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Is my little sister attracted to me?

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Question - (25 January 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, *usttryit writes:

My little sister is 13 and I am 19. The last two times that I was hanging out with her in her room she says, "I'm horny". Not just once but on two different occasions. I just say like yeah me too... and blow it off. I'm starting to wonder if she has a thing for me. Otherwise, why would she tell me this? What should I do? I sorta like her too.. she is pretty damn hot.

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A female reader, pebble United Kingdom +, writes (20 May 2009):

pebble agony auntPlease stop wasting your time replying to this. It's obviously some sicko getting his kicks out of talking about underage incest. I'm pretty sure a VERY simillar question has been posted here before.

Obviously Mr 36-40 isn't as clever as he thought he was.

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A male reader, bugmenot3 United States +, writes (20 May 2009):

Hmmm you arent a sicko or nothing its just that if you dont have a gf you wont have another girl in your life get a girlfriend hit it then watch how you wont even think about your little sister and that is kinda nasty your 19 and shes 13 you would destroy her if she tells you that she horny again tell her to go masterbate and to keep it to her self if she trys touching you go away(dont touch her)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2009):

Get a life. Both of you are can get hundered of other girls but you cant have another sister because in the future she will hate you for doing anything with her and you will get the blame since you are older

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A female reader, anonymousgirl09 United Kingdom +, writes (28 January 2009):

You already know this but dating your sister would be wrong and would cause your family pain. At 13 your sister is going through alot of hormonal changes and so she may have feelings for you, but they probably wont last. Maybe you should talk to someone about this and stay out of her room. Give your sister a bit of space, and get her to interact with other boys as this could divert her interest. If this continues obviously the decision is yours but remember that if this ends badly then you two will not be the only ones hurt and as your sister is only young it could end up ruining her life. I also think you should consider speaking to a professional about yours or your sisters feelings. Good luck and email me if you want anymore help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009):

Your sister is most likely attracted to you. you should sit down with her and talk to her about age and that u are to old for her and she is to young to be haveing sex. when you date family things get messed up wat happens if you get her pregnat. nobody should date family i got in that point where i liked a family member but i knew it was wrong so i didnt hang with them because i knew i was attracted to them. but you just think about what is right and yea you can look at a family member but you shouldnt hang out in there room because you get to a point where you just cant help your self and you got to give in. you should only hang with her where there is other people cause you wont be able to do anything if there is someone else there. also think about wat people will say wen they know you had sex with your sister. if you are 19 and your sister is 13 her vagina cant take you because she isnt fully matured yet. she could get hurt but always think before you make a move.

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A female reader, Libra1963  +, writes (26 January 2009):

Libra1963 agony auntNumber one, you should not be in your sisters room. Its good to have brother and sister like love but getting sexually involved in sick and you could get into serious trouble. If your family find out so will professionals and even neighbours. You will feel sick and ashamed of it when you grown up and face her husband etc.

You need to speak to her about the type of talk she is coming out with and leave well alone.

You are her older brother, you need to look out for her as it sound like she may start experimenting with boys which may end upin pregnancy. If you feel confident yo may want to get an adult to speak to her.

She is at an age where certain feels come into play. Maybe you could guide her to this website and we could give her ideas as to how to satisfy herself as she is too young for sex.

It was very brave of you to share this with us.

Take care and take notes on board.

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