some good chat-up lines that aren't cheesy but work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

- Hi, I was just hoping that guys and girls could help me out with chat-up lines. I'm not really a fan of them but maybe something to break the ice. Good ones though, not cheesy ;) So girls: Any chat-up lines that have never failed to work? And guys: Any girls wowed you ... (75 words)

Boyfriend fought with my brother and I find his actions very disrespectful

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Yesterday my boyfriend started a fight with my 32 year old brother who lives on my property as to why he doesn't work and can't get off drugs. A discussion would have been ok but this was an all out screaming match with him calling my brother useless, a leach, loser etc... I ... (211 words)

How can I break up with my toxic group of friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've know my friends for years now and I know what they are. From the start, they have been backstabbing one another. They seem nice and all but when you are gone, they'll start gossiping. No matter truth or rumors, they always spread them fast then either act like they don't ... (366 words)

Affairs by email

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age - My husband has struck up an email relationship with a widow with a son of 16years because 'he felt sorry for her'. This has been going on for several months. They write pages to each other every few days. He has told me the gist of their emails - harmless chatty conversation ... (190 words)

I'm interested in her, and my friend has her number - should I ask him for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i recently met a girl at college. it was exam period and i never got to see her again to ask her if she would like a coffee sometime or whatever. my friend has her number. should i ask him for it? and would she feel awkward if i called her ? i don't think shes completely ... (75 words)

I don't have (or want) many friends, but will this stunt my chances for getting a girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi all. i think i have an issue. i don't have a broad amount of friends. to be honest i don't want lots of friends due to bad experiences (such as gossiping and fakes etc...), but because of that, i feel that chances for having a girlfriend are stunted, especially if she has a ... (99 words)

Do friends have oral sex? Can't girls make their own choices now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have one question... do friends have oral sex? like normal friend, with no relationship at all. just friend. and is it wrong if the girl wants to stop it and try to value herself more and don't let him touch her anymore... is that a bad thing? or is that stupid? she just ... (82 words)

A lot has happened between us. Now I'm pregnant and he doesn't want it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5426 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months, in the very short space of time alot has happend. soo when i met him he had only been single for 1 week. he split up with hes ex as hes in the army and she called him all the time was very needy and annoyed him. soo i met him ... (248 words)

She can't seem to connect with me at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age - We met 3 years ago in july. Moved in together that december and were happy until around April 2008. She became distant, withdrawn and didn't seem to want to connect emotionally with me. She wouldn't tell me she loved me nor would or could she explain why. we worked through it ... (993 words)

He kept looking at me...was he interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm a bit clueless when it comes to guys. so i was just out at lunch with my sister we were at a bar and this guy was sat there so we sat down and he kept looking at me. he was on his laptop and he kept looking over at me i caught him a few times. anyways my sister we... (137 words)

She never told me about her "friend"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my gf of over a year has a "friend" that gets out of jail soon. she says they are just friends, however they have slept together. she said that was a mistake and they are just friends. she didn't know him that long before he got locked up. she has been writing him 1-2 times a ... (101 words)

He's sent e-mails to another woman...what do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5430 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know I shouldn't but I've been hacking into my boyfriends email account and recently found emails to another woman which imply they have had a previous encounter (not sure how long ago) but my boyfriend has told the woman I will be working away from home next week and ... (101 words)

Really paranoid boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so before i even met my 3 month boyfriend of today, i met my seriously best friend ever, but he is a boy. I tell him every little thing, and i honestly dont know what i would do without him. So i started dating my boyfriend and whenever i wanted to hang out with my best ... (164 words)

Why does my stomach hurt after first time sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so i had sex for the first time yesterday. It was great and all and it didnt hurt when we did, but later on that day and today my stomach started hurting. Im just wondering if thats normal, since it was my fist time.... (45 words)

Can taking the pill erratically delay periods?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi DearCupid, do you know if taking a contraceptive pill erraticaly (i.e. not rigidly every 24 hours) can delay a period? I've not had sex this month with ejaculation, and it's always been with a condom so I'm ruling out pregnancy. I know I've been stressed also, due to ... (67 words)

Is it just jail talk?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello iv bin with my boyfriend 8 months and he is in prison we were only together for a short while before he went inside but we really do get on well he says im diffrent to any one else hes been with and that i make him want to change he says he loves me and wants to liv... (176 words)

So am I bi or gay...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Hi I am a girl who needs help to figure things out for herself. I am not sure if I am gay or bi, can you give me your opinion on how it sounds? Sexually I am attracted more to women and I find the sex better with women. I find people of both sexes attracted (as in nice... (255 words)

Violent past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My new partner is really lovely and kind to me but i recently found out in his past relationship he was really violent and abusive. Do you think he will be the same with me or do you think he has changed? ... (43 words)

She's too nervous to meet with me. How long should I wait for her?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I met a girl over the internet, and things have been going really well. We know a lot about each other, we've chatted for hours a day, and talked on the phone together on a few occasions. Last week we arranged to meet up this Thursday. Was really looking forward to it, a... (197 words)

Do you guys think I'm way in over my head with her or should I ask her out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

10 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Alrighty then. I'll try to make this as brief to the best of my abilities. I'm 24, she's 22. We met in a forum where artists gather and discuss... whatever it is we discuss. Few words about her: She's cute (I'd give her a 7 out of 10), sort of snappy sometimes, and tad arr... (400 words)

WHY can't he move on???

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well I was with my boyfriend 1 and a half and 8 months ago, he cheated on me and he confessed to me he had sex with his former friend, I gave him a second chance. And throughout the time people kept telling me stuff about him and what he did with that girl. I would tell him ... (306 words)

Do I stay married and let her cheat?

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10 June 2009 (M)

Should I stay friends with my ex who takes drugs?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i need to ask if i did the right thing. my x boyfriend has a drug problem and it seems that he wont change. yesterday i found out that he,s been asking for money from his friends, and his father give him too and he spent them all in a week he spent €200 in 5 days . HE owes ... (192 words)

WHY are relationships between students and teachers forbidden?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorry for asking such a question, you're all probably going: Isn't it OBVIOUS? Unfortunately, it isn't to me. So WHY are relationships between students and teachers forbidden exactly?! I just can't justify it. I've tried so many times and in so many ways, but still n... (182 words)

Guys: Does it bother you if your girl uses a vibrator?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is a little embarrassing. I have enjoyed masturbation for many years, and then for my seventeenth birthday my weird but lovely best friend bought me a vibrator. Ever since then I have loved using them on a daily basis. I was quite a late starter as far as sex is concerned, ... (144 words)

It was the alcohol wasn't it?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm gay and I have a good female friend who is straight,me being gay doesnt affect out friendship at all. she is 100% cool with me being gay and we rarely talk about it. My straight friend is 100% straight, likes a drink, one night about 6 weeks ago, when she was drinking... (265 words)

Girlfriend depressed has no idea what she wants

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10 June 2009 (M)

- My girlfriend is depressed. She has no idea what she wants. I ask her if she wants to breakup and she doesn't know. I try to support her and stay positive but I get one word answers, and sometimes it feels like she doesn't even want me around. I talked to her today and... (142 words)

Everytime we fight he goes to the adult website

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been with this man for just over a year. Everytime we fight he goes back onto the adult site where we met and sends a few messages to different girls. We dont have sex very often (not my choice) I have recently discovered that he has now paid for membership on a bondage ... (128 words)

Lots of questions about b/c pills

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have a myriad of questions concerning birth control pills. I know you aunties and uncles aren't doctors, but I would really like to talk to people who have experience with using them (or whose girlfriends do!). I've never used them before, but I'm considering goin... (328 words)

What's my next step?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just moved into a new place with a friend of mine. A couple weeks ago, when we first moved in, we had a house warming party. One of the boys who lives in the apartment below us came up and hung out with us for a while. It was fun and he was cute, but I was pretty drunk and ... (326 words)

He left me with a pregnancy and wants to care for the baby, it is hard for me, help?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay here is the problem I am facing currently. I have been in an almost 6 month relationship with a man whom had been with a woman (no they were not married). They had broken up, he moved out of her home but was still seeing her not sexually just as friends and a caregiver to ... (578 words)

Whenever we have anal sex, it makes me bleed, what causes this?

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10 June 2009 (?) age 36-40 - When ever my boyfriend ( we're gay) we had sex( anal sex) he always made m bleed. Here is my question, whats the cause will I get? ... (28 words)

With her for 2 years, now she's changing, avoids me, what can I do about this?

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10 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for 2 years, I am dreadfully attached. I have come to realize she doesnt want to see me all that much, she is very big on being together on birthdays.. but hers was today and she didnt want me to see her.. she keeps avoiding me. I am horrified.. i ... (89 words)

Please tell me if she is manipulative or do I expect too much?

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10 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Please, forgive me for the lengthy email, but I need to get the facts straight here. I have dated this woman for 1 1/2 years. She is 29 now. A few months ago I caught her lying to me. She told me - she actually set up her lie for a week!!! - that she had the birthday of his ... (1073 words)

I insulted my wife while drunk, she went to a hotel, how can I fix this?

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10 June 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I got really drunk and when I home (I came home wasted 10 times in a row). My wife was in the kitchen and she started yelling at me for coming home drunk and not calling her. Then we had a fight about my drinking and pretty much everything that's wrong with our marriage. It was ... (147 words)

Single dating fathers, could you tell me if you are able to be attentive to a woman who is not the mother of your child?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this guy.. hes a few years older than me but we seem to have soo much in common. The only thing is he has 2 kids and is living with his ex (the mother of his kids). I know he doesnt like her anymore. But Im still jelous of her becasue I knew he once loved he... (170 words)

How do I control my fear of her leaving me, it's driving me crazy?

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10 June 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My previous relationship lasted a year and a half and near the end her friends were constantly telling her to get rid of me because they were jealous of how much time I spent with her. She also hated me spending time with my friends because they were mostly girls, and I wasn't ... (276 words)

His mother hates me because of untrue rumors, how do I deal with this, or should I just drop him?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im really into my boyfriend of 8 months, everything is great between us except for the fact that his mom hates me. she doesnt even know me, only reason why she dont like me is because the girl my ex husband cheated on me with is talking alot of stuff about me. (even though she ... (90 words)

She is more experienced sexually and she brings up sexual acts with past lovers, how do I deal with this, without screwing up?

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10 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - The relationship I'm carrying with my fiance is great. We seem to get along as perfect as they can come. The only problem is me. My fiance was very sexually active in her past, and it makes me feel awkward because it seems that everything we do is simply the same. I've always b... (128 words)

My girlfriend's choice of clothing is too revealing, we argue, any suggestions how to deal with it?

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10 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a girl for some time now, and she's been putting on some clothing i don't like her to wear because it is a bit revealing. I tried talking to her about it, but we just ended up arguing, and she said that it was what she liked and I am no one to tell her what... (88 words)

My boyfriend's parents may break up, and I want to help him, what can I do to help him?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriends parents are prolly gonna split up and he doesnt want them to. he has no clue why they will and they have been married for about 19 years and they are a great family! i mean yeah they have their ups and downs, but all families do! i mean my dad almost left my s... (172 words)

He cheated on me and now I'm confused, would therapy help the situation and restore the trust?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 21 and had been with my boyfriend for 3 n half years. we met online and had a long distance relationship until last April when he moved to be closer to me. we lived on different coast lines. he has always said that i was the love of his life, that we were meant to be, and ... (834 words)

Men, why do men go back for encounters with their ex-wives?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to know or get a man's perspective to why men go back to have "encounters" with their ex wives? What is happening in man life when in reality he already moved on with someone else but still see his ex once in a while for sex even when he treats her like he doesn't care? ... (298 words)

I'm there for her, I cheer her up, but I am confused, don't really know if she likes me or not, what's your thought?

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10 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Theres this girl that I like alot, and cant get her out of my mind and cant stop thinking about. I told her I liked her and that i couldnt stop thinking about her.. she said i was the sweetest guy she knew.. i asked her how she felt about me and she said at times i like you ... (99 words)

Together for almost 4 years, I want marriage, he says "I'll look into it", what do I do?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have some serious concerns about my relationship. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. We own a house together, own vehicles together and we have 2 children. Our oldest is not his biologically, but my boyfriend has been her "step father" since she was barely 2. Our ... (241 words)

Should I just settle for being friends and apologize for ending our friendship, or just let it be?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i just recently ended a friendship with a guy that i use to work with. i liked him a lot but he told me that he doesnt date coworkers but we could be friends. i agreed against my better judgement. so now that we dont work together any longer he still want to be able to call ... (138 words)

Known him a long time, drove to see him, great time, now back home, he does not initate contact, what are your thoughts?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've known this guy since middle school (We are in our early twenties now) but we had only kept in contact through facebook. We decided to meet up and after a few failed attempts (once my fault, once his) I drove to see him. It was really casual, but he was very interested in ... (423 words)

Guys, what are the best turn-ons, that you wish girls knew ?

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10 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Guys, what are the best turn-ons that you wish girls knew? Hanging out, making out, and beyond... -GG... (20 words)

Boyfriend asked " if I need to borrow $200, would you do it" , after 5 years I said, he's angry, was I wrong?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of one year asked me "What if I needed to borrow $200, would you let me?" I responded, "Maybe after we have been together for 5 years." Now he is mad and thinks I would never be there for him. Am I in the wrong for saying this? I love him, but he has never told me ... (68 words)

I think I may be developing an eating disorder

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Um, I think I might be developing an eatting disorder. . . For a few weeks now, I got EXTREMELY upset at my sister. And she was about to kick me out the house, even though she was wrong. And I packed up all my stuff. I was so tired of her. And then I guess at the last minute [... (300 words)

Why do I feel bad about breaking up with a lazy abuser?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do I feel like crap just finish breaking up with my man who has an anger problem and also wants me to accept him doing illegal stuff as long as I don't know about it. Mind you I'm a single mother working and going to school at night to get a side gig..and all he's doing is ... (203 words)

Can't climax with my boyfriend

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been able to masturbate and climax, but with my boyfriend I can't. It's extremely odd because he's very good at what he does and he turns me on like no one ever has been able to. We don't have sex, but we do oral/hands and all that. Any tips on maybe how I can ... (74 words)

Want to hire my teacher as a tutor, but I have a bit of a crush on him

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should i ask my former teacher to tutor me? i'm planning on taking a standardized test in his subject next year, and i'm having some difficulty. i'd like him to tutor me because he's a very good teacher; i also developed a wee bit of a crush over this past year and i think... (97 words)

Would you stay?

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10 June 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for over 18 years and together with my wife for 25. We have 2 great kids ages from 13 and 15. Here's a brief history first: We both know and admit that we weren't "head over heels" in love when we first married. We had known each other long and were ver... (558 words)

Is he a druggie?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've only been on a couple of dates with this new guy. I find him really smart, we get on well etc. Actually, he seems to be so much like me. He made an offhand comment once about scoring some "rocks" which was sort of a joke I guess but when I asked him if he was joking he ... (164 words)

I want to be perfect!

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heres my issue: im skinny no hips no butt poofy hair when not scrunched with gel or straightened. over this summer(2 months) i want to get atleast a bit of hips a little bit of butt gain 15 lbs and find something to make my hair less frizzy and straighter but i want my stomach ... (94 words)

I love him but he doesn't love me back and it's driving me crazy!

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10 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I am a sixteen year old gurl and i love this guy, i cant stop, I cry over him a lot, I've liked him for almost this whole year and he said he doesn't like me and I don't know what the hell to do! Help me plz I am going crazy here!... (54 words)

Is he with me out of guilt?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I just wanted to know what you think it means when my boyfriend tells a friend of his that he doesnt feel anything when he kisses me... does that mean he's not really in love with me? He had a one month affair before and apologized for it but it worries me that he keeps ... (88 words)

What did I do that got him turned on?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - me and my boyfriend were sat on the grass just talking and he suddenly stops talking half way through a sentence, leans over and kisses me and he gets turned on, i was wondering why he got turned on and it is a good thing or bad? ... (47 words)

Questions about porn...

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10 June 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have some questions about porn: 1. Why do most (notice I said 'most') women in porn have HUGE breasts and are blonde? Those are obviously fake, and men always say they don't care about size, and that they hate implants, but is this a lie? I mean, porn is made mostly by g... (289 words)

One silly night that was a drunken mistake!

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, I had a bit of a mad weekend and kissed one of my closest friend's boyfriends, the thing is - him and my boyfriend are really close too but my boyf is in jail at the moment. Me, my friend and her boyfriend was all out together we had a good night and as usual we ended up ... (438 words)

If I'm 11 weeks pregnant shouldn't I be noticing more symptoms?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm worried that I'm pregnant. Iv have sex with my boyfriend about 5 times now. We'd been going out for 3 years so I felt we were ready. The last time I had my period it was completely messed up. I had 3 periods in 5 weeks? I know thats not normal but I don't know wat ... (140 words)

How many inches away is my hymen?

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So how many inches away is my hymen? I've never had sex. I'm just curious and know i don't need an explanation about how the hymen is a layer of tissue at the entrance of your vagina and stuff, just how many inches it is before the entrance of the vagina? ask if u need me ... (70 words)

My boyfriend's friend...

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to have a crush on my boyfriend's best friend. While my boyfriend and I were in a fight I asked his friend if he'd want to go out with me if my boyfriend and I broke up. He said kinda, but ever since he's always telling me nasty things that aren't true about my ... (101 words)

Is it okay not to have Foreskin at all?

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10 June 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 17 and I'm sort of having an identity crisis, cause my penis does not have any foreskin. Is this normal?... (22 words)

My career?

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10 June 2009 (?) age 30-35 - in college, i would like to major in art. when i'm older, i would like to work at disney world and design the scenery around the rides, (not architecture, like paint it or flowers) or make and paint the signs for the rides..and put like make up on people in scary rides. do you ... (79 words)

Jealousy that is leading my relationship to an end..

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been together for 14 months and broken up twice, and it's all because it's extremely hard for me trust him.I'm really on my last chance to keep him with me. He makes it clear to me he won't cheat, flirt,ect. I also can't stand it when a girl called him cute!So ... (145 words)

No inclination to actually have sex, but horny just the same

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10 June 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay. So I masturbate quite often and frequently fantasize while I'm doing it about being WITH a...ya know, a guy...but I cannot imagine actual sex feeling good; rubbing myself is nice and I am your typical teenager--I get horny just like, listening to "Lollipop" by Lil ... (70 words)