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Survey: how old were you when you performed your first fellatio, did you choose a special person and did you like it from the very beginning?

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Question - (29 March 2008) 24 Answers - (Newest, 30 January 2010)
A male age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I have question for you women and girl on this site: How old were you when you gave your first blowjob? The reason I ask is that I went to high school in a small town in the 1970s, before oral sex was known. So I am curious as to when to when girls started doing this on a large scale.

Also, who was the boy/guy who got your first blowjob? A boyfriend, classmate, neighbor, or other male? Did you like doing it that very first time, or did it take a few more times before you got to where you liked it?

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A female reader, Ruthie United States +, writes (30 January 2010):

20 years old I didn't know if I would or could do it. I had never done it with anybody else my boyfriend asked me to do it and I wasn't sure. I don't mind sucking a cock and I always swallowed but I hated it now I don't swallow anymore. I can't force myself to swallow and it really upsets my husband he wants it but I can't do. I want to satisfy him but I can't do what should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2008):

i was 12 and ive been doing it on a regular basis since I love feeling my guy pulse and come strong a clean penis gives an odor better than any perfume have probably swallowed enough semen in my 30 years down my throat to float a ocean liner

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

Oh, it appears I already answered this a few weeks ago! Haha this is too late at night for me, obviously :] silly me.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

I was 15, and to be honest, a little confused lol. He was my boyfriend (and still is) and I'd been with him over a year. I loved him with all of my heart, and still do. Yes, I enjoyed it right from the beginning to be honest with you, and he did too. I hadn't even been taught how to do it or read any tips on the internet at the time, I just went with the flow and it worked! He reacted very well. And to the update.. I swallowed his semen - not my favourite taste, I must admit, but I love the guy an awful lot and it's not poison, so why not? :]

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

A follow-up question to you women who answered this question. Do you swallow or spit out your lover's semen after he ejaculates from you giving him a blowjob? Can you describe the taste of his semen, and do you like the taste or not?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008):

I was 15 and he was my boyfriend. And I actually liked doing it the first time because I like making hime feel good. He didn't ask me for it, I just thoguht it'd be a nice surprise. Turns out he likes it and I didn't do such a bad job :)

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A female reader, pixeydust United States +, writes (24 April 2008):

pixeydust agony auntI was probably 15 or 16, he never came in my mouth, because I wouldn't let him. That was with my ex husband, which was about 8 years ago. My current boyfriend, loves it when I go down on him. I enjoy making him feel good and the time alone together and when he ejaculates he's always talking about how he likes to do so down my throat (yeah I know, lovely image) but it really isn't as bad as people make it out to be. Of course I know I'm with the one that I want to be with for the rest of my life so....I guess it just has to be with that special one.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008):

Sorry, BigSis. I made a mistake and meant to say that I hope the blowjob you were forced to give didn't do psychological damage. Glad to hear that it didn't.

As far as the one by choice, 10 years old is young for the first time giving a BJ. I've heard about 12 year-old girls doing it, since oral sex seems to be the norm among middle school girls, but 10 seems really, really young. Did you initiate it with your P.E. teacher, or did he seduce you?

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntThe one by choice, as it happens, was my PE teacher. The age difference was 10 years at that time....and anyway, why would you assume that I would have "emotional or psychological scars" if I fooled around when I was younger?

As for the other, that hasn't affected me in any way either.

: ^)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

Thanks, BigSis. So will you tell us which one of the members I mentioned got the blowjob you gave by choice? And I hope the first one you gave by choice didn't leave any emotional or psychological scars that you haven't been able to deal with.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2008):

BigSis agony auntOk, Anon, you were close, very close.

Yes I was young, very young, and two of the members you mentioned were involved. First one was not through choice, and the second was totally my choice, only I was older then.

Can't say as I enjoyed it, and it took quite a long time before I could do such a thing again.

Now?...Just you try stopping me :P

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

OK, BigSis. I think your first time must've had a taboo element to it, otherwise you'd be willing to reveal at least a little information about it. And I'm guessing the taboo factor might've been something like maybe you were really, really young and the guy was a teacher, parent or older brother of one of your friends, maybe a relative like a cousin or uncle? Or maybe like the guy who posted here, the boy was a lot younger, maybe someone you were babysitting or something like that. Am I close?

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A female reader, Cindy303 United States +, writes (31 March 2008):

Cindy303 agony auntFrom the looks of the answers here, I seem to have been a little older then most of you when I did it the first time. I was 21. He was my boyfriend. I had NO idea what I was doing. I just did my best. It got a little easier as time went by and I was able to perfect it. I am not sure why guys enjoy this so much. It never really made alot of sense to me. The last time we made love, he was really wanting me to give him oral sex. At first I just ignored his messages, and then as time went by that night, I went ahead and did it. I am not a big fan of the whole thing, but if he enjoys it and it makes him feel good, then I dont mind. Best Wishes, Cindy

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2008):

BigSis agony auntAhhhhh....that's for me to know and for you to wrack your brain about what i'm hiding. : p

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

Oh, come on Big Sis! I'm dying to know how old you were the first time and who the guy was. You're not embarrassed to reveal those details, are you?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

I was 14 (yes I know) and it was with the guy I'm still with now. I loved him to pieces and I still do, and to be honest, I don't remember particularly liking it or disliking it! I just did the best I could, and was quite pleased with myself with he ejaculated lol :] Then I grew to like it more and more.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

A few months past 15. We'd had sex a few times, and we were talking about me trying it out. I finally got up the guts to do it, and I DID! I didn't really mind it. Not my favorite dish if you know what I mean (but I still swallowed and chased it with a can of diet Coke). We're broken up now and I've tried it with a new guy before and found it revolting with him. Blech! On my current boyfriend, not yet. I don't think he's really even into that...hm. I'll have to ask sometime.

Hope that helps!

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2008):

BigSis agony auntI'm not telling. : )

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

I was 15 the first time i gave a guy head. He was not a boyfriend and in fact my best friend gave it to him only a week or so before I did. Didn't mind, still don't. One of my favorite Sex and the City quotes is: "It's not my favorite thing on the menu, but I'll order it every now and then."

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (30 March 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntI was twenty years old... I was with the fella that I'm still with today. It was a year into our relationship. I had also lost my virginity to him several months before. He was so sweet, NEVER forced me - didn't even bug me about it, really. He truly loved me, and I think what really made me comfortable was the fact that he has always loved me - without the oral sex. Therefore, the oral sex was just a sweet bonus to an already great thing.

I admit, I was a little scared of the prospect of oral sex, but one day that comfort level grew and we were able to share that experience together. he was just so sweet about it... compassionate, patient, enthusiastic at all the right times...

As for whether or not I liked it, well - it grew on me. I didn't hate it or anything, I was just sort of awkward and didn't really know what to do. But I did really love the EXPERIENCE and the EVENT of it all. Good memories. But the actual act? A little nerve-racking. After a good couple of months o' practice, though, I came through. Now I'm a major fan!

Hope this helps with your survey...

xx India

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Before ORAL sex was known??? Man get real! Oral sex has been popular long before slavery, long before Columbus discovered America, long before there was a Jesus Christ!

It's not something recently discovered....it's just became more popular and prevelant when a well liked former president....wrongly decreed it as "not being sex" and every person in the world went buck wild with it. I can't answer your question, because as a true straight male...I've never 'sucked a dick'! But the first time it was performed on me, I was 6 years old and she was my 14 year old babysitter...that was 1965. Next was a 17 year old

again I was 6 years old. Next time I was 9 years old and the 3 girls were between 8 and 11 years old(1968) And then again in 1969 my cousin did me, and I just recently found out that she is 6 years older, so I was 10 and she was 16.

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A female reader, just-ask-xx United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2008):

just-ask-xx agony auntOkay, well I was 18 and I did it to my boyfriend who I met at high school and umm no I didn't like it, and I still don't so...hope this answers your question/survey thing and I hope you find your results!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Dear Male age 41-50 Anonymous,

I was 19 years old.. No, wait, I think I was 20 when I performed my very first fellatio. I can't remember if it was when I was 19 or 20, but Eh, close enough, hehe.

My first boyfriend was the lucky guy to receive it. I think, I did a poor job on it the first few times as I was inexperienced, but he seemed to like it and exploded everywhere.. So I must have done something right? =) (Even though, I didn't think so)

As for the last question that you had asked.. I am not quite sure how to respond to that. I don't even know if I even liked giving b.j.'s, but I do know that I did it only because I loved him and seeing him happy was all that mattered to me. I never swallowed though.. I think, I might try it someday.. when I am in a proper loving relationship, of course!

Good Luck with your survey. Let us know what the results are, yes?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

I was 19 years old, he was my first serious boyfriend and he used a subtle blend of light pressure on me and extreme encouragement whenever i dared to try anything.

I must admit i liked it from the start, my boyfriend and i had a very honest relationship so he didn't have a problem telling me what he liked and what he didn't and guiding me in the best way to get the right reaction. if you're with a man that you trust and who's honest with you and supportive it can be a really wonderful expereience.

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