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writes:I am together with my fiance for almost year and I can't get over the fact that he masturbates several time a day. I know already that it is normal for men to masturbate all the time, but we have sex a lot... some days up to five time and other days at least 1-2 times a day. The sex is great, we are both free with our sexuality and he says it is the best sex of his life. It just irks to to know that when he is home alone, (which is a lot these day because he is out of work) that he can spend anywhere up to 4 hours on the computer jacking off to porn. Unfortunately, I have become obsessed with this habit of his, so when he is not at home I check his computer history and find out what he has been looking at. My question is is this normal behavior, how can I get over this obsession, and why is it bothering me so much? Note: Other than this "problem" we have very healthy relationship and we love each other very much. And, I would rather he being masturbating than cheating, no actually i would rather he masturbate like 4 times week, not 4 times a day with plenty of sex with me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2009): I have a good relationship with my partner; but she doesn't need sex as much as me. So I wank several times a day. It doesn't make any difference to our love.
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reader, malteser  +, writes (26 June 2009):
 This may freek you out as well but i like to masterbate when i am not with my boyfriend. This seems even stranger as i am female. Just because i do this dosent mean that i dont love my boyfriend or want to have sex with him. It just means that i can get in touch with my sexuality and this way i know what turns me on and how i like to be touched. I do not replace my sex life with masterbation and it sounds like your boyfriend isent neglecting his sexual relationship with you. Blokes and women like to masterbate its a fact. It should become a problem if he neglects you and the physical side of your relationship.If it makes you relly sad or annoyed talk to him and tell him how you feel.
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