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writes:Im 16 and my boyfriend is 21, ive been with him now for eight months. It was great when we first got with each other, he used to pay so much attention to me. After we had been dating for two months, he decided to go in the army now i just feel like he dosent want to talk to me. He doesnt answer his phone when i ring, and when he finally answers he makes up some excuse.He comes home every other weekend but he dosent spend any time with me. All he does is go down his mates, and then he dosent answer his phone. I just feel like he is using me for when he comes home i really dont know what to do!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Tell him that you want to meet and have a chat and find out for certain just what is going on. You cannot go on like this, but also what does he think he is playing at? If he comes home and doesnt see you but goes out with his mates then i would want to know why. You need some answers and you want them now. You are so young, why should you sit at home and wait for him? Have that chat and see what happens, if nothing changes then be prepared to walk away. You dont deserve to be treat like that and why should you put up with it. Talk.
take care
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