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Is it wrong for me to be attracted to her?

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Question - (25 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 January 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *nickx writes:

Hey guys its me again. Just have a quick question to ask and all replies are appreciated.

Is it wrong for me to be attracted to or date this girl?

The problem is, i'm in high school, (10th grade) and she's in the middle school still (8th grade). She'll be in the high school next year.

However, I am 15 (3 months from 16) and she is 14 (6 months from 15).

So the age gap isn't that big, but i don't know if it's morally right or correct or whatever to date a middle school girl. We get along great and everything, and she has all ready been dropping hints that she wants to date me, but should i go with it? I do like her back, but i wouldn't tell her if she didn't tell me (i still didn't tell her)

Once again all help is appreciated.

Thanks,

Nick

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A female reader, xXxkinki_katiexXx United Kingdom +, writes (26 January 2009):

xXxkinki_katiexXx agony auntPersonally i think its great for you two to be dating...

There is nothing wrong with the age gap and besides,, at the end of the day,, age is just a number!! What matters is if you like each other and think you could make ago of it then go ahead!!

You shouldnt worry about the age theres only about a year and a half between you!! Go for it mate xXx

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A female reader, Aylarsh United States +, writes (25 January 2009):

Aylarsh agony auntI actually feel that it is fine for you to date the only thing that probably freaks you out is that you are in 10th grade and she's in 8th. I say go for it but, wait awhile and see how her family reacts to you too being together and all. For example be like o hey im going over my grandmas house or something wanna come with me?? See how both families act and she'll possibly do the same and bring you to family functions or something.

good luck

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