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writes:i love my boyfriend to death..everytime hes in my house he asks like himself.but wen he is at his house next to his mom he totally changes..he acts like he is big..not by weight..but by attitude.i hate when he does dat..also i dont let him look and talk 2 other girlz..and he doesnt let me with guyz..as well i think he does anyway... and sumtimez i feel like hes cheatinq on me.what do u think i should do? or feel?i really need help..all dis hauntzz me =[p.s. i hate his mom..she acts like a bitch,she makes him cheat on me...i jus kno it..she tryss to keep him away..and she has amitted dat shes jealous..i kno dis is mean but what can i do to show my boyfriend dat her mom is a bitch and not to like her.
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reader, PRSzSExXiiMAMii +, writes (16 September 2008):
PRSzSExXiiMAMii is verified as being by the original poster of the question naa iit aint dat..im tryna show him reality ckuz she alwayz chooses her boyfriend over him,for example he had to stay at my house until 6 in the morninq..becuz she was partyin with her man..makinq sure her bf got home safe not knowinq were her son was..and after she treatz him bad..she apologizes and he forgives her..i want wutz best for him..and she isnt wutz best for himModerator note:If it's at all possible, could you try improving your grammar a little?Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): I am happy you are not friends with my son.For a young girl your age you are way to serious and to full of hatred.I suggest you should have a good look at yourself in the mirror. So what if he is looking at other girls, my goodness he is a kid. Why should he hate his mother, because you a little "lovesick" 12 year old are jealous and don't like her? Please little girl, grow up and stop being so full of hatred.You will end up a very lonely and miserable adult if you don't learn that life is about give and take. Try to relax and be friendly. Be nice to his mom. Try to be less possessive and jealous,(you cannot blind fold him or tie him to you).I hope you want to open your eyes and realize there is more to life then you and what you want.You are dealing with real people who have feelings just like you.(they are not "dolls").Be a good girl and think about what I have said, be nice to people. Be friendly and kind and it will come back to you.Don't hate people, you are only going to hurt yourself. Love them and be kind and see the difference.
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reader, Aunty Em  +, writes (14 September 2008):
 To be honest, I think you both have issues. You need to learn, both of you, tha you can trust each other. If you can't - then it's the end.
The matter concerning his mother - you can't make a boy hate his mother just because you do.
As for him acting 'big' in front of her - have you pondered the thought that he's trying to impress you by acting the 'big man' ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2008): hey babes - listen Ive been through the same when i was 17 - Im 26 now so listen to my advise trough my own experience.
Males always side with their mothers - especially if they are close - she sounds very protective. Try not to stay round his as much if possible, can you stay at yours?? try to avoid her BUT NEVER BAD MOUTH HER to him!!!! he will only turn against you.
regarding the paronoia stuff - your best bet is to not get upset - dont mention girls to him - bite your toungue - men love the attention that a girlfriend gives if she is jelous they thrieve on it!! your just boostin ghis ego - Make it seem like your not bothered no matter how hard it is - he will then turn his attention to you, he will worry that your not concerned and start trying to impress you again!!
as for him not letting you speak to guys, just dont mention this to him and keep him sweet, dont play the game - or try to make him jelous by speaking to men infrount of him - this will only make him more angry and he will try to get you back.
I hope that helps!!
Stay strong babes - remember playing it cool is the best way always!!
Kisses
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reader, Jinsara +, writes (14 September 2008):
hun this is not fair on both of you. there is no respect in this relationship and he is walking all over you. you need to let him go. hard it may be but would you rather be happy and single than in a relationship treading on eggshells and being made to feel awkward by his family?
i know which one i would choose.
good luck.
luv jay x
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reader, supermum +, writes (14 September 2008):
 you cant make your bf hate his mum. MAybe this is not the right relationship for you. You are only a baby your self ( i dont mean to be patronising, but i was still playing with dollies at your age) and are obviously to insecure to handle a relationship...
His mum, though annoying, is prob not making him cheat on you, as if he really liked you he would ignore his mum.
Try to find someone else, who treats you with the respect you deserve... and whose mum you get on with lol.
all the best sweetie...
and, if things dont work out, put it down to experience, learn from your mistakes, dont make them again and you will become a stronger person
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