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writes:hey guy simple question but might have a complicated answer.how do i know im not just in a relationship for sex?im a 17 year old male andim just wondering how i could know if im not just in a relationship subconsciously just for sex, i recently found out im not going to have sex for a while and im worried ill lose interest.thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Elliiott  +, writes (30 August 2009):
 Lose interest, I don't think so mate .. =D
Look, Lets take my relationship as an example, Me & My girlfriend have been together for nearly a year now, We haven't had sex, We don't need it, Not yet anyway, And I think we're both clever enough to know if she accidentally gets pregnant, Education wise, She isn't going to do as well as she should.
I wouldn't worry, Relationships aren't always about sex for some people ..
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reader, Digiman  +, writes (30 August 2009):
 Ah! To be 17 again!
But seriously, at 17, you are just getting started learning about yourself and about having a relationship. But you might just ask yourself this question:
What do I like to do with this girl/woman when we're not having sex?
If you can't think of anything you like to do with her (either, based on your interests, or on hers) when you're together, then I would say that you're with her just for the sex!
Good luck figuring this one out! Just be HONEST with yourself and you'll figure it out!
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