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male
age
41-50,
*eordie
writes:Hello i have been with my wife 15 years we have been married 8 years we have got two lovely kids i love them all very much but the thing is when i go out drinking i never know when to stop and i always end up out of it and my family just get forgotten about and she has recently threw me out after a didnt get home until 3 oclock in the morning and i had two love bites on my neck and it gets worse i am sure it might have been a man i was with! I was out of my mind cause i started drinking vodka i cant remember how i got there just remember my wife ringing my mobile and a man being there and i left straight away and come home i did not relise i had the bites on my neck until my wife saw them the next day i told her the truth she was devastated i told her i can hardly remember do you think she would take me back or is it over?i have told her that i will stop drinking but will she ever trust me again?any advice would be helpfull thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 January 2009):
You need to talk to her about this and really beg for forgiveness if you want to stay with her.
You have promised to go T-total which is a great first step but it will take a lot of hard work to re-gain her trust.
Give her a bit of time to calm down and then just sit down with her and ask her what you can do to make it up to her.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): are you bisexual? ur wife must be very upset right now! give her space. guys need to really think before they do silly things and mess up everything because of ONE drunken night....
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