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Why won't he commit after 2 years? He changes the subject when I talk about buying a house...

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Question - (30 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i have been with my partner for 2 yrs, i have 2 children so we cant move in together cos he has no room. but when i talk about us gettin a house together he changes the subject. am i wasting my time here i love him so much but after 2 years why wont he commit

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2008):

hlskitten agony auntThis is a similar question to one on here earlier, yet they had been dating 5 yrs and people said she shouldn't feel pressured to live with him even after this length of time, so 2 yrs is nothing.

I know what you mean though, I was married by 18, and had been with him since 15. I personally think 2 yrs is plenty of time to know if you want to make a commitment to someone or not, and if you want a commitment from someone and they wont give you it, then you have a right to decide if you can live with that or move on basically.

C xxx

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A female reader, Lilly Rose United Kingdom +, writes (30 September 2008):

Lilly Rose agony auntHe's proberly scared of losing all his freedom as most men and women do. Get a babysitter for the evening and have a nice meal or something and talk to him but dont nag as that makes things worse. 2 years is not a long time together but you have 2 children which is def a reason to move in together. Tell him he needs to this situation into a family one......he has a responsibility to you and your children. Im sure he talk things thru with you. Let him know how down its getting you and moving into together will only make things better living together as a lovely family what can be nicer then that?!

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