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writes:Ugh, this is so unfair.Bascially I'm 16 and I'm not a loser or anything. I do have friends and I'm socially accepted. I just don't hangout with anyone much.whyyyyyyy??I try to initiate a time where we can hangout but really it doesn't work. I'm alone at home most of the time. Like sometimes there like, oh yeah let's do that, then they call again, oh, I can't. WTF????I DONT wanna bring a group to my house, I wanna be invited... It's not fair! Maybe they secretly don't like me or something? I don't know. Please tell me what I can do. Reply to this Question
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reader, scythe  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 its hard to meet just to "hang out" sometimes. try and organise an activity that you can all participate in while hanging out. like, laser gaming/paintballing, going to the beach, having a bbq. stuff like that. i find that when i meet with friends and we have a shared activity to focus on, hanging out is so much fun.
and if they dont invite you over maybe its time to find new friends.
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reader, Nibblet +, writes (29 March 2008):
 I know what you mean, im like the same way. It sucks cuz im always home alone behind a computer all day talk to people online, it not the same cuz your not there wit them.
Wat i did was join drama club and we would there for like 3 hours and then we'd go out to eat or just hang out. Or you and plan to go to a movie with a bunch of friends cuz if one cant go then theres always 1 or 2 more people going then hang out after or somethin. You cant always be invited tho you kinda got to show your friends that you can be fun and cool to hang out with, its sad but kinda true, when i hang out with some of my friends they sometimes not invite some people cuz they know that they're going to be boring.
Hope this helped! Message me if you want to talk.
Good Luck!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): hmm, kind of like me. try to start making new friends and hanging out with them. like, some of my friends are like making new friends and kicking me to the curb and all i can do is stay strong and talk to other people and get closer with other people. you need friends that will want to be with you and not blow you off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): maybe you should try to meet new people . hang out wit people you don't usually hang out with? They probably like you but other things come up and get in the way of you hanging out with them . Maybe get some online friends so you don't feel so alone at home... maybe do a group thing at the movies so if one person can't come it won't be such a big deal and you can still hang out with the other people. That's all the advice I have for you. I hope it helped ....
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