A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have been married for 4 years and i have been together for 7 years i have had bad past relashioships with guys cheating on me and me catching them and my husband now i thnk he is doing the same everytime he goes out the door my mind starts to fly everywhere i dont trust him but in would love to how do i rebuild trust by being hurt so bad from my past Reply to this Question |
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (29 March 2008):
Why not try to go out as a couple ?
You should share his interest and go out with him whenever possible.
I know of happy couples who do everything together.
Then you will not have trust issues.
The more you do activities together,
the more you will stay together.
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male
reader, q1605 +, writes (29 March 2008):
Don't make him pay for the past you had with other men. Unless there is concrete behavior to make you think he is being untrustworthy. You know if you are holding him to impossible standards or transferring your insecurities about you past husbands on to him
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