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Should I tell my boyfriend about this dream?

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Question - (26 June 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 June 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *mAndA101 writes:

this is sort of stupid, but i can get my mind off of it.

i really had a stupid dream, but i feel that i have to tell my bf about it. i really do love my boyfriend, so dont get me wrong but i dreamt that i was telling a mutual friend how to be with his gf, and then thing got carried on, but it was still as me showing him what to do with her, i think i also was sort of an actor, so he gets on top of me, but then i take him off directly cz this is not my bf...nothging happens though...im just scared to tell my bf so he wouldnt get upset and start to hate this friend just because i dreamt this dream, and we fought sothng about him beofre... so do u say i should tell him or just consider it a dream and move on,,, once i had a dream with a colleuge he got upset when i told him... should i tell him this time?? thx for the help i really need ur help. i know ur gonna probably gonna say if u love each other then we would accept each other, but i dont know what to do on this one, CAN U HELP!!

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (26 June 2009):

Starlights agony auntno dont tell your bf about this dream. people have weird strange dreams all the time, but there is no point upsetting your bf for something you havent DONE IN REAL LIFE, so dont worry about it.

forget the dream & chill out!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2009):

Honey...

Dreams are like, our little private space that no one can invade. No one can see what you dream and no one ever has know! And they're certainly nothing to feel guilty about. You can't help what you dream. It doesn't mean that you have any feelings or sexual desires toward either of those men so don't let it fool you into thinking too far into it. Dreams are only what our minds put together as a collection of what they've seen previuosly in the day or entire life.

DOn't take it seriously. It's nice you want to be very honest and open with him, but dreams are just dreams.

I'm pregnant and last night i had a dream that my baby's head was made of mush when it came out. Now does that mean anything? No.. or god i hope not.

Lighten up.. don't worry about such small things. You'll kill yourself that way!

~Sy.

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