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writes:Ok so me and my girlfriend broke up cause all we did was fight now because of her im going through alot of changes such as my anger the way i treat people my self centeredness, now just tonight we had a great talk she said she had her guard up wich i understand at this point she cant promise me she wont date anyone else.but as far as we go she cant promise we will get back together which i understand but she has said she can only offer me friendship now should i settle for this in hopes of us getting back together or should i say no because i know it would kill me if we a friends and me having the feeling i have for her it would kill me if i found out she was seeing someone or going on dates.YEs we would be friends but my end result is to try to get back with her, she dont know if this will happen and cant promise that we will get back together or not or if she will date or not. So the question is, take the chance and hope for the best that we will get back together (knowing she may go out with someone) or self preservation - avoid the pain that may or maynot come
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): I would try to build back your relationship with friendship. Tell her how much you care about her and about your feelings of other guys being with her. Don't tell her that she can't, the last thing she needs is to feel trapped. Open yourself up and offer yourself completely if you want to be with her and only her.
Just make her feel loved and she'll see what a great guy you really are.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (29 March 2008):
 Take the hands of friendship that is offered to you .
Take each day as it comes.
Do not expect too much from her and this could make your relationship grow.
This way , you will become more free and you will find that
there will be more space to grow because you do not have any
more constraints or borders.
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