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Married one year and I've never had sex because I lose my erection whenever I attempt intercourse! Where can I get treatment in the Netherlands or anywhwere else?

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Question - (29 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2008)
A male Netherlands age 51-59, anonymous writes:

i am married 1 year before still i dont have sex with my wife. becoase when i try to insert my pene into my wifes virgina. my peney was going down(become strongless) so i am so sad that i cant have a sex with my wife. i thing it was related mental problam.so please give me a good answer.

any if there is a tratement in nederlands mention the place.

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A male reader, Yos Netherlands +, writes (29 March 2008):

Yos agony auntIt is most likely a psychological issue, since you can get an erection, but you lose it when trying to have sex with your wife.

I suggest you speak to your doctor (huisarts) and ask them to recommend a therapist to you who has experience with sexual conditions. You should also check your medical insurance (vesekering) to see if you can upgrade it to cover this treatment.

vriendelijke groetjes

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A female reader, natasia United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2008):

natasia agony auntI think you need to sort out what your psychological problem is. Certainly after a year of this you will have a big mental block about it now. You need to work out how it started. You don't say if you've ever had sex with your wife - was it OK before you got married?

I suspect you need professional help with this. I think you should go to a sex counsellor as well as looking into medication, but I think the counselling would be better than taking pills. You can't take pills forever. You need to sort out what's worrying you. Good luck. : )

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (29 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntGo to your GP and he can deal with it.

You can go to this link and read about the natural remedies;-

http://altmedicine.about.com/cs/conditionsetoh/a/erectiledysfunc.htm

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Hi Hunny

Im going to send you a link...

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/erectiledysfunction/index.shtml

I hope this help sweetheart there are also herbal pills you can buy on the net...

http://www.sexhealth.co.uk/

They are called VigRX I have sent you a link that will also help with other issues so I hope you get some luck from these TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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