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writes:ive known this guy over the internet for ages now! we met a while back like twice and then when he added me on msn we got chattin alot, i really liked him and he liked me, he asked me out on a date on friday and i thought it was amazing! i was like the happiest girl ever, we went to the cinemas and then for a meal, then back to his. but he hasnt spoke to me since, because i refused to sleep with him on our first date, should i have done? whys he been like this?x
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reader, MuffinGirl  +, writes (30 September 2008):
 You did the right thing when you refused him. Maybe he really seemed to be nice guy at the first place but reality can be so different than online chatting. Remember that.I'm sorry this had happened to you. Obviously his expectations was higher than yours. I think you don't have to worry about that guy who just wanted to used you. Forget him.I know it's easier say than do, but i think you're not so much involved with him this would take a long time for you. I guess in few weeks this wouldn't hurt you anymore. There's so many guys which only want to have sex and nothing else. You did the right decision to not have sex with him, so be proud of yourself! Find somebody who's worth of you and who can wait for longer time to have sex with you.
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reader, louxxlouxx + ♥, writes (30 September 2008):
 Well done for turning him down cuz he has proven straight away what a horrible person he is. All he cared about was having sex with you and because you had the confidence to turn him down he is throwing a hissy fit. Block him from msn, delete him from your phone and put it down to a bad experience. If you had slept with him he might have done exactly the same thing anyway! At least you don't have the regrets to deal with aswell. Move on from this loser. I know he seemed perfect but don't let that cloud your view of how pathetic he is. Good luck! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): hey,
sorry but the reason is that he's only after one thing. he kinda made it obvious. u shouldnt think that u were wrong to not sleep with him because hes not worth it
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