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writes:hello...i've been talking to this guy that I met online.One day we were talking about relationships online.Then he just wrote a message that said that him and his girlfrirnd broke up and he gave me his number.I texted his phone to let him know I had his number.Then we just started texting each ohter like crazy.He has a good personality,he's faithful,he told me that he wanted me to be his girl.He makes me feel comfortable.If I feel like he doesn't want to be bothered,he'll just keep talking to me to make me feel comfortable.That first might we texted,it was about four hours long.He's understanding and friendly.He is very upfront with his feelings.Although it seems like he doesn't know if he wants me or not.He seems like he's afraid of me or sumthing I don't know.I would like to be with him but I don't want to feel desperate.He is looking for a girl though and I could see myself with him.What do you guys think I should do?Still try to show him I care or wait until he texts me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thanks for the advice!
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (15 September 2008):
 Not a problem, depending on how long you have been speaking to this guy then thats what you should go on of when you should meet, do it in a public place in daylight and maybe take a friend with you.
Only you will know when the time feels right to meet him.
Peaches
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBy the way thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo are you saying wait a few days then talk to him?N just how should I meet him I mean we just started talking.Should I wait a while or should I see him right away?I mean how long should I bring up the situation on seeing him?
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (14 September 2008):
Just remeber taht he hs recently broke up from his gf so it will be a case of maybe he doesnt want to make it seem like a rebound thing. Take things slowly and get to know each other more. Maybe actually meet him. Its ok to say that he is nice and careing etc over the phone but ppl cna come across how you want them to when you arnt face to face.
Good luck
Peaches
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