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My boyfriend's mom doesn't like me. She makes me feel so unwelcome. What can I do?

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Question - (23 January 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend and i are very much in love but his mum keeps interferring, she wont even let him come round mine anymore, i know his mum doesnt like me and makes me feel very unwelcomed but my boyfriend is old enough to make his own decisions and she is really putting a strain on our relationship, i really dont know what to do because it is really upsetting me being told when i can and cant see my boyfriend, i dont want to end our relationship but i dont want to keep feeling so upset all the time. What should i do ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007):

My boyfriends mom is kinda like that, i mean you're not dating his mom so let it go, its hard but she will have to accept that you guys arnt going to break up just because she doesnt accept of you. Eventually she will get over it and stop being so uptight.

Good Luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007):

My boyfriend's mom is the same exact way with me. She's such a b***h to me she won't even smile or say hi sometimes. She walks with her arms crossed when i'm around and she looks down and she seems angry. I just ignore her. She's lame as hell. Talk to your boyfriend about it. He has to do something about it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007):

sh**, my boyfriend's mom is the same exact way with me. She's such a bit** to me she won't even smile or say hi sometimes. She walks with her arms crossed when i'm around and she looks down and she seems angry. I just ignore her. She's lame as hell. Talk to ur boyfriend about it. He has to do something about it.

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A female reader, x..HelpfulWun..x United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2007):

x..HelpfulWun..x agony auntAnd? Not being rude but it doesnt matter. tell youre boyfriend and he would hopefully say to his mum 'lighter up on her' type thing. anyway your not going out with her so just carry on....you and your bf likes each other? good!

good luck

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (23 January 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou don'r say how old your boyfriend is so I can't say whether his mother is being controling or not. I can say that if you were my little girl (and I've had two girls and one boy your age)I'd be telling you if you could see this boy (probably not), when you could see this boy, where you could see this boy, and how you could see this boy...you get my drift? You are a very young person and in my opinion you should be out with friends and not tied down to one guy.

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