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*ordy2009
writes:Why am i afraid to have sex with a normal girl but not a prostitute?? I'm 22 and have a big problem.. i only seem to be able to have sex and not worry about performance or anything when its a prostitute that i don't know...but when the oportunity comes to have sex with a normal girl that i date i get scared and back out. I worry that i will loose my erection which seems to always happen because i'm nervous and not perform well. This is really getting me down. Now the girls that i know may think i'm gay or something. I am sexually paranoid and this is really getting me down.. i need help...
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reader, betty_black +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Thats because a normal girl will still be there in the morning and if you decide to make it into something more then for months afterwards and you care what they think about your performance. A prostitute will only be there for a couple of hours and they sleep with different men all the time and so they wont even have an opinion on how you were! Its all your own insecurities. You need to let go! Im thinking you've had alot of practice with prostitutes already and so you wont be all that bad! Just get yourself out there and stop worrying!
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (26 June 2009):
 the reason for that is because with a prostitue you know you won't care what they think right?
i mean some girl from the street never will see again right?
she isn't going to care about whether or not you get an erection she gets paid for what she does so as long as she gets the money then she won't give two hoots.
whereas with a girl like you say "normal" you'd be dating her or with her like all the time so if it did happen and you lost an erection you'd be afraid she'd tell her friends and she'd think less of you for some reason when not all girls do that.
and you fear that it will keep happening everytime you go to perform the sexual act of love with her and you still have to see her all the time and she'll not forget you.
women on the street don't remember who they sleep with because it's a job and they get paid for it.
hope this helps hun x x x ilovebowsandcherries x x x
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