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writes:I've been wondering for some time now. What does sex feel like for a woman. It sounds really immature i'm sure, but I've always been curious as to what the physical sensations must be like for my significant other. I've talked to a few female friends and they struggled to describe it as anything less than abstract. I've searched this site and only been able to find women describing orgasms or painful intercourse. I'm hoping a larger pool could enlighten my male mind. I'd really like to get past the simple "good" "wonderful" etc. and away from the abstract.I can barely imagine what it must be like from my perspective (obviously). I'd really like to hear female perspectives on the phyical feelings of it.I look forward to hearing from all the great agony aunts...Thanks in advance for the enlightenment
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2008): Sex:
1st time, it just was nice because it felt naughty. I think the element of mischief made the privacy with my significant other even more intimate. As you may know, for woman, sex is more pleasurable in an emotional sense, rather than physical. (although, sex feels incredible physically too) I think the thing about sex is that it has to be with the right person (and of course, that varies from person to person), and it is an intimate trust. My favorite part is that nobody else usually knows what my boyfriend and I are up to, and we hoard ourselves in private spots where we can be together, alone. The fun part is the anticipation. The fact that his orgasmic stimulation is coming from him, is the part that makes sex and all the messy parts of it wonderful. With sex, you get to know somebody really well, and also what parts of them turn them on, or drive them crazy. I guess, if you need a literal description from a female what it feels like for them, I would have to say it is both a give and take, but it happens at the same time too. I enjoy watching and performing for my boyfriend, but when he does it to me, I feel relaxed, comfortable, the safest I can ever feel, really motivated to climb all over him, soft, both exterior and interior, wet, perfect for him to go mad, when he is first going inside me, it feels like he is creating energy and letting me keep it, it feels like putting on a silk glove, I guess; his penetration makes me feel like I have nowhere else to be, and that I am surrendering to the safest place of him. Its like finding the perfect puzzle piece and finally making it fit in its spot so easily; it feels like that. It feels like a wet sticky mess, but a very good wet sticky mess.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): I'm sorry it's difficult for me to explain in words. I think it's because the sensation is beyond words. I hope you can translate because it's more like "ohhh...ohhh....ahhhhahh....OWWWOWOWOWOWOWOWOWOW..ah"I'm not really sure how to say that in english.
It feels like, the relief from an itch that you've been trying to scratch for a hundred years, and finally manage to reach. Sorry, but I just have no words to describe the feeling.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (14 June 2008):
 Oh yea tisha the pc muscle any woman can practice this and men as well hunny for that matter, And squeeze I do this all the time to keep my pc in good working order as tisha said as the penis is sensitive more so to the tip then if your girl squeezes just as your movments are going out it can be very arousing for you, nice one Tisha def an eye popping one mate thats a very important peice of info TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, taina1980 +, writes (13 June 2008):
I luv this question? first off I commend you for even caring! ok, well every girl is diffrent just like every guy... an orgasm to me is like a sneeze... its over before you kno what hit you... sometimes depending on the partner it can feel like a whale eating a tic tac( you get the picture) some guys think that man handling a woman is sexy... by this I mean banging it to hard & way too damn deep that is painful... that I will telll you Its not pleasurable for a woman... it feels like your insides are going to fall out! have you evr had some one poke you with there finger over & over again? well if you have, gets annoying doesn't it? well sometimes sex can feel just as annoying... omg & what is worst than a guy who thinks he's working it when he absolutely isnt?im sure the ladies can understand me on that one...
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (13 June 2008):
 When you say 'sex' are you referring to intercourse?
Again, all women are different, so this would be my response.
It's warm, filling, fulfilling, somehow completing or filling a void, a need for as intimate a connection as you could make. It can be hot, or gentle, and both are good depending on the mood and the mental state of arousal you're in. Different positions also change the way a penis feels inside, you can be made aware of your own internal anatomy if your cervix gets pushed against in an uncomfortable one.
You want to envelop him, all of him. Squeezing the PC muscle is fun too, especially when his eyes widen at that one.
Have fun with your 'research!'
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (13 June 2008):
Hi Hunny
Everyone is different so I guess everyones feelings will be different..Its just like what turns you on may not turn another person on love....My fiance told me last night I pressed his big red button!!!!!So Im guessing for him its good :) for me sex is alot of different things its a build up to the orgasm but also making my partner feel good and him orgasming is very important to me as it turns me on to turn him on...The touch is important the way you conect. To be touched is a real turn on for me and for it to be slow at first makes the feeling tingling all over, Although I could just jump on him I kinda tease myself by making myself wait as the feelings that go through my body are not quite the feelings of orgasm but close, And the only way I can describe that is a rush of tingling sensations running all up and down the body..The whole experience is so warm and the feelings pleasurable that you really dont want to rush..although now and again half cloths on sex is exciting...From kissing of the neck that is when the sensation starts.. Feelings of anticipation exitment and tingling it feels warm and urgent the best legal high in the world...keeps you young hunny An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away!!!!:) NOW I WAS SUPPOSED TO BE GETTING IN THE BATH!!!!THANKS! TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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