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How can I reduce my sexual interest??

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Question - (29 March 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2008)
A male India age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I am not getting sexual satisfaction as i have expected that minimum once or twice a day with my wife.

But my wife is not ready to cope up with this, she simply forcefully agrees and shows no interest.

This becomes a big headache for me. I dont want to go somewhere to satisfy my wants and dont want to cheat my wife.

Hence friend, kindly help me to reduce my sexual interest totally, don't advice me for councelling or anything

Just simply give the name of the pills medicines and food habits to get rid of from sexual desire.......

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

Hi Hunny

I canot advise you on pills to reduce your sexual desire, You will need to see a doctor for this.. When you say you want the minimum sex once or twice a day and you have obviously talked with your wife about this hunny she may feel a little pressured to perform once or twice everyday...It can put woman under pressure just as it can a man if he were expected to perform at least once or twice a day, So go and see your doctor hunny, And maybe a little massage and giving your wife other attentions along those lines may help also TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

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A male reader, honeyross United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2008):

honeyross agony auntYou shouldn't try to physically reduce your libido through drugs, etc. A healthy sexual appetite is a sign of good health.

If you gradually reduce the amount of sex you have, your body will also need it a little less often.

I wouldn't suggest reducing sex too suddenly - your wife might think something is wrong. Also, I wouldn't suggest stopping sex completely because it's an important part of a good marriage.

I think you might want to try focusing on the intimacy that goes with sex - women love this. You could try massage, or doing other things to make her feel more special.

She could eventually also start enjoying sex if you find out what she likes in bed - if you don't want to talk about it, you could experiment and see from her reaction whether or not she likes it.

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