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writes:Hi, want to know under a regestered user name an answer, my hang up is I just dont want him to be more attractied to her than I. He agreed that he would never contact her without me or would he have any sexual activity with her without me, he says it is the me part being included that makes it good, but I am just wondering is he a smooth talker....this was my question belowMy husbamd and I have been married 6 years we are in our 40's my husband and I have sex and talk naughty about threesomes often it is very hot. about 4 years ago we went to a hotel and I got him a stripper it was hot as hell. there was no invasesive things going on. But we have very heated sex when we talk dirty about threesomes so I recently has a friend that has been divorced for a year that is dating others playing the field come over and play with us. He did not have sex with her she gave him a blow job and he gave her oral and fingered her. I touched her breast and he asked if he could have intercourse with her. I said no and he was ok with it and we all had fun. But now he wants more and this is scarey for me . help
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): this message is to Q1605. seems like you make all us anon females feel very special.........and i thought your wit was only for me. am so jealous and slightly annoyed.(lol)
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (27 August 2009):
 Good Job original poster!!! BRAVO!I have always said when it comes to three ways to be careful what you wish for...It is painfully obvious that you were not ready for this. Well really nothing you can do about it now. For it wasnt the turn on you thought it would be.When inviting another person into a situation like this, the most important thing you have to ask yourself is how are you going to REALLY feel when you witness your significant other having a different low throated moan than YOU are used to hearing.The same goes for a man who invites another guy in to pleasure his wife. A guy who has any hangups at all is not going to appreciate the fat that his wife has a different glow about her hanging off another guy's tool.Of course you let this cat out of the bag, and you were on the whole completely unprepared for the end result. So now you have to either nip this in the bud yourself or allow it tyo continue unabated. For your husband isn't going to just stop this gift you gave him that keeps on giving!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): Oh Q1605, by the way, you said "one less irritating broad to ignore". If you'll check your English, I think that is the opposite of what you probably intended to say. Damn you must be all agitated and not thinking straight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): Gee I'm sorry it took me so long to get home from work to catch q1605 soiling his shorts! The Q man seems awfully worked up about this personally. Perhaps if he'd reread the original post he'd catch the drift -- the poster hired her husband a stripper for some motel action, then had her friend who is divorced but playing the field come over to play with them and apparently was OK with a little licky-licky ("and I touched her breast" YAY ME!!!) So I think us native English speakers can deduce that the poster sort of set these deals up. I'm not saying the husband was forced into anything, and gee what a gentleman he is to have asked his wife's permission to insert, but this wife is being unreasonable if she wants to be damn well guaranteed that he will not get harder for any 2nd woman they play with. How the hell are any of us going to give advice to her to be sure that doesn't happen which is what she asked us to do? The husband is the one I feel sorry for here. If that poster sets up a threesome and the husband finds the 2nd woman tastier or tighter or whatever, that man had better be able to control the size of his cock relative to each of the women because that wife will damn sure use it as a measuring stick (no pun intended) and most men can't do that very well. And q1605, I'll bet you're one of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): If getting a threesom with a woman is okay what about a threesom with you and a another man. Dont think your husband will enjoy it. And no woman in her right frame of mind would allow another woman in her husband's bed. Whats good for the goose should be good for the gander. I really believe you have opened pandora's box.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009): OK, I've got the advice you asked for... pull your head out of your ass. I can't believe you're on here pissing and moaning about how your husband might end up more attracted to your friend than to you in a threesome. You brought this other person into the picture and I guess stood by while she sucked his cock. Now you're worried that he might end up liking her more if you tell him to go ahead and pump her, which at your current pace you probably will. He already told you that he wants to fuck her; I guess you consider him to be super faithful just because he didn't do it right there in front of you. This is what happens when you think you can control someone else, even that person's fantasies. Did you honestly believe that you would be able to set up a threesome and somehow guarantee that you would still be the top chick in your husband's desires? I would be willing to bet that your man has already decided he is going to fuck her, with you or without you being there. In fact if he's been able to get time and opportunity loose from you, he may have already done so. Maybe you should ask your friend. And remember, you don't really have the right to get mad at her if she's slapped bellies with him - after all, it was you who practically placed his dick in her mouth. Sorry to be so blunt, but you sound like a twit.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (25 August 2009):
 I forgot to ask this question before, When you had the threesome, who did he pay more attention to...you or her?
If it was you then the threesome itself was a big turnon and I wouldn't worry about him being interested in your friend.
Now if he payed more attention to her then that is a problem. You should confront him about your feelings and depand to know why he paid more attention to her then go from there.
I hope everything turns out well for you, Good Luck! Also I think you should trust your husband, he is probably telling you the truth.
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