A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi - is this guy interested? i was introduced to this really great guy - he was in regular touch and we met up for lunch, but then he didnt call for three weeks, but when i asked him if he wanted to come this show he said yes and apologised a few times that he's just been really busy - is he interested? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni think like you said it's probably best to give him the benefit of the doubt, maybe just touch base once in a while to let him know you are interested and see what happens?
A
female
reader, susi +, writes (25 January 2009):
yeah it is, have you got any advice for me
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for your answers, its so helpful - we went to the show and i couldnt believe how mushy he was - holding my hand, my waist - the next morning he text good morning and hope im ok - is that a good sign? xx
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): My fiance is also a doctor who regularly works night shifts, and in my experience it leaves him with literally no time for socialising during the night shifts, and inevitably it also catches up with him in the following week when he is back to normal day shifts. I would give him time but perhaps let him know you are interested....he obviously has extremely difficult hours to work and it is so hard to organise anything around them, but might not mean he doesn't like you. The only reason I get to see my fiance at all when he is on nights is that I work from home, so we see each other for an hour in the morning and then in the evening. If we didn't live together or I had to go out to work I wouldn't see him at all. See how things go on this one, and good luck. Maybe you just need to be patient.
...............................
A
female
reader, susi +, writes (25 January 2009):
i know feeling was seeing someone and he started shifts as a fireman 2 day shifts (9am to 6pm) and then 2 night shifts (6pm to 9am)and then 4 days off. We were seeing each other nearly every day and he kept in touch. Then he told me was too busy to be seeing anyone and didnt want to upset me but wouldnt be able to see me much and wouldnt be fair. I dont know what to think?Maybe just give him benefit of the doubt and see what happens
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes he is a doctor so just had exams a couple of days ago, plus he works night shifts (8am - 8pm) every other week
...............................
A
female
reader, susi +, writes (25 January 2009):
I take you contacted him for him to say yes to your invitation. He may be interested i would just take things slowly with him. He could be genuine and quite shy as some men are or could have been busy. Then again he could have been seeing other people. Why dont you go to the show and see what happens. I know its hard but try to leave it up to him to contact you otherwise you will be constantly chasing him and if he doesnt contact you after the show again then hes not worth it and you deserve better
...............................
A
female
reader, susi +, writes (25 January 2009):
hi did he say what was going on and how he was busy?
...............................
|
