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writes:I have a boyfriend who I loved more then anything. He told me he is in love with me, he is totally sweet and all but he lives 500 km away. He is coming to see me in less then a month and I am a virgin but he had sex 12 times already. He regrets losing his virginity and doesn't want me to regret it but I want to lose it to him, I want to do it more then anything. im not scared of any pain what so ever. The only thing that is kind of stopping me in my age im 15 but i never loved anyone more then him. i was inlove before but he means everythign to me. so should i just loose it to him? or wait for someone who is also a virgin and didint do it 12 times already? . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): Well what can I say ,I am a 18 year old virgin and I am very proud to say so.I had someone in my life no one from my family know about he was much older then me.He talked to me with sweet word and everything promising me thing and what not.I believed we could have been together so well that I thought of letting him be my first just because the way he was with me and because I thought I was ready.We talked about sex most of the time and he always said he would do it with care.He was such an experinced guy he made me think I was in love.Thats what the guy you with is tryin to do to you.They eat your brains out with sweet word making u feel good.Mostly when they are older then you. What I'm saying is keep your virginity.Don't be a fool in believing a older guys words you are valuable just the the way you are.You should be smart and wait for that right man in your life the one who will be there to love you not because he want to be your first or cause you want him to take your virginty but because u love him and he's the one u wana spend time with.Far love is no love cause while your there he is 500km away doing someone else.I didn't sleep with the guy I was with because I noticed every conversation we had would lead to having sex and letting him be my first.Thats all he wanted and I didn't do anything because I found out in my way that's all he wanted from me. Take my advice and wait if he so loves you he would make things right and wait.He should be understanding of your choice and he will love you for you not cause your a virgin and you wanted him to be your first. Many girlz I kno have lost there viginity as early as 13 years of age and most of them say they regret it because they did it with the wrong guy and at an early age.Most of them had kids to young they didn't get to finish school or hangout with there friends.They get stressed and deppressd as well to know how there regrets and mistakes have payed them back. I hope u make the right choice cause its not onli lossin your virginity is changing your life as well.Take care young one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): Truthfully, I lost my virginity when I was 14. It was hard letting this kid go that I lost it to. So if you really and truly think you should, then do it, just remember he might forget you in the long run, but you can't ever forget him. Sometimes you want to and wish to, but its like imposable. If it feels right and you want to that bad, then just go with your gut. But I say talk to one of your friends that's "experienced" with that kinda stuff.
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