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writes:well i am 20 my boyfriends is 28 w have been together for 2years and i feel really uhapy we live and work together. we speand somuch time with each other. he makes me so happy. i love him so much much. i really need happy to put a smile on hisface and make it stay there. he looks at everywoman like he is waiting for the next best thing to walk into his life it makes me really upset set and i hav told him how i feel but it still dont seem to care. i really dont understand him some times wth him. but its sohard when you lovesomeone just to walk away. xx Reply to this Question |
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (29 November 2008):
 Hi,
It's a guy thing most men can't help look but as long as that is all he is doing!
Tell him he has to listen to what your saying as your not going to keep repeating yourself and if your unhappy then that will spill into your relationship and cause problems he has to see that and not ignore it.
Maybe your spending just too much time with him sometimes it is not healthy to spend 24 hrs with someone 24/7!
He needs some space to have his time and you yours it does'nt have to involve long time apart but just some days here and there and if your working together too that can be straining, you both just need to cool things down for now and maybe try and be more positive around him because negative vibes do give out negative feelings so try and concentrate on the good things you do and try not be to bothered about the looking as long as he is committed to you and tells you and shows you i think you have to accept that and give him credit for that.
He probably like most guys does not see it as a big thing but i always tell people if it spills into the realtionship it is something that has to be dealt with and not ignored so if he listens again to what you have to say and still does not act differently then you may have to decide what your prepared to put up with from him i hope this helped.
Ginalolabridga
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