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How can I learn to trust my husband?

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Question - (29 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have been married for 4 years and i have been together for 7 years i have had bad past relashioships with guys cheating on me and me catching them and my husband now i thnk he is doing the same everytime he goes out the door my mind starts to fly everywhere i dont trust him but in would love to how do i rebuild trust by being hurt so bad from my past

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (29 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntWhy not try to go out as a couple ?

You should share his interest and go out with him whenever possible.

I know of happy couples who do everything together.

Then you will not have trust issues.

The more you do activities together,

the more you will stay together.

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A male reader, q1605 United States +, writes (29 March 2008):

q1605 agony aunt Don't make him pay for the past you had with other men. Unless there is concrete behavior to make you think he is being untrustworthy. You know if you are holding him to impossible standards or transferring your insecurities about you past husbands on to him

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