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*oopyLou
writes:I really like this guy I work with and I'm pretty sure he likes me too but the flirting and the hinting has gone on for so long now, I just want to know if he likes me in the same way as I like him. But I want to think of a way of asking him how he feels without laying all my cards on the table. Is that actually possible and if so, how?!
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reader, Nikita +, writes (23 January 2007):
 Good luck. go for it girl! You wont know until you take the plunge. Hope it works. Let me knowx
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reader, LoopyLou +, writes (23 January 2007):
LoopyLou is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYep tried aaaaalllll that... touching his arm, dropping hints, and none of the subtle stuff has worked! He's a guy, unless I take my top off and say "How about it?!" I'm thinking he's never gonna get the idea!! So I've decided that I'm going to ask him round to my place this evening and be brave and tell him I like him as more than a friend and see what happens!! Wish me luck!!!
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reader, Nikita +, writes (23 January 2007):
Hi there, it certainly sounds as if he likes you but you two could be going on like this for ages if one of you doesnt make a move. It sounds like he's too shy to do it so you have to get in there! If you dont want to lay all your cards on the table for fear of rejection then just casually say, 'we'll have to go for a drink some time' and see what he says. From his response you should be able to tell how he feels Really hope it works out for you. Good luckx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): Hi, if you figure it out as well, please let me know. I am in the same situation as rhythmandblues2. The flirting is driving me nuts but so far no definite move from him. We have gotten together twice for lunch but both times were definitely not dates (i.e, lunch at food court and we each paid ourselves). After all that, the boy still has not asked me out even just for after work drinks. The uncertainty is getting to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007): I am having the same problem, if you figure out something let me know....I think I am going to lay my cards on the table and tell him that I must be crazy because he isn't asking me out, but I feel like there is something going on between us, more so than the other women he flirts with at the office, he really seems to like me a lot, and in fact I resisted his attention which was very strong at first, but has now tapered off a bit because I got angry with him for takig something out on me at work when he found out I had a date....I think he isn't asking me out because we work together, but I am soon leaving my job for another, so before I leave I am going to lay it out like that and let the chips fall where they may....
If I were you, I would just continue being friendly and try touching his arm if you haven't already to let him know you like him and want to be closer....he will get he idea and maybe he will get up the courage to ask you out.
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