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writes:Does anyone after a relationship has ended that they didn't matter to the other person at all?I have been feeling this way. Broken up since October last year. Trying to be friends now- not going too well. Even though I am not attracted to him for how he turned out to be (liar and cheated many many times), I resent the fact that life didn't change for him at all. He still has his friends around, in familiar surroundings, doing what he always did. Feels like after two and a half years together, my leaving didn't make an iota of difference to his life. N that makes me very sad!
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reader, Relatefull :).  +, writes (13 June 2008):
Try not too think about it i no that will seem stupid too hear but iv been in this situation i was with my boyfriend for a while and we split up in november of last year he still does what he always has done and tryin to be friends with him is impossible i think sometimes he never even liked me because i still have feelings for him even though iv had other relationships... but the fact is Your boyfriend did like you he just wants to hide his feelings do not give him a second Glance! if he makes no effort to be friends with you Dont waste you time x
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reader, loveguru23  +, writes (13 June 2008):
Some people have a different way of expressing how they really feel. He may not show that he cared about breaking up but he most likely did. Two and a half years is a very significant time. So just try your best to get over the break-up with him and move on to the next person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): Dont be sad, be happy that you got away from someone so insensitive. Men only really react to the end of relationships if their ego has been hurt in some way. Your unhappy feelings will only make him feel good about himself, because someone still cares enough about him to give him a thought. If you had been a bitch to him and hurt his male pride when you split up, he would be shouting it from the rooftops.
Dont torture yourself with it anymore. Move on, find someone else to invest your precious thoughts and time in and never think of him again.
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