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He's scared to explode inside of me! Why?

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Question - (13 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 June 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, *howstopper writes:

My sex life is great but only 1 thang thats wrong my sexpartner is scared to explode inside of me. I told him that its hard for me to have kids (don't want none) but its that warm feeling that goes inside of me that i'm misssing. He knows i'm on birth control pills also and he don't want to use a condom. should i just forget about it or WHAT?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008):

q1605, yes you can feel it, and it's rather nice.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

Tell him you're totally willing to just go get an abortion if you get pregnant. That should do the trick.

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A female reader, lotus mama808 United States +, writes (13 June 2008):

lotus mama808 agony auntThats odd. Most guys are tickled by the idea of finishing inside! He must be really scared of getting you pregnant. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel about it, because your communication with him will not only effect your relationship, but your sexlife too. Maybe he isnt entirely eduated on birth control. Perhaps showing him the instruction packet that comes with your birth control will better educate him and ease his mind on the topic.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008):

I do not know how long you have been in the relationship; yes I fully understand what you are refering too; however, he might still be cautious, the pill is not always safe. I suggest you give it time and enjoy each other for the time being.

I do think he should use a condom if he is concerned.

yes, relax and enjoy your relationship!

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