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writes:hi my dad has died 5 years ago every one makes fun off me because of this what should i do ???????????????????????????? Reply to this Question
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reader, Samhamss  +, writes (16 June 2008):
Man, I can really feel for you, I know the feeling, my dad died right around the age yours did. If children are seriously making fun of you for that, that's just wrong, no doubt. I feel that you should talk to someone about it, an adult maybe. Do not be aggressive, that will only cause problems. You need to confront the problem though. I suggest telling the people calmly how awful what they are doing is. If they continue, you need to talk to an adult(Teachers, Principles, etc.).
I can not stand that kind of behavior, when I hear about it, I just want to throw up. I really hope they stop.
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reader, sarahisgreat123 +, writes (13 June 2008):
thats just sickening. really how terrible. Kids really do suck sometimes.
I would just confront them, next time they say something just confront them and say "seriously? are you kidding? do you have any idea how hard it is to loose a parent? are you seriously going to make fun of me for it? because that is really low"
at least that will put them in line and even if the kid who is doing doesn't stop or tries to make a comeback, hopefully the people around you will see this and understand how terrible they are.
Dont just take that from them!
I wish you the best of luck and I am so sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): Awh I am so sorry to hear that. You should tell them that maybe one day they'll grow up and realise just how hard it is to lose someone.
How are these kids brought up?! Nothing can excuse behaviour like that. Stay strong sweetheart because they're being pathetic. If you ever need me I'm here, but I know your dad is watching over you and smiling so proudly. I'm sure you're a lovely person, these kids are just immature and sick. Don't cave in, keep strong, he loves you.
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Awww you poor thing! Ignore those people that are making fun out of you, they obviously don't understand the pain in which you've been through! All I can say is that they're very immature! but being at a young age, their lack of support isn't surprising! Whenever these people say mean stuff to you regarding your loss, speak up for yourself! Let them know, that they're hurting your feelings. It might put a stop to it, if it doesn't see a teacher and ask them to sort it out! Best of luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): You know some very strange and sick people. Big hugs to you, you must be feeling very sad and hurt at the moment.
Probably they don't know what to say, and joking about it helps them deal with their own inadequate feelings. All you can do is to tell them to stop making fun at you because you loved your dad very much and miss him with all your heart, then walk away if you can.... I'm so sorry that people are treating you like this. They are idiots.
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reader, dummyduckling +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Awww sweetheart... thats is really sad to hear that people can make fun out of such severe pain. all you can do is ignore them sweetie, im sure your dad would not have wanted you to start fighting with them. talk to your mum and the head teacher at school, you should not be allowed to go through this, at your age its just not right. talk to an adult you can trust.
i hope this helps sweetie.
DummyDuckling666
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (13 June 2008):
 They probably just don't know what to say
But still, what they are doing is unexceptional
Tell an adult
Try to ignore them even if it is hard, they are the people who aren't going to grow up with respect and pride trust me
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): man Im sorry to hear about this.Im almost speachless I cant belive that anyone would make fun of somebody for that.Try to conntact their parents about it(personally I would kick every single one of their asses)but try not to if you don't have to.
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 The words "dad died" and "fun" dont belong in the same sentence. I cant believe kids find losing a parent funny!!! What if it were their parent? You arnt explaining this in detail, so it's kind of hard to give help, but just from the question, I am so sorry that you are not only suffering the loss, but suffering from other kids too. It isnt right, and I am so sorry. Most people would tell you to go to an authority figure (parents, teacher, principal) but I know that doing that may worsen your problem. Try to ignore it if you can. Be the bigger person, and focus on other things, school, hobbies and friends. Eventually, these kids will realize that they are not bothering you any more, and they will move on to some other poor kid to pick on. As they grow up they will realize that their behavior sucks and they will hopefully stop picking on people. Otherwise, one day they will pick on the wrong person and regret it. Good luck, I feel for you. Stay strong, and focus on you, the only person that matters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): I am sorry to hear that you have lost your father. So have my two boys, now aged 20 and 13. It is not easy, but I cannot understand why the kids are making fun of you.For what reason?
Maybe if you tell me more I can understand better!
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 well hun u should just ask them to f u c k off..if u lost your father then its nothing to make fun about,instead they should be supportive..bunch of retards is what u call such people..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): Well tell who ever is in charge of you to talk to their parents, or better, tell their parents, I'd kick thier ass if they made fun of me like that, thats just no right.
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reader, silvia{love}  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 woah!this is a pretty crucial case. normally i'd tell you to ignore them but that wont make them stop would it?have you told your mom about it?have you told your head teacher about this also and did they take any action?if you havent done any of this then please do.you are 10-12 yrs and tooooo young to go through this psychological torture and finally dnt worry about what people do or say to you because am sure your dad loves you and would watch over you. you gona turn out great...believe me.
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