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writes:I have a huge thing going for a teacher at my school....I have had a huge crush on him since the beginning of the year when I was a freshman. I'm a junior now and the feeling is still there. Now I don't think this is just a crush anymore. He wasn't a teacher of mine but I would see him everyday and now that I have taken summer school to get ahead I see him more because he is teaching there too. Lets call him JR. Well "JR" doesn't know who I am. He's seen me walking in the halls, but I'm just another kid in the crowd. I am not trying to act upon any of my feelings but I just want to greet "JR" how do I go upon doing this? I will NOT let him know my feelings for him, but I constantly find myself daydreaming about JR that I haven't been able to learn anything in summer school. What should I do? I want to be one of the students that he will say hi to in the halls but that is hard for me since he doesn't know me and I don't have him for a class... Please help!
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reader, sarah3092 +, writes (18 June 2008):
sarah3092 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think he is about 28-30 yrs old. I'm 16. I believe he has a girlfriend but is not married and does not have kids. I am not sexually attracted to him and it's not what I like him for. There is just something about him but i don't know what it is...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Hi there,
I to have a thing for my teacher at my school but trust me,if you have had a crush on this guy/girl since you were a freshmen(same time I met mine)and still havn't made clear to him then this is probibly just a crush or a fase nothing else.Im not saying to give up,if I gave up I wouldn't of had the fun I did with mine.Try to talk to him get to know "JR" better.Then start trying to flirt with him until it's a evryday thing.If you still don't get a strong response from him then Im sorry but it's just that harsh way of life.Maybe you should find someone more your age.I can't really help you to much on this kind of thing without knowing more,post another question giving more detail and I might be able to help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Let me ask, how old is this teacher? Is he married? If not, he would probably feel flattered that you have a thing for him. Try and make friends with him, talk to some of the girls in his class that you know and try and find out if he's married or has a girlfriend. You want to be careful, because if you get involved with him and start having sex with him, he could go to prison, which would ruin his whole life. So it would be best to stay friends with him until you are 18 and out of school, then you could start dating him.
Can you tell me are you also sexually attracted to this teacher? Do you fantasize about having sex with him? What is it about him that makes you have a thing for him? Especially since he has never been your teacher?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Buy a journal and start writing down your feelings. You're right, you can't tell him about your feelings, so this is a good way to get them out.
There's no reason you can't say hello yourself, but do not expect anything from him.
And you do need to focus on your schoolwork. If you find yourself distracted, this might lead to poor performance, then what's the use of going to summer school? Wear a little rubber band on your wrist, and when you find yourself daydreaming, give it a little snap to nudge you back to what you need to be focusing on. Then look around at the other students who are working, and emulate them.
Good luck! I hope you do learn lots in summer school; that will make your future studies much easier!
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reader, Madam Taylor  +, writes (13 June 2008):
Real love is something that you experience between two people, real love happens when the other person makes you feel good. You can't love someone you don't really know. What you are experiencing is infactuation and you have it bad. You have created an entire person in your head, that is who you have the crush on. You dont know the real person. it is hard but you can get over it. Every time you think of him stop and try to think about other things, you can force yourself to do this. It is not healthy you need to be enjoying these kind of feelings with someone who feels the same about you. If this doesn't help then get up the guts and approach this teacher but I can promise you it won't be the outcome you are expecting. Don't waist your love in an imaginary world.
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