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writes:Im really confused and don't know what to do. I'm 19 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for a year now. Last month he broke up with me because he didnt want to be in a relationship, but we got back together, he has done the same thing 4times since then. i know i should walk away but i cant help it, i love him too much and i want to spend the rest of my life with him. last week he told me that he wasnt in love with me anymore, when i asked him why he said i pushed him away by being jealous and controlling, he says he feels like he cant do what he wants, but i admit for the last few weeks ive chaged alot in that way but i dont kno why. Ive told him il change and i will. but for the last few weeks he hasnt made me feels special and its always me that puts in the efford. i dont kno if hel ever love me again, should i just let go, i believe i deserve to be loved and adored as much as i love him. please help, it hurts so much.xxxxxx
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reader, kahlan  +, writes (31 August 2009):
 You do deserve to be loved, but it isnt going to happen with this guy.You need to be strong and walk away from him.You will find someone,probably when you least expect it.This guy doesnt deserve you.If you stay away from him, the chances are he'll come running.He has been straight with you about his feelings.You dont need someone like that.Yes it will hurt like hell but the pain will go away eventually,i promise.Keep yourself busy and spend time with friends so you wont be so tempted to go back.He has left and hurt you 4 times.Dont let him make it 5.You are better thean that.Love Kahlan.X
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