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writes:I'm sixteen and my boyfriend and i have been together for 11 months now. Lately he's been reacting to me in a vague way and I've got it into my head that he wants to finish it. I'm not sure whether its my own insecurity. We've talked about it but its not helped. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2008): Why worry about something that's not happened? You talked to him about your fears, and I assume that he told you he had no intention of leaving you. You say he's been vague around you. Maybe he has problems you know nothing about. Maybe he's worried about college/work or private family business or some other secret. His vagueness may have nothing to do with you at all. Anyway, he's with you at the moment, stop worrying and think of nice things to do in your relationship that will make you both smile and give you good memories no matter what may happen in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): Actions speak louder than words and guys communicate better with actions. you just have to learn how to read them. It would be much easier to answer your question if you could give an example of how he is being vague compared to before. Also if he is the same age as you, trust me, he'll probably want to date other people someday. Guys have a hard time sticking to one girl.
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