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I paid her debts and helped her get back on her feet..then she dumps me! What should I do?

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Question - (23 January 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

2 years ago I met this girl who was living with another woman and her 2 children. we fell in love and she split with the woman. we got engaged a few months later. she fell pregnant and had baby. i paid off her debt, bills, fixed her house, bought furniture, electrical gear. spoilt her rotten. then i went on holiday with relatives. she texted me to say we were finished. i returned home to find her life planned out without me, and that she was pregnant again. now she hates me and wishes me dead, wants my money though. I now have an idea that she is back in contact with her ex partner, but have no proof. She is happily living in her house with all the gear I paid for. I am heartbroken, and she is reveling in the fact.

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A female reader, melschatbox United States +, writes (23 January 2007):

melschatbox agony auntShe's a woman of the worst kind!! Unfortunately, there are women and men like this in the world!! All you can do is learn from it...and get as far away from her as possible. Look for a woman that will love YOU not your money. You helped her get back on her feet and obviously that's all she was looking for. She is a user and a disgrace as a woman, g/f, and mother. Learn from it...and move on!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2007):

This is an extremely horrible situation for you. For her to do that obviously shows to you that if she can be this inconsiderate then is she even really worth knowing? For the time being i suggest not to have any contact with her. Don't let her know how you feel or whats going on. And for all the things you have done/brought for her you could try talking to a lawyer to see where you stand. If this doesn't work maybe organise seeing her and go to luch to sit down and talk about it all.

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